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    He's obviously no good for you, but what you are...

    He's obviously no good for you, but what you are feeling is not obsession towards him, it's fear of being alone. He just happens to be there so you use it as your reason to stay together. You say...
  2. Question: Girl trouble

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    Really? Do you hook up with other girls and...

    Really?

    Do you hook up with other girls and then lie to her about it?

    Do you continue to date your girlfriend, but the tell another girl you dumped her?

    Do you continue to tell someone who...
  3. Question: Girl trouble

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    I think you are scared and confused. I think you...

    I think you are scared and confused. I think you are scared of losing her, and I think you are confused by what she's telling you. Be real to yourself. I know you like her and I know this sucks,...
  4. Question: Girl trouble

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    Oh she did, Oh I see, when a person says they...

    Oh she did, Oh I see, when a person says they didn't lie, that would in itself never be a lie. Right?



    But she's back with this guy who she has nothing in common with and barely talks to? ...
  5. Question: Do I forgive him?

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    If you do forgive him, it's so that you can move...

    If you do forgive him, it's so that you can move on with your life and not to take him back. Other then that he can go f himself.
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    You are her doormat to dump all her problems on. ...

    You are her doormat to dump all her problems on. Move along.
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    So you've had 1 good year and 3 bad ones in a...

    So you've had 1 good year and 3 bad ones in a long distance relationship? I'm amazed it's lasted this long. I'd ask her if she's serious about this or just hanging on just because it's easy to do...
  8. Question: Girlfriend Trouble.

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    When a girl backs off, so do you.

    When a girl backs off, so do you.
  9. I missed the obvious reasons? You said yourself,...

    I missed the obvious reasons? You said yourself, she's independent, she has a child, and you've only been together for 7 months. Give her some room and do what she's asked. You are the one coming...
  10. Question: Girl trouble

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    You are choice number 2. It could never be love,...

    You are choice number 2. It could never be love, because she's not into you. She probably had a crush on you, but never really left her boyfriend like she claimed, and tested the waters with you. ...
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    Dude, you, and him, and her are all in high...

    Dude, you, and him, and her are all in high school. You will not (statistically speaking) spend the rest of your life with anyone from school. As for her, you go to prom as you have promised, then...
  12. Question: What should I do ?

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    Eye kant reed tis gibberash. Kan u leern 2 rite...

    Eye kant reed tis gibberash. Kan u leern 2 rite karectly?
  13. Action... :mad:Result... Action...

    Action...



    :mad:Result...



    Action...
  14. ... and it is YOUR trouble. Umm, like...

    ... and it is YOUR trouble.



    Umm, like millions of other teenagers?



    Hmmm, let's remember this.
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    You ask why God is so cruel. Is this the same...

    You ask why God is so cruel. Is this the same God that gave you a caring father, uncle, and grandmother? Is this the same God that has spared your life thus far despite you addictions? If anybody...
  16. Dude, she just dumped you and you are going to...

    Dude, she just dumped you and you are going to propose to her? HELLO!! The house is burning down, why would you run back in to put wood in the fireplace?

    Also, quit avoiding Tal's question, you...
  17. I'd call the cops and get the restraining order. ...

    I'd call the cops and get the restraining order. If nothing else, it might be the slap to the face that you are serious that wakes him up from what he's doing.
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    Are you stupid. Well no, your in love. But are...

    Are you stupid. Well no, your in love. But are your decsions stupid. Yeah very much so.

    Listen, this was over when she broke up with you the first time. Anything after that was just hanging...
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    Good, let me be the first. This man has put up...

    Good, let me be the first.

    This man has put up with your BS for a long time and doesn't deserve the pain you've already caused him. Why he stays with you is something only he can answer. But...
  20. What? Is this even serious? He makes this...

    What? Is this even serious? He makes this comment and you assume it's a racist comment? Is everything that doesn't make sense fall under racism to you? I honestly don't understand this...
  21. Why would you ask women for opinions of how the...

    Why would you ask women for opinions of how the male brain works?
  22. Question: Is he interested?

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    So did you ask him if you two would do anything...

    So did you ask him if you two would do anything when he got back?
  23. God you are being played. I mean really. Your...

    God you are being played. I mean really. Your ex cheats on you, claims she didn't know though, now she floats the carrot of the "future" in front of you and you sit there and take whatever she...
  24. Question: How is he over it?

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    I know it is. I've been there. The worst part...

    I know it is. I've been there. The worst part isn't the loss, it's the not understanding why, just wanting an explanation for the why is in many respects worse then the break up. I know this sucks...
  25. Question: How is he over it?

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    Sure it's possible... but not likely. Your life...

    Sure it's possible... but not likely. Your life is for you, and you must accept that this is a break up. I know we all want to get back together after the break up, we all hope this is some kind of...
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    Can you tell us exactly what he is bringing to...

    Can you tell us exactly what he is bringing to the table here? As an American male one of the reasons I absolutely fear marriage is because I've worked very hard to get what I have and I really...
  27. Question: How is he over it?

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    Hard to say from what you write caused the break...

    Hard to say from what you write caused the break up, but he's not freaking out. He has thought about this prior to actually announcing the plans to you. The reason he moves on so quick is that that...
  28. The short answer is she wants to use you for...

    The short answer is she wants to use you for anything she can get from you. So pack her bags or pack yours and get away from her.
  29. Question: I can't say no

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    Can I borrow 10 bucks?

    Can I borrow 10 bucks?
  30. From birth to death, life is constantly evolving...

    From birth to death, life is constantly evolving and people come and go. Family members will die, jobs will be changed, and friends will come and go. I ran into my best friend from high school...
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    This sounds like some kind of test. I wouldn't...

    This sounds like some kind of test. I wouldn't do anything until he contacts you again. If and when he does and if and when you meet up again or pursue this relationship, I'd tell him that that you...
  32. "Little things added up" means she probably...

    "Little things added up" means she probably didn't like what she saw when you stayed with her and didn't want to pursue it further to the point you'd move in together.
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    Keep bothering him and about it and he'll being...

    Keep bothering him and about it and he'll being dumping you, not the other way around. Is he lying to you... well probably. Is his what he did one time before you were around worth throwing 14...
  34. Question: Am I crazy

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    Obviously move on. This is not for you. But at...

    Obviously move on. This is not for you. But at work, no matter how bad the day, I beg of you to always put a smile on your face in front of her and keep any interaction short. Do not let her ever...
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    First quite posting new messages all over the...

    First quite posting new messages all over the board. It is hard to keep up with this.

    Second, let me be very honest with you. You are a puppy following a girl who isn't even in your country...
  36. You know this is your future husband despite the...

    You know this is your future husband despite the small yet quite incredible fact you've never met him?
  37. Break ups suck. I mean they suck. If it makes...

    Break ups suck. I mean they suck. If it makes you feel better you are not alone. Everyone posting here and quite honestly, most everybody on the planet has gone through this at least once. Here's...
  38. Sounds like an interest. What did he say when...

    Sounds like an interest. What did he say when you asked him why he contacted you and wants to visit?
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    Brother, this relationship is over. She's been...

    Brother, this relationship is over. She's been trying to get out of it one way or another for apparently a year. The mini break ups were like tests of courage for her. Every one she gained a...
  40. I think we all have been used in this situation...

    I think we all have been used in this situation where one party wants the relationship more the other and we allow ourselves to be used. But that is the key, WE are allowing it. At some point you...
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    Well I think they want the best of both worlds. ...

    Well I think they want the best of both worlds. They want to break up with you, but they also don't want to deal with the pain of the break up.
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    You made an oath to your husband. It's not his...

    You made an oath to your husband. It's not his fault you didn't live up to it, so now you have made a bad situation worse it's time to quit the lies and just tell him.

    I'm curious what you think...
  43. Question: Wondering?

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    Why are you making a deal of this?

    Why are you making a deal of this?
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    I love how Tal asked you a question and then you...

    I love how Tal asked you a question and then you responded by not answering the question.

    What was the plan, and will you stop communicating with her?
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    You don't know this guy, you are in love with the...

    You don't know this guy, you are in love with the idea of loving your first crush, but not in love with the actual person this first crush happened to be.
  46. Oh so she got blacked out and had sex but doesn't...

    Oh so she got blacked out and had sex but doesn't remember doing it? Ok. Hmm, you know that's actually rape and usually woman that get raped don't call it cheating... and neither does the guy for...
  47. Kalee the slut posted this two years ago and...

    Kalee the slut posted this two years ago and never came back. God it's one thing to be a slut and another to be stupid, but man the combination is really something.
  48. Question: What should I do ?

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    You should have taken the opportunity when it...

    You should have taken the opportunity when it presented. He didn't owe you the opportunity to wait around. Now you reorganize yourself and move forward.
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    I'm not disagreeing with your point but when I...

    I'm not disagreeing with your point but when I read this my first thought was "so what." Some parents let there kids do drugs. Some parents let there kids bully other kids. Read posts on this very...
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    Well, then you have to focus on school now and...

    Well, then you have to focus on school now and date when you are an adult.
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