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If you're sure that she's the one, then by all means talk to her about spending more time together. Just do it! It sounds like she's been waiting for you to make the first move.

Good luck.

When the bad outweighs the good, it's time to cut your losses and get on with the next phase of your life. I wish you the best.

Find someone with common goals.

Your biological clock is ticking, yes. But you still have time. Stop wasting it though with someone who buys duplicate appliances.

Good luck to you.

It sounds like the "new" has worn off in your relationship. Mix it up. Make him WANT you.

We always think the worst. We always let our minds wander.

Be careful. Good luck.

How long have you been dating please? And, is he the kind of guy that makes you cry often?

No one here knows for sure what the circumstances are in your relationship. BUT... for "30 minutes",...

Hi to all the regulars that remember when I was around putting in my two cents worth. Hope to be around more soon.

God bless.

If he is indeed an "addict", then he's not going to stop until he is ready to. Or if he is just going through a wild party phase , then again, he's not going to stop until he WANTS to. Either way, it...

Please seek professional help. He could die trying to get sober at home. God bless.

Stop being a sex toy to a cheater, and go find out why you're willing to in the first place.

We know it hurts. But don't call her. Go out and do the things that interest you. Stay busy. Time will tell if you're meant to be together.

Good luck buddy.

Can someone please handle this? Looks like someone is playing with Mommy's computer again.

Please provide more information concerning your suspicions.

No matter what you do, keep your dignity.

I know it seems as if you simply cannot live without THIS guy, but you'll be just fine. I promise.

If it's meant to be, then it will. For now, go...

I'm forced to wonder, a lot.

HE broke up with YOU, right? You still loved him... and only recently did "we" decide to be "friends". Does that really mean that HE is willing to be friendly with...

Maybe she's bored. Maybe she has the need to be "naughty". Who knows? But for her to be exchanging sexually related messages with another man, is completely unacceptable. This needs to stop now.
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Tell her that you cannot be just a "friend", filling whatever void the other guy leaves behind. Find yourself a girl of your own. Good luck to you.

Never let one person control your happiness. Unless that one person is indeed you.

If she wants space, then give it to her. I know you don't believe it now, but you'll be fine no matter what...

Chidi01 does not find this helpful : Thanks mr expert.but you sound rude to me.is it that u can't help me or what?anyway a've learnt a lot.thanks


I'm as rude as you are immature.

Yes, you've...

I think that this thread has gone the distance, taken it's course. It needs to be closed. This guy is throwing out reddies, and defending his ignorant solutions to lack of sex. I couldn't care less...

I think that you are going to lose this guy if you don't back off on this issue.

He loves you, and he has sex with you daily.

He's going to feel as though you have him under investigation....

I read this WHOLE thread and feel obligated to answer.

I'm quite sure the majority of people, if polled, would say that they prefer a real life sex partner to masturbation . Yet, during a "dry...

It's not OK to exchange inappropriate texts, or e mails, with other girls. He's guilty of THAT. And he's likely to cheat full on, if given the opportunity ( I wonder if it's happened already)

He's...

I know you don't want to hear it, but if you do stay apart, you'll be just fine.

The world is full of women.

Women who know what they want, and don't put you on hold for the "answers" to...

Maybe she's thinking of the old saying " why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?".

Sex may not be everything for you, but it sure is a delicate subject for her.

Are you willing to...

You need to open up communication with him. And by that I mean tell him what you've told us here. Apologize for being hateful ( yes, it was a hateful thing to say), and see where things go. For the...

Consider yourself lucky, a little bit anyway.

Lucky for finding out BEFORE the wedding.

A loving relationship is based on mutual trust.

The world is full of women who know how to be...

Does she expect you to wait until SHE finds you acceptable?

You didn't really ask a question. It sounds as though you want us to read her mind for you.

Where did the relationship go wrong? And...

Thanks Wondergirl. (I've been REALLY busy lately)

During a recent church fundraiser, a yard sale, we were given an entire storage unit of odds and ends. In that cache, was a box of old, loved, Barbie dolls. I am trying to get the most out of this...

If she wants time, then give it to her.

You have to wonder how someone can TEXT a break-up request. Rude and cowardly if I can say so myself.

This is in the "Addictions" section, and I have to wonder why.

Also, where are the questions concerning the welfare of your unborn child?

All I see is someone who thinks that they will have to...

Ask her to try and consider the position that she, and HE, have put you in. I mean how would she react if the tables were turned? What if YOU were having constant contact with one of YOUR...

So, you're good enough to have sex with, but not good enough to be acknowledged as being someone special in his life. No thanks.

Is he ashamed of being seen with you? I wonder what his motives...

Yes, they are actually. I had 210 of them myself, and got 70 cents each about 6 years ago. It all depends on where you go, and how they do business. Good luck.

Southamerica finds this helpful : I am thinking 'real-life' is probable. But sexting or sexing... it's still cheating!

Indeed it is.

You'll be just fine of your own.

And for the record, it sounds like he cheated, real life sex. (I don't think "love talk in the past tense" could mean anything else but.)

Guys REALLY in love,...

This is a hard situation to be in. Everyone knows that post break-up sex is better than the "relationship" sex, always is for some reason. Maybe she's in that "we're not really together" mindset.
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You are a married man? Then be with your wife, ONLY. What business is it that she has other men?

So, the woman you are cheating WITH may be cheating on you? WOW, that's a surprise.

What her...

So, you're hanging out with a guy that has to be treated so delicately that you have to forewarn your friends, and family, of impending violent outbursts? That's like having a mad dog as a lap pet....

Go look in the mirror. This is the person that one day has to explain to her daughter how she should always demand respect in a relationship.

This guy doesn't "love" you if he is just sitting on...

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It's not so uncommon. Look for self-help groups, and talk to a doctor about it.

Are you sure that it's "just friends" that you're interested in?

Would you be in a relationship with this girl?

Leave him and start over. You can make do without having to walk on eggshells.

Anger kills.

God bless you.

This doesn't sound like the behavior of a straight male.

The worst day of my life was the day my father died. It's been ten years, and I still miss him dearly. But life goes on for the living. It simply must, and we know it.

Let him grieve, but be...

He needs to find work no matter what the duties, or pay. He needs to feel needed, and he needs to feel like he's supporting, not just in neutral.

I suggest he go get a check-up too. Sure wouldn't...

Being a drug addict in successful recovery myself, I suggest he go to someone who can better prescibe any medication, if necessary, under the right environment, not from a buddy with pills.

He's...

Please take note of the dates on posts. This death occurred over a year ago. Thanks for the input, but also please watch the "textspeak".

Get out and interact with people. Keep up with current events so you can discuss many topics.

Maybe try to find some assertiveness classes in your area.

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