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  1. Sorry, I meant to do this but didn't have time....

    Sorry, I meant to do this but didn't have time.
    This may help:

    http://www.kibble.net/magic/magic10.php
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    I am of course aware of the historical relevance...

    I am of course aware of the historical relevance of the Boston Tea party but was unsure of it's exact current usage. So thanks for the info; still not sure what the cornholing means but from your...
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    Sometimes choosing who to vote for at an election...

    Sometimes choosing who to vote for at an election feels like shall I vote for having my left foot amputated or my right one...
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    Depends what you enjoy doing really. We spent a...

    Depends what you enjoy doing really. We spent a week up in Wensleydale earlier this year. It is like going back in time - really remote, quiet and beautiful. You will see a lot of sheep, open green...
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    Wow, I just read through all that. A few things...

    Wow, I just read through all that. A few things you clever folks might be able to clear up for me:

    More regulation/less regulation. How about the right kind of regulation made my intellligent...
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    If you had come to my house a few days ago you...

    If you had come to my house a few days ago you would have found myself and my husband both looking a little dishevelled and flushed and our demenour wouldn't have been overly sociable. The reason -...
  7. "just a filthy whore like every other girl." So...

    "just a filthy whore like every other girl."
    So that's how he views women, yourself included. No wonder he thinks it is OK for him to visit prostitutes, no doubt that's all he thinks women are good...
  8. Redrumx3 has been in difficult relationships...

    Redrumx3 has been in difficult relationships since the age of 13 and now sees a need to be alone and independent but finds this difficult.<br /> <br /><br /><br />
    Responders agreed with and...
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    Just to say I have walked in your shoes, or some...

    Just to say I have walked in your shoes, or some very similar. Find a professional counsellor and you can work through this. You are at the worst part of the process, but you can move through this to...
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    Sorry but that just sounds like a rubbish excuse....

    Sorry but that just sounds like a rubbish excuse. The question I would be asking him is,'why are you prepared to be putting your marriage at risk in this way?' I also agree with what others have said...
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    I can see where you are coming from Fr Chuck, but...

    I can see where you are coming from Fr Chuck, but at the end of the day if things have escalated into physical violence, regardless of the specific details, I think now is a good time to put some...
  12. Question: Donf

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    Ah, so he did WG - thanks. He seems busy over in...

    Ah, so he did WG - thanks. He seems busy over in electricals and the like, not really my stomping ground at all. Glad to know he's still visiting.
  13. Question: Donf

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    Donf

    Seeing an old thread of Donf's resurrected made me realise I haven't seen him around for a while. Anyone know if he and Bonnie are Ok? I'm asking here as it seems to be his usual hangout spot.
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    So you have felt a need to protect your son...

    So you have felt a need to protect your son before now, but now you feel you would be frightened to do so again. You seem to have worked out where this is going and what you need to do.
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    Firstly stick with the counselling, it can take...

    Firstly stick with the counselling, it can take time to get results.
    Secondly, stop walking on eggshells because of his insecurities. If you are too tired for sex at 5am say so. If you want to see...
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    Walk is exactly what I think you should do. If...

    Walk is exactly what I think you should do. If you really believe that this was entirely out of character then it still needs to be fully explored with a professional counsellor. He isn't even...
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    Firstly I just want to say I feel for you, as I...

    Firstly I just want to say I feel for you, as I know how difficult managing relationships can be when mental health issues have entered the picture. A slightly different scenario, but my mum was a...
  18. Question: Baby mama drama

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    Firstly, in agreement with wondergirl, I would...

    Firstly, in agreement with wondergirl, I would want to know paternity had been established. But if it has shouldn't your husband be paying some kind of child support? Wouldn't it be better to get...
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    It sounds like he has some self-esteem issues and...

    It sounds like he has some self-esteem issues and has put up some blocks around his feelings with regard to sex. The big question is - does he want to fix it? If he does, would he consider...
  20. Question: My Tax return

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    Lol, love it.

    Lol, love it.
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    It sounds as though you are afraid of losing him,...

    It sounds as though you are afraid of losing him, either literally, or maybe because he is growing up and becoming not your baby any more. The blood and the person laughing sound sinister, as though...
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    Well I'm glad to hear you found a solution to...

    Well I'm glad to hear you found a solution to your unique situation. Thanks for sharing that.
  23. Female circumcision does cause problems for a lot...

    Female circumcision does cause problems for a lot of ladies. We have had other people visit here with the same thing. I am very glad you are sharing this and considering getting some medical advice,...
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    Whilst some people do have naturally low sex...

    Whilst some people do have naturally low sex drives he does also sound pretty uptight about things. Did he have a very strict and/or relilgious upbringing? Do you know if he ever had a very negative...
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    Between helicopter parents and spoonfeeding style...

    Between helicopter parents and spoonfeeding style education (certainly what we have in the UK) kids really don't learn how to think for themselves. Is it any wonder that employers are complaining...
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    If you are married and have a crush on someone...

    If you are married and have a crush on someone the last thing you do is spend time alone with them. He thinks it is OK to order you to stay home because she doesn't lilke you? If she has a crush on...
  27. Guys like porn. If you also like porn on occasion...

    Guys like porn. If you also like porn on occasion then why not make it a shared activity. If you are worried that it will become a crutch you come to rely on then simply make it clear you would like...
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    Are you sure you are having an orgasm if you have...

    Are you sure you are having an orgasm if you have to ask someone else to tell you that you are? How do you know your husband is right? To me it's the most intense experience - I couldn't possibly...
  29. Question: Virgin at 30!

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    Sex isn't something we necesserily get proficient...

    Sex isn't something we necesserily get proficient at by practising unlike a lot of other skills. There are plenty of people out there who have been putting it around widely yet lack what is needed to...
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    Looking back at some of your earlier posts,...

    Looking back at some of your earlier posts, before you had your daughter, and comparing to what you say now, you seem a lot more emotional and are crying a lot now. The first thing I would suggest is...
  31. Do you often ask him if he loves you? Is this...

    Do you often ask him if he loves you? Is this something you have done for a long time? I would find that very needy and wearing if my husband did that. Or has his behaviour suddenly changed to make...
  32. It caught on in the Uk too. I get that this is a...

    It caught on in the Uk too. I get that this is a protest against greed, corruption, and social and economic inequality, but I still don't know what solution they are looking for.

    Occupy London...
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    There's a love that is returned with interest....

    There's a love that is returned with interest. There's a love that needs no return such as the love of self, humanity, the wonder of the universe. Then there's the unrequited or rejected variety.
    ...
  34. Sesame street used to be on in England just after...

    Sesame street used to be on in England just after lunch when my children were small. It was our nice post-lunch rest time when we all snuggled up on the couch to watch it. My son loved to count with...
  35. How would you feel about talking to your mum...

    How would you feel about talking to your mum about it now?
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    Ben was just in the process of removing them Joly...

    Ben was just in the process of removing them Joly but thanks very much for the balancers. It appears the TOS has not been fully updated yet with regards to reddies, probably as the whole ratings...
  37. Firstly, well done for sharing with us. As...

    Firstly, well done for sharing with us. As someone who also suffered sexual abuse in the past I know that cannot have been easy.

    Oddly enough I had forgotten that I too went through a spell of...
  38. Try to stop seeing your present situation as one...

    Try to stop seeing your present situation as one you have failed at. You went out with a whole bunch of expectations which didn't work out. Well, that often happens in life. Try to see it as a...
  39. Question: Change it?

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    Am so glad to hear the progress. Hope you both...

    Am so glad to hear the progress. Hope you both have a great holiday.
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    Done. Looking forward to seeing the results.

    Done. Looking forward to seeing the results.
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    Firstly, if you are giving out, 'go away' signals...

    Firstly, if you are giving out, 'go away' signals through anxiety and negativity that will stop people talking to you. It's no good deciding to think more positively after you get good results; you...
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    No, I don't think a smiley face would be any kind...

    No, I don't think a smiley face would be any kind of cheating, otherwise I would be considered the world's biggest cheat, because everyone gets a smile from me sometimes. I guess it boils down to...
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    I have very fat friends, spotty friends, a...

    I have very fat friends, spotty friends, a brother in law with a really bad squint, two friends with aspergers (two young brothers that I worked with during their schooling), disabled friends, a...
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    Two questions: Can I be totally honest with my...

    Two questions:

    Can I be totally honest with my partner about what I am doing?
    Would I be OK with my partner doing it?

    If the answer is no then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
  45. Question: Acceptable & Wrong?

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    The fact he is still living with his family would...

    The fact he is still living with his family would make it a definite no for me. Maybe they are in the process of splitting up. Or maybe he was just taking advantage of the fact his wife and kids were...
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    Do all MILs go to that school? Mine certainly...

    Do all MILs go to that school? Mine certainly did. She even tried to talk me into stopping breastfeeding because she was feeling left out at feed times - no way did that happen.

    It is easy to...
  47. You deserve way better than being with someone...

    You deserve way better than being with someone who always has her options open in case something better comes along. I don't know whether it was a case of her simply not having the same feelings as...
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    Three months, part of which you have been apart,...

    Three months, part of which you have been apart, is really not very long. I think it is a good idea for both of you to slow down a bit and get to know each other properly.

    Remember to take some...
  49. The reason for the break-up was an over-reaction...

    The reason for the break-up was an over-reaction on your part. Of course she needed someone to help her if she was ill. You did realise that albeit too late. If you base your life on what people post...
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    I too suffered sexual abuse in the past. When I...

    I too suffered sexual abuse in the past. When I first started working on it I couldn't actually speak about it. No matter how much I wanted to, as soon as I started thinking about what I needed to...
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