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Thanks all. I knew all this, but sometimes you just need to hear it again. Man, timing can really suck sometimes. I think I will call him in a couple of weeks and just casually say hi, hope he is...

I went out the other night, and met a great guy. He was the bartender at an empty hotel bar, I happened to stop in at for a drink after a business meeting. Instantly I was attracted to him, and while...

It might be a combination of both. You probably showed interest too soon into it and he lost interest. Very typical of most guys. Don't sweat it, move on and next time let the guy chase longer. I'm...

WHY DO GUYS SAY THEY WILL CALL AND DON'T?

I don't understand men. I met a guy online and we were talking for about 2 weeks on the phone and via email, as he was out of town on business. Things...

I think part of it comes from your mom possibly looking backon her own teen years. She doesn't want the thought of you kissing or doing something more with a guy, especially if she doesn't dig him. ...

I think if he is truly interested in you, then yes he will call within the week. But, guys can often be put off by girls who show their intimate side right off the bat, because they have nothing to...

Hi. I think what he is trying to tell you is that he wants some space, to live his life as a single guy. It sounds like you are a teen/young adult. If so, it's fair to say he just wants to be young...

Thanks I needed to hear that. And honestly, it wouldn't be my style to text the day after I would just let it be, but because the whole morning goodbye thing was a little half asleep and akward I...

I can always give advice well, just not apply it to myself haha.

So long story short, I met this awesome guy Friday night at a mutual friends birthday, we hit it off pretty well and by the end of...

I guess I sum that up as "timing" because had things been in a better flow for him, I think things would have turned out diffferent

It means that things were going great and then one day he decided he didn't want to be in a relationship even though he still really liked me. He just got out of grad school, mom going through a...

Just curious everyone's thoughts on contacting someone who you have dated in the past and had an awesome time and connection with but it didn't work out due to timing.

It's been months since...

You need to say something, and you need to move on. Its simple.

Yes I do think you should be worried. Your man is most likely cheating on you. Why stick around and wonder and worry? He should be with you on those nights not another chick. First off, listen to...

By now you two should have something in common. My best advice to you (as I've told my younger sisters your age) is just to be yourself. Don't try to impress him or be anyone but yourself. If there...

P.s. as far as what do you do? Well, you go out and live your life and don't wait for her.

I think you should go out and date other women, and don't so much wait for her, but when she wants to talk to you again and her ex is 100% out of the picture, then maybe take a chance with her if the...

I think the answer is easy, and deep down you know the answer. You need to move on. He is old enough to be your father as you know, and while you may think age is just a #, you should be with a man...

Hunny, if it were true love - no man would do that. You shouldn't cry over him... you should MOVE on.

I don't think you are overreacting at all. It sounds like singing is a passsion of yours, something you really enjoy - and if he knows that he definitely should have made an attempt to be there for...

I would also say, see how he acts when you want to get together or hang with him last minute. Like if he is "busy" tell him you were in the neighborhood and wanted to stop by to say hi etc... see...

Your gut will tell you the truth. Listen to your gut it's almost ALWAYS right. My gut told me so with my ex, and sure enough it was right. Listen to you instinct.

Does he hide his cell phone?...

It would probably weird me out a little... similar to men and their star wars obsessions. But maybe he has all that crap as a joke... like his friends and fam always get him batman sh_t for bdays...

"She also ended up telling me that she has never met a guy like me before, but she was afraid to tell me that because of all the times she has been hurt in a relationship."

Sometimes when you date...

What are you confused about? It seems like she has been very honest and upfront with you. She has a lot going on in her life right now, and just went through a lot with school, health etc. Honestly...

p.s. I haven't talked with my ex in 4 months, and of course at times it drives me nuts he hasn't made any attempt to call, say hi, etc just casually as a friend... but in retrospect, sometimes I...

Most likely, yes she thinks about you. Maybe not every day but you too were in a relationship, of course you run through her mind. But I think you have to let go of the thought of re-kindle. If she...

I think if you have a connection with her, it's okay to see what is there. You are both adults now, and you never acted on it or thought of it when she was 15 and you were 25. Maybe it was meant to...

p.s. I know this may sound corny but when I was going through it, I would be so depressed etc... you have to come out of your shell and literally walk up to a mirror and look at yourself, know who...

Having been in your shoes before, I know what it feels like to be cheated on. It was the hardest thing I've ever experienced and I literally at times thought I wasn't going to make it, my world was...

He's not interested because you are in his space too much. Back off. Don' casually walk in to his work and make it seem like you were in the area or whatever... avoid him. Don't text him, you sound...

p.s you don't need to apologize, at least not right now. Just let him know you are sorry about his brother and you are there for him as a friend. He doesn't need to take on worrying about you and him...

I think you need to back waaaaaaaaaaaay off and give him space. He has gone through a lot emotionally, and doesn't need you or the other girl in his head when he is trying to get over the loss of his...

I don't think it's a big deal. It happened, so what. Stop thinking about it. He will get the email and see it was casual. He will either not reply to it all, since a lot of people don't even take the...

Be strong hun. Move on. I didn't read your whole post but if he cheated out on, is into another girl etc etc, it's not worth it. He is messing with you, because you are making yourself vulnerable to...

AGREED. And yes, you really should stop contacting him! It will be hard, but it is a phase of life and of love. We have all been through it. It sucks, the thought of that person not being in your...

I think to have that possibility, you first have to let go of that thought, that possibility... live your life move on, and then one day if it's meant to be it will work out. But you can't hope for...

She wants what most women want, to hold onto you in some form. It's hard for women to let go. I think being friends with an ex is possible, as I've remained in touch with mine of 3 years, but it...

You will feel like your on cloud 9, and with your with him... no matter what you are doing, you feel totally smitten and happy and like nothing else in the world matter. It's a feeling of bliss....

You should go out with your girlfriends and see what else is out there. He sounds full of excuses. Make him wonder where you are, make him chase you again. See what else is out there.

P.s the only time he should be so speechless is when he has you walking down the isle in your wedding dress.

You really should consider dating other men in my opinion. It sounds like he is full of excuses. It takes nothing more then common courtesy to call a girl etc. Why are you so hung up on this guy? You...

Hun, how old are you? Him not contacting you for three weeks sometimes should be enough re-assurance that he isn't into it and you as much as you think or feel he is. You need to speak up or stop...

If you have been dating him for one year and he takes threw weeks out with no communication - that's just odd. It sounds like you two need to talk and get on the same page. Or else find someone new....

You should take a chance. It sounds like you are eager to see what else is out there. Don't settle for something you think might work out, take a chance with something new. p.s. I do believe in...

Of course it will be hard, but you have to look at the bigger picture, I mean what if you guys one day got married and had kids... that would be totally unhealthy going postal over spilled milk etc!...

You seem like an intelligent lady with a good head out your shoulders. Of course it's a huge red flag. He has anger issues, and you shouldn't get involved with anyone like that unless perhaps they...

My ex boyfriend did this occasionally and it drove me nuts! Bad manners are my pet peeve for sure. But the solution is simple - talk to her about it. If you guys have been together awhile I think...

I was just saying what I was saying, because I'm a big fan of guys calling if they are interested. In this case you didn't have any other way to initially contact her so that message was okay. But...

You aren't going to win her back if you keep trying. If it didn't work the first time it's never going to work. The only way it may possibly work is if you give her space and don't contact her for...