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  1. Question: Divorce or not?

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    I'm going to be more blunt about not getting it. ...

    I'm going to be more blunt about not getting it. You have talked with girlfriends about your looks, and you bring up the subject a lot. I fear that you place too much importance on your...
  2. Question: Divorce or not?

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    it just boggles me how a man can go days, weeks...

    it just boggles me how a man can go days, weeks without sex. ------ Nope. Plenty of men wind down on sex.
    He said he had not watched porn and was making that sacrifice for me, for us. ----- The...
  3. Question: Divorce or not?

    by joypulv
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    OK, thanks, edited my response.

    OK, thanks, edited my response.
  4. Question: Divorce or not?

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    [EDITED] Hi again, glad you are here. My only...

    [EDITED]
    Hi again, glad you are here. My only suggestion would be to GO HOME while you start the divorce. You need a handle on some very nuts and bolts things like finances, possessions, and where...
  5. Question: Divorce or not?

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    'I'm not sure why I continuously do this' It's...

    'I'm not sure why I continuously do this'

    It's common enough. Many of us (women) saw our mothers do it. My mother thought she was going to stay in the glitz and glamour of the big city, not...
  6. Question: Divorce or not?

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    I was sort of like you, exactly half my life ago....

    I was sort of like you, exactly half my life ago. I'm 70. Except that I didn't complain much at all. If he didn't want what I wanted, I generally just got depressed.

    Cat's 4 questions are...
  7. Question: Divorce or not?

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    I agree with talaniman! One tiny detail was...

    I agree with talaniman!
    One tiny detail was brewing in my mind - he says he's a hypochrondriac. You don't say in what way, or if it bothers you, or if it hampers his life. But you also were out at...
  8. Question: Divorce or not?

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    Hi again! Seems like ages ago that you were...

    Hi again! Seems like ages ago that you were here. It's nice that you are reporting back, and have some good news.
    I wouldn't take him to see your therapist with you without prior arrangement. It...
  9. Question: Divorce or not?

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    Individual therapy and couples counseling are...

    Individual therapy and couples counseling are very different. It will be good for you to get help making decisions. Not just about him, but about kids!
    Couples counseling is training in how to...
  10. Question: Divorce or not?

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    I doubt that he thinks everything is great. He...

    I doubt that he thinks everything is great. He sounds like the stereotype of the bottled up man who won't express himself, and probably couldn't if he wanted to.
    I suspect that he's terrified of...
  11. Question: Divorce or not?

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    You threatened divorce and he said 'no, we will...

    You threatened divorce and he said 'no, we will be fine?'
    For some reason that strikes me as sad in a wimpy way - on your part.
    When you deliver an ultimatum, you are supposed to mean it. Clearly...
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