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  1. Do not beg him back. That will be destructive...

    Do not beg him back.
    That will be destructive for you and only lead to a worse relationship and a more devastating breakup further down the road. We cannot control people no matter how we might...
  2. Question: The NC Calendar III

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    It seems to be an ongoing process. I still think...

    It seems to be an ongoing process. I still think about her, but no more than any of my other exes. She is now just another past relationship. I do not hate her and sometimes I think "what if?"...
  3. Question: The NC Calendar III

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    Hey guys. It has almost been a year of NC for me....

    Hey guys. It has almost been a year of NC for me. It is hard initially but it feels good. Hang in there one day at a time.
  4. Question: The NC Calendar III

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    I am going into my 3rd month of NC and I feel...

    I am going into my 3rd month of NC and I feel pretty good. I think of her but I do not yearn for her like I once did. I also believe that I can finally move on and meet somebody else. This site has...
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    I also like number 10. But all of them are great,...

    I also like number 10. But all of them are great, thanks.
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    Hmm another person with views that only the...

    Hmm another person with views that only the taliban would love. Goodbye.
  7. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Hjpan mental health therapist would be a good...

    Hjpan mental health therapist would be a good choice. When I first started in the military I was a respitory therapist. Medical field should allow your time for school. Just make sure you do not end...
  8. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Hey hjpan. Dude I like your plan. I was in the...

    Hey hjpan. Dude I like your plan. I was in the army for 9 years. Depending on the job you pick in the army do not expect to have time to take a significant number of college classes. If you want to...
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    She may not have your things any longer. Are the...

    She may not have your things any longer. Are the things she has really that important or can they be relatively easily replaced?
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    Yes he is abusive. The beatings will not stop....

    Yes he is abusive. The beatings will not stop. You need to leave.
  11. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    I thought men were the biggest carriers and...

    I thought men were the biggest carriers and distributors of STDs?
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    Wow! Thanks for your psot. I thought I was the...

    Wow! Thanks for your psot. I thought I was the only one feeling like this. I have not seen my ex for almost 2 months. Had no contact for about weeks. She will be back in town in about another 6...
  13. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Supernova glad you are here. NC is a goal do not...

    Supernova glad you are here. NC is a goal do not be too hard on yourself if it takes time to adjust to it. I, and I sure everybody else here will be pulling for you.
  14. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    That's okay spion it is all about progress not...

    That's okay spion it is all about progress not perfection. Welcome back.
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    You don't need advice you know what you need to...

    You don't need advice you know what you need to do. I used to do hard drugs. You need to leave him. By staying with him you are only helping kill him. He needs to hit botttom and you sticking with...
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    Hi you Boris. All I can say is that I feel sorry...

    Hi you Boris. All I can say is that I feel sorry for you. I hope things will get better. Are you able to spend time with friends and family. I find it is important to spend as much time around those...
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    Don't tell him in my opinion. You cheated before...

    Don't tell him in my opinion. You cheated before you were married. You are trying to relieve your own sense of shame and guilt. It is not fair to throw that on your husband just so you can feel...
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    Hey there I am glad you are here. Keep coming...

    Hey there I am glad you are here. Keep coming back. I feel for you I really do. Losing a relationship is painful and horrible. You are a worthwhile woman even though you may not feel that way at the...
  19. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    I hope the feelings of revenge settle down....

    I hope the feelings of revenge settle down. Lately I have been feeling like getting revenge. I want to put sugar in the gas tank of her jeep. I know it's not right but I want to. I won't but I...
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    Hi hjpan. Why do you still have your ex on MSN?...

    Hi hjpan. Why do you still have your ex on MSN? What is that doing for your piece of mind mate?

    I think your dream and your feelings are normal. We can think or dream about whatever we want. Just...
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    Ipod and laptop-hmmm.

    Ipod and laptop-hmmm.
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    Boy that sounds like fun. Go and enjoy yourself.

    Boy that sounds like fun. Go and enjoy yourself.
  23. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Lola if he says he needs time and you love him...

    Lola if he says he needs time and you love him then isn't giving what he asks for the best thing? From what I can see this is all about what you want. In reading your posts I see little about you...
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    Yeah I think they probably missed you at least a...

    Yeah I think they probably missed you at least a little Tal. I know I still think about the women I broke up with in the past. I don't really miss them but I do wonder and hope they are doing okay.
  25. Dude try Everquest instead and go on a quest....

    Dude try Everquest instead and go on a quest. Just kidding. Get rid of the game for starters and do not accuse her of anything. Do not play mind games. Be honest about how you feel.
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    Sounds cool Starlite. All the best.

    Sounds cool Starlite. All the best.
  27. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    This is very true. I too said I wanted closure....

    This is very true. I too said I wanted closure. Thanks to people here I soon realized what I really wanted was to try and my ex to see that she had somehow made a mistake in ditching me. I realize...
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    Hi Starlite glad things went well. When is he...

    Hi Starlite glad things went well. When is he going to visit you?
  29. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Hi guys I am so glad you are all here. REading...

    Hi guys I am so glad you are all here. REading what you are all going through gives me so much hope. Thanks all.
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    He is a jerk. Why are you still talking to him?...

    He is a jerk. Why are you still talking to him? He is treating you as though he owns you. You are an object to him and as long as you communicate with him he thinks he can get you back.
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    Nohelp4u I agree totally with what you said. ...

    Nohelp4u I agree totally with what you said.

    1927city I am going through exactly what you are at the moment. First my ex said she wanted out of the relationship and then the same day she said she...
  32. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Good stuff guys. I too am doing better and one of...

    Good stuff guys. I too am doing better and one of my friends even said that I seem to be doing better. NC and time seems to work wonders. You guys all rock.
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    I went through a similar situation years ago. I...

    I went through a similar situation years ago. I knew she had an abortion even though she denied it for 3 years. I suspect the man you are with knows too. I believe you should confirm what he already...
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    If you love her why can't you forigve her past?

    If you love her why can't you forigve her past?
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    It has taken me over a month to start feeling...

    It has taken me over a month to start feeling good about NC. Give yourself time and try not to be so hard on yourself. Things do improve slowly. Keep connecting with people aside from you ex.
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    Hate to say it mate but she has moved on. You can...

    Hate to say it mate but she has moved on. You can survive this, I know it is hard.
  37. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Aye bigbird the right thing is seldom the easiest...

    Aye bigbird the right thing is seldom the easiest thing to do.
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    I really have mixed feelings on whether he should...

    I really have mixed feelings on whether he should be told or not in this situation. It seems to me that you would tell him mainly to make yourself feel better. You were selfish enough to cheat and...
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    Starlite I wish you all the best with your...

    Starlite I wish you all the best with your meeting with the ex. After a month of games I think I am finally starting to move on from my ex.

    A friend of mine says it takes half the length of time...
  40. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Bigbird that sounds like progress to me mate....

    Bigbird that sounds like progress to me mate. Good for you. I agree that keeping busy and spending time with people is important.
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    I like this. Very well put and full of hope!

    I like this. Very well put and full of hope!
  42. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Hi guys today is exactly one month since I saw my...

    Hi guys today is exactly one month since I saw my ex last. I was doing quite well for the first 11 days. I was going through the NC thing and working through me emotions. Don't get me wrong it...
  43. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    I am too. I have been up for over 24 hours. I too...

    I am too. I have been up for over 24 hours. I too am missing my ex. It all sucks.
  44. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    It's true we all do suck!:)

    It's true we all do suck!:)
  45. Question: Still heartbroken

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    Mate your story is my story. My ex and I did not...

    Mate your story is my story. My ex and I did not have contact at all for almost 2 weeks after she said she needed space. Recently we have been e-mailing and talking of the phone a little. Supposedly...
  46. Question: Still heartbroken

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    Mate your story is my story. My ex and I did not...

    Mate your story is my story. My ex and I did not have contact at all for almost 2 weeks after she said she needed space. Recently we have been e-mailing and talking of the phone a little. Supposedly...
  47. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Jilted do not be too hard on yourself. I am still...

    Jilted do not be too hard on yourself. I am still hoping to see my ex next week.
  48. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Hi Jilted. Hope is a killer. I too am going...

    Hi Jilted. Hope is a killer. I too am going through the same thing. I am meant to meet my ex next week. I was miserable during almost 2 weeks of NC but I felt I was making progress. Now that she and...
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    Plonak and Blade it is good to see you guys. ...

    Plonak and Blade it is good to see you guys.

    Hjpan go for dude. 5 figures would be good indeed.
  50. Question: The NC Calendar II

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    Jiltedgirl NNG Classicrocker Hjpan and all...

    Jiltedgirl
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    Hjpan and all others thanks for all of your support. It does seem that NC is a process. It seems that NC for many of us happens over time. We seem to have periods of...
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