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  1. Speaking from personal experience (dating...

    Speaking from personal experience (dating co-worker), it's not a good mixture. What happens if you or he break off the relationship? You'll still see each other every day. When I was in this type of...
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    Lazybass, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure...

    Lazybass, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure your father heard you tell him you loved him, even though he was sedated (sp) Back when I was 16 (25 years ago) I stayed with my grandmother for a few...
  3. Question: My Life Is Over!

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    Good Evening Tosheba! Depression is the number...

    Good Evening Tosheba! Depression is the number one reason why people think or commit suicide. Have you talked to your doctor/priest/minister... etc.. First, I would talk to a doctor and see if there...
  4. Question: Unfit Parent

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    I would be suspicious too. It may or may not...

    I would be suspicious too. It may or may not be... but it kind of sounds like someone in the house might have a "habit", if Kayla is getting to school late, always sick, and always sleeping. I'm no...
  5. Question: Unfit parent.

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    You'll need any kind of proof you can find from...

    You'll need any kind of proof you can find from witnesses (family, friend, children, etc... ) Has Children Social Services ever been called? If so, try to get their report (if possible). Take...
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    I know how you feel, except mine went the other...

    I know how you feel, except mine went the other way. I have red/auburn color hair. I went to my sister and asked her to frost my hair. She did, we left it on the correct amount of time, went in to...
  7. Question: 15 and pregnant

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    I'm glad you got back on here and reposted a...

    I'm glad you got back on here and reposted a response to all of us. We've had some "heated" words back and forth about your post. It sounds like you're heading in the right direction, keep going that...
  8. I know this is a late post. I just read it. Boy,...

    I know this is a late post. I just read it. Boy, does that girl have some serious issues!! I'm sorry... but her out "running" around and then coming back to you, can lead you into some serious...
  9. Question: A girl

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    Well mew... I guess you got your answer huh?...

    Well mew... I guess you got your answer huh? Sorry that it was put that way to you. I've seen that in my bartending days too. There's more fish in the sea. Hope you learned from this painful...
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    I think I would have to agree with everyone else...

    I think I would have to agree with everyone else on this one Fr Chuck. You put that young person down for type-o's. Come on now! How picky can you get. I've read some of your posts too, and you too...
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    Hello! I've been through similar experiences...

    Hello!
    I've been through similar experiences with my "friend" dating my boyfriend. You know what happened to my friend? She took my boyfriend from me, was with him for 5 years, and got nothing but...
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    I can tell you're definitely young kiddo. Don't...

    I can tell you're definitely young kiddo. Don't do anything that you may regret in the near future. You're parent's are only looking out for your best interests. You may not see or understand that...
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    There's an old saying: "If you set something...

    There's an old saying: "If you set something free, and it comes back to you, it was ment to be". If you're that much in love with this person, then tell him! Tell him your feelings. Get back with him.
  14. Question: 15 and pregnant

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    I've been reading all these posts to this CHILD....

    I've been reading all these posts to this CHILD. Where in the world is people's humanitarianism?? Who said anything about she seduced HIM?? Maybe it's the other way around! All she said was that she...
  15. Question: 15 and pregnant

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    I don't know where you are from, but look and see...

    I don't know where you are from, but look and see if there is a home for unwed mothers in your area. When I got pregnant with my son (19 years ago) I was unmarried, alone, no job, and practically...
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    He can't have 2 loves in his life. He can't even...

    He can't have 2 loves in his life. He can't even pass a drug test to get a job! Even McDonald's makes you take a drug test now. Take a step back, and visualize your future with him. What do you see?...
  17. Question: Numbness in hand

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    I agree with fredg. It could very well be carpol...

    I agree with fredg. It could very well be carpol tunnel syndrom (sp). I am no doctor, but have her ask her doctor about neuropathy. Generally this is caused from having diabete's, extensive surgery,...
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    My husband is the youngest of 8 children. He use...

    My husband is the youngest of 8 children. He use to take a LOT of "bullying" from his older brothers and sisters. One day his dad told them all, that "one day, he's going to cut loose on you, and...
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    Until I was 18 yrs. Old, I only used my right...

    Until I was 18 yrs. Old, I only used my right hand. Then an unfortunate accident left me with a broken right hand, and I had to learn how to eat, wipe, write, etc... with my left hand for 6 weeks....
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    If your P.O. wants to do a random check on you,...

    If your P.O. wants to do a random check on you, they will find that. The best advise I'll give you is to go and report it to your P.O. before they find it.
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    Sounds like you have a jerk for a P.O. I'm not...

    Sounds like you have a jerk for a P.O. I'm not too sure what they'll do if you don't show up for the testing. He/She wouldn't reschedule an appointment for you? He/She probably thinks you're trying...
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    My daughter use to thow tantrums too. This may...

    My daughter use to thow tantrums too. This may sound horrible, but it did work on her... take a small glass of water, and toss the water into the child's face. It scares them of course, but it is...
  23. Question: Horrible husband

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    Did your friends husband sign over the house...

    Did your friends husband sign over the house after the divorce paper work was filed? If so, he is in violation. If the note was signed over before the paper work was filed, there is nothing that can...
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    Look in Reunion.com or Peoplesearch.com I'm sorry...

    Look in Reunion.com or Peoplesearch.com I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. Hope things go well for her and you.

    Best of luck!
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    I would try to get a sitter for a few hours. If...

    I would try to get a sitter for a few hours. If you cannot afford one right now, then maybe rent a good movie that you BOTH have been wanting to watch, put the little one to bed, make a bowl of...
  26. I'm not in law enforcement, but... is your...

    I'm not in law enforcement, but... is your husband already on probation? If he is, and he has new charges on him, then he's going to end up doing time, plus he would be in direct violation of his...
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    Lets look into your future with your boyfriend....

    Lets look into your future with your boyfriend. What do you see? No money for food or rent, baby is witout diapers/formula/etc... DEFACS (dept. of family and children services) coming in and taking...
  28. OMG girl! Get out of that relationship!! ...

    OMG girl! Get out of that relationship!!

    Sorry, I hit the wrong button...
    Anyway, you are way to young to be in this type of a relationship! A man isn't a man if he has to beat a woman into...
  29. Question: What do men want

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    If you set something free, and it comes back to...

    If you set something free, and it comes back to you, then it was meant to be.
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    Just be yourself. Drop little hints now and then...

    Just be yourself. Drop little hints now and then to let him know you're interested in him. See how he reacts to that first, then you'll know what to do next.
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    I was told this by a friend of mine many years...

    I was told this by a friend of mine many years ago, that we fought tooth and nail over silly stuff, and wouldn't talk for weeks/months/years (at one time). She told me one day, that "friends are...
  32. To be honest, there's nothing you can really do...

    To be honest, there's nothing you can really do because of his mental instability. You can get a restraining order/protection order against him, but those are only good if they catch him breaking the...
  33. Question: A girl

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    I use to bartend for 9 years, and this is so...

    I use to bartend for 9 years, and this is so common. I think you should go and apologize to the young lady, and explain that you had been drinking, etc.. Then, if you have the courage, tell her about...
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    I don't know about an arrest warrant, but I can...

    I don't know about an arrest warrant, but I can tell you this... back about 11 years ago, I got pulled over for speeding, didn't have insurance, but had a license. Paid my $85 ticket, never thought...
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    Hello lovehurtsme! It's a hard thing to learn how...

    Hello lovehurtsme! It's a hard thing to learn how to trust someone again. I know, I've been there myself. My ex-husband use to beat on me, chase around on me, wasn't a good provider, etc... I finally...
  36. I need information on incentive plans for becoming a probation officer

    I am currently working on a project for school, on an incentive plan for where I hope to see myself in 5 years. I am currently working on my Associates degree in Criminal Justice, and hope to one day...
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