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Seriously, I do not even know what can make me happy currently. I seldom smile or laugh and if then it is not from my heart...


You really have to stop looking at others to define your...

You really did the right thing, you made the first step to end the relationship, now you need to cut the contact, because the last thing you need is to have him GUILT you into taking him back. You...

But is that okay with you to live like that, hoping and waiting to see what happens. I believe, and believe me I learned this the hard way, that when your relationship ends up wondering if you can...

Find a place quick. Crash on a couch at a friends house or something. My Ex dumped me after ten years and we were engaged, he said I did not have to leave right away, within minutes I was calling...

I got dumped after ten years, and he did not even give me a reason other than I have not been in love with you for two months, I was like WHAT?? I did not know where it was coming from, but guess...

Ummm honey, your boyfriend/fiancee is playing games with you. The fact that you say he is just friendly, but comes off as flirty to his ex'es would be a red flag for me. He knows from past...

Take it from me, walk away now! Once a cheater always a cheater is right, and when he covers up by saying it is not cheating because it was online, anyone that shares any intimate details with...

I was with a man for ten years, and he was not physically abusive, however the mental and emotional abuse went on and on. I was scared like you, torn between loving him, and being afraid to move on...

Okay, thanks Kctiger for your help. I really do appreciate an insightful approach to this situation. I know I do come off as defensive, and I somewhat am in a way, because I would hate to step back...

Yes a magic potion would be great about now, lol! I just wish we could be as happy as he is promising me we will be. Its just a question of when, and that is where I would love some sort of magic...

How am I being distrustful? I have done NOTHING wrong. I am not punishing him, I am protecting myself, until I can freely forgive him. I know over time I can do it, I was hoping for a quick way to...

I understand how someone from the outside not involved would see it, but he and I were NOT strangers, we knew each other for two years, and yes he and his ex hung around with my crowd, but its not...

So you feel that I am his rebound? I would understand if we were together just a little time, and he dumped me, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. And he has no rules for me, as I...

I really hate that part of him believe it or not, but I really do love him and he is a good guy despite his minor infraction in the beginning of our relationship, I know he loves me. His family is...

Thank you Talaniman you gave me some sound advice, and I do know that I am a reactor rather than a thinker and I need to work on that. I have tried talking to him, and he is very remorseful,...

So Zippit, thanks for your words, I would not necessarily call them words of advice, since you seem to be attacking my character. I merely asked for advice on how I can overcome my feelings at this...

I really hope that he and I can get past this, maybe if I make him go to counseling to get help for his issues, he will be the man that I need him to be. I think he feels guilty about leaving his ex...

He is obviously an immature, overwhelmed, little boy himself who refuses to grow up to be a man. If I were you, I would take the appropriate measures to seek support from the courts, because I have...

In answer to your questions, yes they were together when he and I started talking about getting together, but I was just chalking it up to harmless flirting. He is 38, his ex is 34, and I am 33. ...

I think a good old fashioned OTK spanking is what she needs...

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I have known my boyfriend a little over 2 years, and we have been together for almost ten months. He was in a relationship with his ex-fiancee for ten years, and she went in to have...