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  1. Thank you all very much. You have all give such...

    Thank you all very much. You have all give such helpful and insightful answers. Some times we just need a nudge in the right direction as we are often too focused on the emotional difficulties we are...
  2. That is some sound advice and I'll try to...

    That is some sound advice and I'll try to remember that for next time tickle. Haha, Will do, Eh! ;P
  3. We were never married, and we've been to court...

    We were never married, and we've been to court but they gave her 100% custody, and pretty much that's all that matters because it's not worth going to court knowing the other person has the final...
  4. Thank you again Tickle, I have been doing...

    Thank you again Tickle, I have been doing research, but I was hoping maybe someone would know some other sources or points I could make to defend my daughter's right to being apart of my life and me...
  5. That's really good idea thanks. Oh I have...

    That's really good idea thanks.

    Oh I have many questions. But for now just finding a way to defend my daughters right to experience both parents whole heartedly. I just need to find a way for...
  6. Sorry chuck I had intended that for Tickle. I've...

    Sorry chuck I had intended that for Tickle. I've always respected your answers. You're advice of reason and understanding and insightful.

    Yes another poster has suggested to do the same. I will...
  7. Sorry guys wasn't looking for a hand out just a...

    Sorry guys wasn't looking for a hand out just a little help, I haven't read every book and I'm not the best reader so I was just hoping there might be some other sources to look into. Was worth a...
  8. I have been thinking the same thing, but few are...

    I have been thinking the same thing, but few are willing to try and give historical evidence from other sources. They believe in the Bible or believe in what it represents and tend not to refer to...
  9. Yes I've been reading from their bible on line....

    Yes I've been reading from their bible on line. It's helpful and all but I was hoping there was some kind of historical evidence out there that wasn't from the bible. But I appreciate your...
  10. Dear poster, although I understand your point,...

    Dear poster, although I understand your point, I've posted here and gave references and I figured it was worth a shot to hear the words from some one who was apart of the religion. Maybe they could...
  11. Jehovah's Witness, some questions about the religion...

    I would like to know why Jehovah's witness' don't celebrate holidays and Their beliefs surrounding the sanctity of marriage and if some one "commits" adultery, to get a divorce, then where do they...
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    Works fine thanks.

    Works fine thanks.
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    Xbox 360 slim, Pass or epic fail?

    I'm looking into getting a new XBOX360 Slim. I want to know if any one has had any problems yet? Have they worked out the issues yet or did they just toss out a newer model like they did when the...
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    My mums computer crashed so bad I couldn't open...

    My mums computer crashed so bad I couldn't open anything, and even in safe mode it wouoldn't respond. So I took it in and one guy said 100 for diagnostics 250 to fix. I went to another guy and he...
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    My mums lap top has a virus...

    Hi guys,

    So I got a trojan somehting rather on my mum's lap top and now I can't get it to do any thing. It first asked me to down load something but I wasnt' paying attention so I clicked...
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    I have gotten too far away from what I am looking...

    I have gotten too far away from what I am looking for. All I want was some suggestions on how to cope, manage, deal with the lose of my child. As that is surely how it feels.

    the legal...
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    This8384, Your reasoning may seem sound in that I...

    This8384, Your reasoning may seem sound in that I have left out things, but you make it sound as though I intended for that. I assure you, I have not. I suggest that a less accusing and judgemental...
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    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/children/loss-child-...

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/children/loss-child-due-seperation-468973.html

    I'll refer you to this one...

    Mind you I didn't intend them to be linked, they are quiet separate.

    This one,...
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    You could say that the loss of my child, not to...

    You could say that the loss of my child, not to death through separation, has left me lost and weak, cold, heartless, angery, and empty, but not like depression of my bipolar. No this is different,...
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    loss of child due to separation

    Ok guys, I'm a Dad.

    had a baby about a year and a half ago... Here mum was with another guy we don't know who the father was. So I stepped aside knowing that the other guy felt threatoned by me,...
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    Bipolar compared to Schizophrenia

    It's been along time since I've been here... It's like coming back to a home you never lived in...

    People with schizophrenia hear voices, see things, feel things, smell things, even taste...
  22. Jake2008, Yes, I agree it is all very...

    Jake2008,

    Yes, I agree it is all very unstable. You may be right, maybe none of us is ready to be a parent. But as J.D. off scrubs, says, "Are you ever?" YouTube - Scrubs - Jd's Baby - Jose...
  23. She treats me like Tim Treats her... :rolleyes: I...

    She treats me like Tim Treats her... :rolleyes: I spose I could just man up and grow up and get over myself eh? Still, I wonder why is she always so, I love you so much (cry cry), especially when...
  24. My ex is fickled, as she says, could she have a personality disorder?

    Hi guys, here it is, My ex keeps saying she wants me, and loves me then tells me that I"m annoying and she can't stand me, what the f__K?! Ok i can understand she is confused in some ways but why...
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    Hi holly, My life is similar to that of...

    Hi holly,

    My life is similar to that of yours. I've recently realised why I have these issues. I hope that my explaining myself, and my situation helps you.

    So, when I was younger I...
  26. (Empathetically smiles) I can see how you may...

    (Empathetically smiles) I can see how you may think she is a bad seed, but she really is just like you and I, but had a rough life. One that I wish I could have saved her and countless others from;...
  27. I have done this just the other day. Set the...

    I have done this just the other day. Set the boundaries, so that we are to make it more like a business deal. I pick the baby up and drop her off and other than that, nothing. No friends or...
  28. We are discussing our custody/gaurdian...

    We are discussing our custody/gaurdian ship/access(as it's call in Canada, for visitation). We hit a snag though with the whole, her ex being at her place. He spends the nights, and that's not...
  29. Setting boundaries with the mother of my child, Am I Cold/Heartless or just mean?

    Ok, so here it is.

    I got a beautiful and amazing women pregnant, but she loved some one else, so she left me for him. We didn't know she was pregnant at that time. Then a month later she...
  30. Trust me, I'm going to be there for my baby, even...

    Trust me, I'm going to be there for my baby, even if it's going to mean that I have to be there for her mother when she is having issues. After all, if my ex isn't well, how can I expect her to take...
  31. Well, test is in mate, I'm the happy and proud...

    Well, test is in mate, I'm the happy and proud father of a beautiful healthy 10 month old baby girl. My wallet is open to her now, and I bought her food as she had none, no I really mean none. She...
  32. When are we reckless with our heart, and when is someone Reckless with our heart.

    When do you know when you are being reckless with your heart, and when do you know that some one is being reckless with yours?

    What a doozie eh? How can we be reckless with our own heart; by...
  33. THe only support we truly get is that of our own....

    THe only support we truly get is that of our own. Try to remember that when you're alone.
  34. THank you all, and I will continue to do as I...

    THank you all, and I will continue to do as I have and reasure her that theropy may be the best opption. She does not respond well to aggressive resoning, so I will play it as it comes and see where...
  35. It's a scary time high school, as there are so...

    It's a scary time high school, as there are so many things happening.

    You would be wise to realise that people do change and meet new people. It's OK if she gets a new friend, and it's OK...
  36. Good to be back. Well here is the thing,...

    Good to be back.

    Well here is the thing, she isn't into the Riki nor hypnosis, she wants something more Objective and visible. ALso, she doesn't think hypnosis is an invation on things that...
  37. Night terrors, anxiety/panic attacks, and extream abuse.

    HI guys,

    I've been away for a long time. Well, I can't talk about that now but I can say this, I need information for a girl friend.

    SHe has anxiety/panic attacks and says she feels...
  38. Question: Binge Drinking

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    Try to find support groups, as in my city there...

    Try to find support groups, as in my city there is a selter for women and their children. Elizabeth Fry society, and they can give you aid in this time of need and confution.

    AA, is a good...
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    People need time for themselves and alone. Just...

    People need time for themselves and alone. Just chill out, go for a walk, or hang with your friends, play video games, this is your time to do what you want use it wisely! :p:D;):cool:
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    Ok first, I'm a guy and you are way too attached...

    Ok first, I'm a guy and you are way too attached to this.

    You told us nothing important other than her not calling you is annoying you and playing on your insecurities, and you are having a...
  41. Question: Am I normal?

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    You may need to learn cognitive control , or at...

    You may need to learn cognitive control , or at the very least self control. Talk to a counsellor, as you may develop a serious issue with sex. If you can't control your thoughts you are not in...
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    Maybe he is just confused, or maybe he changed...

    Maybe he is just confused, or maybe he changed his mind?:confused:
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    Is there? Does it really matter? By trying to...

    Is there? Does it really matter? By trying to figure all that out you are destroying the moments of happiness with fears, and self doubt.

    You loose the substance buy grasping at it's...
  44. Some do, I guess it's best just to tell them how...

    Some do, I guess it's best just to tell them how you feel, and that it's not healthy and you won't put up with being brought down by them. Taking responsibility for your emotions is a hard thing to...
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    You are displaying very strong signs of CONFUSERS...

    You are displaying very strong signs of CONFUSERS (Patterns of thinking that confuse us.) such as; Misattribution (when some one blames the way they feel on other/s and things around them. Actually...
  46. P.S. not all abusers.. actually many abusers are...

    P.S. not all abusers.. actually many abusers are unaware of their abusing others. Especailly when it's emotional, as they are just trying so desperately to achieve their goals, whether it's control...
  47. Emotional abuse is when someone threatens or...

    Emotional abuse is when someone threatens or humiliates you. This includes calling you names, putting you down, insulting you, or breaking your things. Control is a huge part of emotional abuse and...
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    To the OP, If your parents relationship...

    To the OP,

    If your parents relationship was unhealthy chances are it messed up your entire preception of what is, what was, what maybe, and how it should be. Since you seemed to disassociate...
  49. "i guess im right this time ???"-You Are you? ...

    "i guess im right this time ???"-You
    Are you?

    What she thinks she wants, doesn't necessarrily mean it's what she needs.

    You can not Help her if she doesn't help her self, it's...
  50. Hmmm, yes the situation does seem to be more than...

    Hmmm, yes the situation does seem to be more than I can precive at the moment.

    I will say that it seems like your GF is focused too much on what she thinks should happen and not paying enough...
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