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  1. Question: Chapter 13

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    Chapter 13

    A friend of mine filed Chapter 13 with his wife about a year ago. They committed to paying the debt off in 5 years; this debt included her medical bills, a car in his name only, credit cards in her...
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    IJ, Thanks... My vet was the one to tell me that...

    IJ, Thanks... My vet was the one to tell me that kittens would help my older cat. She was very restless and cried a lot. We thought she was sick and had her to the vet all the time. We had evey...
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    They have been in the whole house together for...

    They have been in the whole house together for just over a month now. We have had the kittens 6 weeks on Friday.

    They get along great. A lot better than I thought they would. I never wanted...
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    The 7year old is female and the two kittens are...

    The 7year old is female and the two kittens are male. Does that make a difference? Our vet told us to get boys because we had a girl and get two so they would leave her alone if she wanted it. She...
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    Our vet doesn't really like to do it either, but...

    Our vet doesn't really like to do it either, but they will. I know that it would be better to do it now than wait to see if there is a problem, but I really hate to declaw the kittens if I don't...
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    Declawed cat with clawed kittens

    I have a 7yr old cat that was declawed when we got her. About a month ago we got two kittens. They are not declawed, in fact I wasn't even thinking of declawing them but the vet asked if I was...
  7. Question: Child Support

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    Child Support

    My ex was ordered to pay monthly support and 1/2 of the out of pocket medical expenses over $250 per child per year. It was also ordered to the CPS because of his lack of paying the monthly support,...
  8. I hate that question; it's not that simple to...

    I hate that question; it's not that simple to answer. Do you have a court order in place? Are you “newly” separated from the other parent, or has it been awhile? Does the other parent see the...
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    I don’t think I read where the OP was from but I...

    I don’t think I read where the OP was from but I pay about that much for one child here; I think it depends on the policy. HMO, PPO, co-pays, hospitalization, prescriptions, therapy, etc. As long...
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    I wouldn't fight over this with them, just get...

    I wouldn't fight over this with them, just get new copies it doesn't cost that much and you can do it all online. You can go here to get a new BC and here to get an application for a new Social...
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    I usually agree with Scott, this time is no real...

    I usually agree with Scott, this time is no real exception. The only thing I would add is I can't see a way to enforce the visitation order in this instance. If he shows up and the girls don't want...
  12. Question: CAD Programs

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    CAD Programs

    Does anyone know an easy CAD program?

    I'm looking to add a subdivision to raw land. I was looking for a program that would be able to show it laid out. I can and have paid companies...
  13. Question: Child support

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    You have to tell the amount of child support and...

    You have to tell the amount of child support and income of the household you get on the apps. Is she reporting all the income and the household number of people with you included or left out? She...
  14. Question: My rights

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    You can't. Writing a letter to a judge...

    You can't.

    Writing a letter to a judge saying that you don't want to be in your child's live doesn't make it fact. My question is did you get something back from the judge confirming or denying...
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    OP – please clarify what you mean by joint...

    OP – please clarify what you mean by joint custody and how far away you are from your kids so we can help better.

    My first thought was joint legal custody until I read what cadillac59 posted. ...
  16. Do you have a custody agreement? Has anything...

    Do you have a custody agreement? Has anything been filed in court? Does he visit with the child?

    If he visits with the child, even without a custody order, he can go and file after you leave (or...
  17. Sorry to hear that.

    Sorry to hear that.
  18. To answer your question… People lie all the time...

    To answer your question… People lie all the time to get what they want. They would have to have show a reasonable effort to get in contact with you. What ever they did and the fact that you weren't...
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    Why would you want it? Are you still involved...

    Why would you want it? Are you still involved with him?

    I don't think you can get a copy unless you have an attorney and you are called as a witness in the trial. Even then I'm not sure you can...
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    If it was already heard and ruled on then there...

    If it was already heard and ruled on then there was no reason for an objection. If he filed paperwork to object for reasons already heard in court that will only upset the Judge.

    I would still...
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    If you have an attorney I would tell them. I...

    If you have an attorney I would tell them. I think it's important that you are honest with your attorney and get everything done the correct way. I'm surprised that you soon to be ex doesn't want...
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    If he had that may objections some, if not all,...

    If he had that may objections some, if not all, of them would have been heard in court, right? Or is this the first time you are hearing any of it?

    It sound to me as though he is going to put...
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    I didn't see that he had filed separation papers...

    I didn't see that he had filed separation papers in court. I was just going on them living in different homes as his post says above.

    If papers have been filed with the court that say they are...
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    I know you have been told how important it is to...

    I know you have been told how important it is to pay your support so I won't go there other than to say you do need to pay your support but I'm not sure that it plays as big of a roll that you...
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    File Married Filling Separate. Save yourself the...

    File Married Filling Separate. Save yourself the trouble of thinking about it anymore or worring if she will split any return you may get.
  26. Nevada does have grandparents rights but it is...

    Nevada does have grandparents rights but it is all conditional.

    Grandparent Rights to Visitation: If child's parents are separated or divorced or if one parent is deceased or has relinquished...
  27. There is no easy or cheap way that will hold up...

    There is no easy or cheap way that will hold up in court. If you are just looking to know then there are several places on the internet that do hair testing, check with your local doctor's office or...
  28. Nothing is done automatically. You have to file...

    Nothing is done automatically. You have to file the paperwork in order to stop the support, at that time your ex would counter with your son's is still in school and would provide the paperwork for...
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    Wow thanks for the info. She is very vocal...

    Wow thanks for the info.

    She is very vocal about the fact that he can't see the child because he hasn't paid support. She said the judge told her if he paid the support than he can see the child....
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    Visitation/Support in Texas

    My brother lives in TX and his girlfriend has a child with someone else. The courts granted her support, it’s pretty low because the child’s father doesn’t work. He has not paid anything ever, it...
  31. Question: Child support

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    You need to be paying support to someone for the...

    You need to be paying support to someone for the child. Support goes to the guardian, or the person who has legal custody of the child, unless the child was adopted then you have no right to the...
  32. Personally I would get an attorney for the...

    Personally I would get an attorney for the support issue, more so if your ex has one, but it's not needed. I have seen many people in JDR courts here without an attorney and they do fine. And JDR...
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    I forgot to say... be nice in your letter. Make...

    I forgot to say... be nice in your letter. Make it sound professional not like a know it all, if you get what I mean. You might want to have someone else read it to see if it comes across wrong or...
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    Personally I would want to have some kind of...

    Personally I would want to have some kind of court papers stating the child is living with me and the parents agree for me to be the guardian. Without custody papers the child's parents could cause...
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    You would have to appeal the ruling made by the...

    You would have to appeal the ruling made by the school by going to the school board saying XYZ law was broken by the school, please grant so and so the right to go to the school. Finding out the...
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    Wow... Are you angry about having to pay support...

    Wow... Are you angry about having to pay support vanabba3?

    Support is not for the mother to spend however she wants it's for the child. If a child lives with the mother most of the time then she...
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    Your attorney would have to file the paper work...

    Your attorney would have to file the paper work for the termination of support.

    She, the mother, would have to sign the paperwork and during a court date the Judge should ask her if the back...
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    It always makes a difference what state you live...

    It always makes a difference what state you live in.

    That being said... Does the mom's husband want to adopt the child? If so sign the papers and then the legal father becomes the mom's...
  39. I might make some people unhappy for saying this...

    I might make some people unhappy for saying this but I feel I should.

    If you think about this child being taken away from you every day and it's stressing you out then get the test done. At...
  40. Question: Chid visitation

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    I also agree. A judge is never going to say that...

    I also agree. A judge is never going to say that a parent can't see the child just because the child doesn't want to, there has to be more for them to rule like that. However I wanted to add that...
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    What state? Here its not a law (for a 16yr old...

    What state? Here its not a law (for a 16yr old to have their own room) In fact at 13 and 16, as long as they are the same sex and the OP says they are, they can share a room until they move out. ...
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    I have to disagree in part with the answers that...

    I have to disagree in part with the answers that have been given.

    In Virginia, like in every state what the Judge will or won't hear is up the Judge. I know in Virginia that there is not a set...
  43. Question: Is this legal

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    For the second part of the question... Yes even...

    For the second part of the question... Yes even if that paper is somehow legal, but I don't think it is, he will still have to pay child support.
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    It also makes a difference why he has physical...

    It also makes a difference why he has physical custody. Was it by agreement or did something happen and a Judge ordered him to take physical custody?
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    I was told all through my divorce that once a...

    I was told all through my divorce that once a judge has ruled on a matter then that is what you should go by, the signed order will follow be it later that day or 6mts from then. The judge still...
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    If there are no court papers stating they are...

    If there are no court papers stating they are separated then they are still married and all property is joint -- if you live in one of those states -- regardless of whose name is on the papers.
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  47. Question: Parental rights

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    You can look around and read any one of the...

    You can look around and read any one of the hundreds of threads on this subject but it all comes down to one answer...

    He can't, unless its to allow an adoption.

    He can choose not to be...
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    Sorry to say this but if that is the only 'Proof'...

    Sorry to say this but if that is the only 'Proof' you have then you don't know for sure she's hiding money. There are lots of different loans out there; may her loan if different from yours. ...
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    In that case I think it's a personal thing. Only...

    In that case I think it's a personal thing. Only you will know when you are ready. If you are going to claim "he was unfaithful" then you don't want to date. You also don't want to have boyfriends...
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    Be careful. Some states like VA say you can't so...

    Be careful. Some states like VA say you can't so long as you are married. It may be a point that a Judge will listen to if your ex brings it up -- more likely it will only make a difference if you...
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