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Sounds like the connection between the wireless card and the WAP is fine. Id check the connection from the WAP to the internet. Make sure that it is receiving an IP Address itself. I am assuming...

Its probably best that you not call him as you did for a while. Although it hasn't bothered you quite so much, it obviously has you thinking a lot about him, which you really shouldn't be. "The...

Hi guys,

Its been almost a week now, and I apologize for the long delay.

Its been a busy week. In case your wondering, I love the new job :) I get to go on business lunches, everything......

Thanks guys,

I do think that it was the biggest mistake I made. Its hard to not fall so hard for someone but to give them everything, but I also must blame this being my first love for part of...

Well,

I bought a new wallet, got my new license today, and one of my cards back. The credit card is coming in next week. I've calmed down about that, still a bummer though.

The job is still...

Hey guys,

I know I said I would update yesterday but I wasn't able too. This job has me pretty busy.

Its great, I love it so far, and I assume it will be enjoyable all summer long. It keeps...

Guy thanks for the kind words...

This will be a short post, and I promise ill update again later. I have to start my new job in an hour :)

I think you guys are right. I did call her back,...

I agree with talaniman.

Its probably the tougest part, but accepting that it is over, and just moving on, is the hardest part of it all. But I promise you, once that part has come, it becomes a...

Better off alone by Smile Empty Soul is one that I would add.

First off, id stay away from friends with benefits. As far as I know it almost always entails "sexual" stuff, so I'm not sure what your definition is, but its quite possible it won't alleviate the...

Id like to add that the last paragraph of the post, about the phone call, was simply so that I could see what people thought of it. It has nothing to do with me reaching out to be back together with...

SouthernBelle,

Im not sure why you are so convinced that I have a hidden agenda. My point is not to fool anyone, not do I have any intentions of trying to be back with her. I assure you that I...

I'd call it rock, but whateve ryou call it, I like it. Ill go through my playlist later and see if I can find you some more. If you want metal try something like All That Remains.

No specifics...

Wow, I've got a bunch for you...

Not sure if this is your type of music but:

Three Days Grace - Gone Forever
"I feel so much better
Now that you're gone forever
I tell myself that I don't...

Thanks Didi,

I read that, and I like it. It reminded me of something I read a couple of days ago:

On how to deal with any failure: "Learn from what you did wrong, if anything, then forget it...

If she broke up with you, and your giving her space - if she decides that she wants to be back together, she will let you know. I'm sure that if she realized it was a mistake, or wanted to be back...

I do feel bad reading it now, but I still feel the same way. I was going to do a lot of editing, but I guess ill tleave it the way it is.

I think I'm upset that she didn't try to call me. As...

Didi,

I appreciate your response. I agree that if she has done this, she has no feeling for me, and it will be hard, but I must let it go. I don't want to hold onto an idealistic dream. I know...

Thanks didi, I appreciate the response.

I have just gotten home from the party, and I wanted to respond to let you all know how I am feeling. I am not going to lie, I have corrected my typing 10...

Just a little thought update guys:

Yesterday and today were pretty good days for me for the most part. Ive been going out, just running stupid errands with my friends to keep me busy. Its nice...

Is it a laptop?

If so, are you running it on the battery, or plugged into the wall?

Do you actually have feelings of not loving her and feeling for other women, or re you just afraid that you may have these feelings somday?

If you are having the feelings now, I would suggest that...

Don't do what? Help your daughter get her life back on track?

The way I see it, you are doing a very admirable thing. Sure, she may be angry with you now, but you know someday she will thank...

Here's the bottom line:

No one can tell you if she will come back.
No one can tell you if their relationship will last.

There is nothing you can do that will affect the outcome of either of...

I understand this exactly. My ex had no friends. For the three years we were together, she hung out with me, and pretty much that was it. Part of the reason we broke up was that she moved away and...

You don't seem to be listening to what people tell you. If your going to do what you want anyway, I just want you to know thatt chances are there is no way she wants to be back together with you. ...

A lot of people save themselves for marriage. I don't see anything wrong with going 8 years with no sex, as long as there is a reason for it.

Just calm down, relax, don't do anything drastic... like calling him.

Let that be a lesson - stay away from anything that has to do with him. We've all learned the hard way, and now you have to. ...

Separate your life from him. That way, if it does happen, you'll never know. Deep down you feel like you want to know. You want to know what he is up to, what he's doing, how he's feeling... but...

I know what the false hope feels like, many of the people here do. For me, it was the hardest thing, and I still fight with it, to get over. You come to a point where the hope doesn't matter...

First of all, My last post wasn't meant to give you any sort of false hope. I was just pointing out things that I have observed. Because he may regret being with his new girl, does not mean he is...

Does it matter?

Go find someone who will realize, from the beginning, and be the best boyfriend for you :)

Wouldn't it be nice to be 13 years old again :D

Generally when one partner in a relationship asks for a break, they have been thinking about it for quite some time. While you are blissfully unaware, they have been slowly detaching themselves from...

Don't think of this as a step backwards, I guess I'm just thinking ahead:

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Why do I still care about how she feels? Why is it that I'm worried about next week, when she is out of...

I think it's a bit rude to break your word so often, so I understand why you are a little annoyed. At the same time, I'm not sure starting the argument would be any better than letting it go. By...

Personally, it seems like it much too soon to be dating. Your emotions aren't ready for that, and as good as it makes you feel at the time, you don't want to use other people as an emotional crutch....

You seem to have a great attitude toward it all, like you usually do, so I think your ready to handle anything that happens. You seem to be able to think through it all very logically and plan out...

I think your right on the money. Slow it down, let her contact you. Its entirely possibly she wants nthing more than to talk to you as a friend, and unless yo ucan accept that is all it will ever...

Thanks Tal,

I know I'm not ready for anything romantic, but I must admit talking to women makes me feel a bit better. Im starting to see that there isn't anything wrong with me, and its just...

You already have the answer you want, tough as it may be - it's the best way.

As far as the situation with his sister is concerned, I'm not sure I agree with the previous posters. I know many people who are very close with their siblings, and I would think nothing of what you...

I'd say the first step is to stop reading the old cards and notes. That's not going to help you at all at this point.

You said that you've accepted the fact that she doesn't feel the same...

From the general tone of your voice, it doesn't sound as though you were very satisfied with the relationship. You said he is spoiled, bi-polar, and the relationship was very one-sided.

Based on...

Well, the first day of summer vacation is here. Ive got 5 more days off, then I start my job. Im looking forward to that, it should keep me busy :)

MY mind has been a bit on the negative side...

Give yourself some credit... its going to take time, and its going to be hard, but you're headed in the right direction, and you'll be fine.

Doubtful,

I know how you feel, and one thing that I have realized is that while I would love to see her upset and wanting me back, when it actually happens, it doesn't help that much. If that...

Unfortunately, at this point I think about all you can do is just sit back and think.

You need to decide what is best for you, and you will only discover what that is by doing some reflection by...

I agree with bluerose,

If your back here, obviously the conversation you had with her got your head spinning again... never a good thing.

I think you would have been fine, if the conversation...

I know this is going to sound impossible, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to forget what he is feeling/thinking/doing. Thinking about him is only going to trap you in a cycle of...