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I understand. It's hard to see the whole story by just reading what I wrote.
Only time will tell, no point to worry about all the issues. If it works out, it will work out.
If it doesn't, then move...

I said No immediately he asked.
He hasn't talked to me afterwards, which is unusal of him.

No, it's not the same guy. The "swimming" guy started drink a lot again so we broke up. This guy I have only known for couple months, he declared our relationship just after a month of dating. He...

I don't feel safe to tell because he also knows my coworkers so if he ever decides to tell my coworkers, I will be in trouble.
There is no way to assure he will never tell others, right?
Plus I...

My boyfriend asks me how much I make?
I told him the agreement I signed with my company stated that I shall not share such info. Unless it's to my lawyer or family members.
He told me he won't tell...

I asked he said it's personal choice if drinking again. I just gently said don't drink too much. A bit is fine.

I don't want to be pushy and I will give him time to be alone.

Thanks Tal. You are wonderful. Through the years you have taught me a lot. I will keep you posted. Good night for now. :-)

Good advice Tal!

I always thought he is an honest person, he said he will never drink and things are going well, so I don't understand why he started to drink again.

I really want to know why...

I have a question now for everyone here. As you know I started to go out with this friend of mine. Things are going well. He used to drink a lot but he has stopped for couple years, until today I...

Just an update, he hasn't had a chance to teach me yet, but we are going out now. :)
Tal, you were right, nothing wrong of going out and learn more abou the person. He was really sincerely hoping...

Fr_Chuck, I start to think you are right, he is honest at least. I can see most men don't want a wedding.
Why they get married then?
I don't know overall why people like to get married?

I date, Tal. I date people I see that I have a future with. But I really don't see myself marry someone who does not even want a wedding. It's irresponsible to date someone that I don't want to get...

I asked him why he likes to teach me so much...
He said he wanted to teach me so I can go to the ocean with him, to fish and eat his grilled fish...

He is interested in dating me, but I don't...

ScottGem,

I wish someone helps me with driving! I am asian, lol, I need that. I am in the US. I am a bit more conservative due to my culture background, you are correct about it. But swimming is...

I have a guy friend, that wanted to teach me how to swim. I never asked him to teach me but once he found out I don't know how, he kept asking me if I want to learn from him. I know he is a good man...

Jake,

I want to share my life story with you. I finished college at 22 as well, have had great career and traveled to 22 countries so far. Lived in different countries too.

But I did not have a...

I don't think couple should share everything with each other, why should they?
If she talks to your best friend, and without telling you, maybe she is talking about you with him... maybe there are...

Hello there,

Are there any people out there that decide to never get married or never have kids?

How does that impact your life? How are you liking/disliking it?

For those who have been...

Do you have a pic of her? I know sometimes looks is everything to a man, you might still like her because she is pretty.

Thank you, you guys made very good point and I know I am able to and am deserve a newer car. Since I travel quite a lot for work, I plan on talking to mgmt see if I can get a company car... I will...

Alty,
You will need to be a professional to determine if someone has mental issue. I am here to seek advice and I do think over saving is a bit unusual in today's so society. I am a hardworking...

I am just curious, if the wife didn't leave a will, then how the assets get divided? Just curious...

I have no Cable bills, I got a company phone and travel a lot that means I save lots of money in food and utilities. No pet.
The distance from home to office is extremely extremely short, so my gas...

Joy, that's why I told you I am VERY frugal. I am able to live on $1100 a month and I am paying mortgage of 500 a month. :-)

I am sorry, I meant I save 80% after tax each month! That is a LOT. I make nearly 6 figures. In my late 20s. The car I am looking for is over 10,000 used but I call it new as it is a newer car for me.

Smoothy, just generally speaking I won't spend over 10k on a car, no new car is this price level any car that isn't my current one I call it new car. :-)

I have tough time spending money, it's has...

One - you record what your boss did or said
Two - look for new positions within the company first, then outside

It is an uphill battle, please don't spend too much time to fight with him or tell...

My problem is that if I spend more than $10,000 on a car, I will be guilty as heck... :(

140 pounds is not fat first of all!

I used to think I was ugly but it changed when I started college, I guess I became more mature by that age.

Being nice to people is very important, being...

Keep a good career is the toughest thing in life, it is so tough I had to sacrifice everything else! You have a loving family, kids etc, many women who succeed in career might not have those...
To...

About 80%, I am VERY frugal. I hardly buy anything, but I really like to have a nice car... but I will feel so bad to buy that car, I know it!

Hello there,

I love cars, and would like to get a nice car for myself. I have no problem pay for it financially. On the other hand, I am very frugal, I save a huge% per month. It makes me happy...

11 years and he hasn't married you yet? It's quite a red flag, you should end this and protect your rights NOW!

I have difficulty understanding men. I work with men everyday, 90% my colleagues are men. I haven't figured any man out yet... lol.

He buys me necklace for my birthday and pays for lots of the dates. What kind of friend is that?
Can't ask him, I feel weird to ask him that. :-(

All I know that he never had a long term girlfriend, each time was only couple months or less.

End, not bed. Good catch.

I don't know. He is my colleague but he asks me out first. I was actually not sure about office romance, he insisted. He is in a different department.

Hello y'all, I have been going out with this gentleman since January. So 5 months total as of today, we went out about once a week.
We get alone well.
At the bed of each date, he won't hug me first...

Hi there,
Thank you! I am back in the States, yes I have my job. Just transferred back from Europe.
It's crazy how many times I've moved for my company, it is hard to keep friendship or...

Hi there,
I just moved back from Europe to the States... I don't know anyone and I am so lonely and depressed.

I tried to ask some colleagues out to do stuff but they all have family and I can...

How old are you?

haha, you might be right

I am a busy young professional, I have my life together but I realize that I don't have hobbies. I like investment and travel, that's about it.
Most girls I know have their girly hobbies that I find...

Two men have both cried in front of me so far. What should I do?

Judy, that's a different french man.
Don't be offended, and take it personal. Relax.
I meet men in real life, don't judge if you don't live in Europe.

I want a man who is ambitious, that's extremely important. But I am attracted to both of them!

I am an asian/american working as an expat in Europe. I recently met an italian man who fell for me and a french man who likes me a lot too.
I did not kiss either of them yet but they are both very...

I want to tell all of you that "THANK YOU SO MUCH!"
I took your advice and emailed my renter. He will now stay. :)

In the lease, I didn't not mention terms on early termination. So if he breaks the lease, he needs to pay what ever is left, which is 4 months, right?

Should he also give a certain days of notice?...

Hello everyone, I need help on if my tenant is breaking the one year lease.
He started to rent in June last year, and now it's 8 months and he wants to break the lease.
There is not any abandon...