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I will move slowly with dating. Even though you're right, I am a hopeless romantic all I want is to be happy, in love, married have a family. And, it seems like I may never get there. But, I agree...

Thank you for your words.
I hope and pray this feeling of doubting my decision goes away. Sometimes I feel like maybe I did the wrong thing by divorcing. Other times I feel like it was the best...

I understand and I agree with what you’re saying. I have actually told him that we should take it day by day. He told me he will give me my space wants to get to know me more and just have fun. I...

I made the toughest and most hurtful decision ever, I asked my husband for a divorce in August. In filed for it in October. In looking back, our relationship was never solid to begin with. He, at the...

I can see what you're getting at. And, in all honesty I feel dumb in how you stated your post. How he can ask me to put lingerie on and not have sex? He doesn't have to sacrifice watching porn for...

He is a teacher- he works summer school mon-thurs 9-12. He does suffer from anxiety and worries about everything but from my knowledge and what he has said to me it didn't interfere with him jerking...

I even went as far as doing two things: I took a picture of myself in lingerie and sent it to my best friend and asked her do I look fat? Ugly? She said I was crazy that I looked so good and that she...

I did spend time with one of my best friends. She was very supportive of whatever decision I decided to make. I went as far as calling the lawyer and getting consultation prices 300 and then 2200 to...

He sent this to me last night:
"What i don't understand is we did try and it was going well...so what I asked about dishes so what..just like that divorce. What about last summer I begged you to...

Thank you all for your time and advice. I am pretty depressed and needed to get away. I do have a career and I make a good living, we do own a home it's under both of our names. I am hoping he will...

I have tried and failed. This weekend I told my husband I was not happy and that I wanted a divorce. According to my husband it is my fault that our marriage is failing. He says he has done...

Do you love the thought of being a mother or being pregnant? Would fostering/adopting a child be a compromise?
I would love to become pregnant and experience the feeling of being a mother. If for...

He did promise me he would go with me to therapy tomorrow, but we'll see because he has once before about 2 years ago cancelled on me last minute before and or just refused to go.
If he has changed...

He says that he is afraid. He is afraid that we will have e a baby and it will be like him constantly sick or "feeling" sick. At first I would tell him stop you're not sick! You're exaggerating!...

The therapist I go to is a couples therapist as well. We have discussed having children's it's always been voiced that this is and was a priority for me, as usual he always agrees and then tries to...

We have both been on a good path. After about a week of arguing and then finally listening to each other. He has acknowledged his faults as I have acknowledged mine. We have taken ownership of our...

And, not that it justifies me being wimpy but he changes for a bit to the man I'd love to have and then changes back to who he is. Right now since the "threats" we've had sex twice and I know deep in...

Wow, you are absolutely right. No wonder why he doesn't take me seriously. He doesn't take me seriously at all. I am just afraid, why I'm not really sure why. I love him I just didn't want to fail I...

And the reason why I asked his mom to mediate us because I don't know where or who to turn to anymore. I felt that his mom was best because maybe he'll listen to her? also I want her to know that...

And no he has told me many times he doesn't need therapy that we don't need therapy. He even said that he would go and then cancelled last minute. I also said in beginning of January- either...

His parents are divorced. My theory is that he was his mother pseudo husband dad cheated on his mom and he had to be the "man of the household" at 20. He has stood up to me and we have communicated...

He says that he feels like he walks on eggshells that he does everything for me and I always complaining about sex and I make him feel bad because I complain. I complain when weeks turn into months...

In all honesty I have been waiting on him for kids. I wish we would've had kids 2 years ago which we did speak about when we got married we would start. That never happened. Then we spoke about it...

I forgot to mention that I begged him to get his testosterone checked he did and it's fine. At one point I was even more hurt and upset because he was masturbating 2-3 times a week and we still...

I have been married for 2 years and together overall for 7 years. For the past 2.5 years it's been a cycle of us having sex once every 30-45 days. I complain about it and ask about it he says I...