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That person who was shunning me before and I are no longer friends. I'm really reevaluating all these people. Makes no point in me keeping people in my life who seem selfish.

Talaniman, no this is a different person, and SHE is the one making the arrangements not me. So why make them if you can't keep them?

Not sure how Talaniman can post such a response. I completely disagree. If the OP felt something between the fiancée and the sister, then it is because she has an impression (or intuition) that her...

Not understanding why age would be an issue. 42- old enough to know better!

A bit upset even though I haven't expressed my annoyance with the person I'm upset with. The problem is that lately, she's been making plans and then cancelling at the last minute. She's been doing...

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Long story short, one of my closest friends and I had a fallout and she and I are no longer speaking. This fallout happened five months ago. By the way, this is non romantic -we...

We're both girls- our friendship was a sisterhood.

People just don't up and leave a long term relationship over a debt they've had for years.
He's clearly starting a new relationship with someone else. That's how he's able to get over you so...

After I felt a close friend of mine (of 5 years) start to pull away, I confronted her about it and told her how I felt. I basically told her that I was worried that she is losing interest in our...

I have a friend overseas and we usually talk during the weekends and exchange packages during holidays, birthdays, etc.

We've known each other for about 5 years and I feel pretty close to her.
...

What does it mean to dream that you're in the dark and when you try to turn on the lights, they don't work?
I've had this dream a few times and it's kind of scary because I know that something is...

This is good, but I guess it'd be interesting to know how one just "clicks". I mean, when people are getting arrested or going to jail, it's not like they're actually searching for God, you know...

Would the term "internet friend" bother you if you thought you were close to the person? I really did think we were close. Like I said, we used to talk every weekend for four years and then for...

I have another online friend, we are very close. (at least I thought) .

We chat with each other on the telephone, give each other packages, etc etc. She lives in another country but she's like a...

I have a "close" friend from the internet - met her on a blog. She happens to be a professional therapist.

I've been to her blog and she is licensed - very experienced in her field. Anyway, we...

Lolol, well I too am a "wog", so maybe that's why it makes me feel uncomfortable - although she doesn't really talk about wogs more about blacks and arabs.

A good friend of mine makes me feel very uncomfortable with her racist views.

She's always talking about how "blacks should get over it" - meaning their getting offended at jokes, minstrel shows,...

Recently, I have been trying to be more spiritual and christian like, although I don't necessarily "feel it" per se, but there was a recent point in time where due to a bad breakup I had, (and my...

Oh me neither. I may not have that many friends, but the ones I do have are close and I keep them like precious stones! So when I lose one it hurts me to kingdom come. :(

But yeah, I think that...

I hear you, sister. I'm having the same problem with a good friend - love the girl like a soul sister. She was there for me 100% when my ex husband screwed me over. And what happens, out of the...

No, I'm a lady. :) Sorry to not have made myself clearer, but when I said that I loved my friend halfway to death, it's not that I fell in love with her, but that I considered her to be like the...

Actually, I'm writing about myself...

At times it's very difficult for me to accept that people just lose interest in once loving relationships and simply move on with their lives.

I find...

Lets face it, whether she's insecure or not, (which I believe she is), a second woman doesn't belong in a marriage.

Although I do not believe that you and your friend had a relationship and you...

I guess take courses at a local community college - the courses may be of a topic tgat you're interested in. What's so bad about your old friends? I think you should stick with them - you never...

But why is it that some people who are atheists or criminals suddenly "wake up" and start praising God? It's as if someone turned the "on" button on them.

Thank you so much for understanding. Cause this is a question that has baffled me recently

I've always wondered why some people have that spirituality in them - like they shout the halleluyahs' and all.

Others consider themselves to be christians and don't feel so spiritual. I'm one of...

No, don't share until there is actual commitment.

That's what you call lust - has nothing to do with love.

Dating married men is part of a self-esteem character flaw.

The point is I'm noit sure how someone telling me "don't let your imagination make problems where there aren't any" can even hint that someone is attracted to another. I think it was ridiculous for...

Sorry about this - yeah it was complicated to read lolol

Basically, I'm having a problem where a former close friend has stopped talking to me. When I approached the person, she pretty much told...

This is a very good question posted by Jor900. I've always wondered why some people have that spirituality in them - like they shout the halleluyahs' and all.

Others consider themselves to be...

Well you know, at this point who knows. I'm not with him 24/7. Just cause he's my brother, doesn't mean I don't have my doubts :rolleyes:

I'm not sure how I should take what a very close friend of mine recently told me.

I was telling Marge (not her real name) about another girlfriend of mine who was starting to avoid me. (of...

Lol, well I'm a she :p

But the point is that my brother is a police officer - was one in NY and now he's one in LA, and he'd tell me stories about those guys being with two or three girls at the...

Yes - please save yourself the misery. My husband was a cheat and today he's left me out in the cold, and I'm stuck in thousands of dollars of debt thanks to him. So please know that being with a...

I can already imagine how cute he is, but remember- a lot of them are cheaters - no offense to cops

Lol, let us know - this is like a soap opera.

BTW, I laffed when I read your post (not out of disrespect) but because the girls shower, sleep together, and made out in front of you and you asked,...

Why don't you just take her word for it? I'd be upset if someone accused me of such things.

I would invite the niece alone and just get it over with. Your mother is old, I think she needs to get her wishes accommodated - hate her or not, she won't be around too long.

Just invite the...

Fiohna, you may not realize it, but your own behavior (that of calling him so many times a day) has pushed him away.

No one, but noooo one wants to be with an emotionally needy person.

Great answer, Talaniman.

Obviously the girl has feelings for you, Matter, but feels uncomfortable cheating on her partner, whom she has already invested emotionally and otherwise in.

And...

People like her want attention. Once the attention is gone, she's desperate for it to come back. When you give it to her, she becomes the emotional bully. My advice? Run for the hills.

I don't like the fact that he spends money on drinks when money is tight.

Don't beat yourself up for relying too much on him. For some reason, us women are like that. We like to make our men...

The first few sentences of the post sounded like the guy is truly delusional! What a jealous freak! I'd be so glad he left- who needs that type of treatment- it would have gotten the best of you...

Well, it's really the eyes and mannerisms. I don't think that clothes will help me much. I still look like an inexperienced virgin. And I'm dead serious about that. Just yesterday, I got hit on...

I wrote about this just a few hours ago. I mentioned how some people don't communicate well enough to straighten out conflict - point in case your boyfriend treated you coldly or distanced himself,...

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I know that I'm beating this like a dead horse, but my good friendl who snubbed me last week is continuing to avoid me. Even after I approached her and asked her if there was a...

Good advice, thanks a lot. Do you suggest keeping a relationship with these kinds of people? The problem is that I begin to feel after a while that they do not appreciate our relationship - meaning...