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I've gone NC for about 2 years up until this point. I'm not heartbroken about it, just sort of initially taken aback and you know there is always that feeling with an old flame. Your heart skips a...

I wrote back :/

I'm regretting it now. It was short and sort of crass. "I've been accepted to med school. I'm single and I want it like that. Good luck with your life, etc etc." Now I'm...

Thanks folks. I'm going to be polite, and go with your option 2 jmw, and I will not discuss my love life or give any advice or support.

Tal I forgot I had such a long thread going about her...

I dated a girl for 2 and half years and we broke up over 3 years ago. We both had issues that led to a pretty harsh break up. In the end we went our separate ways and have spoken only briefly over...

My man, you're her consolation prize. She goes out with you AFTER she fights with her ex. She's cool with you AFTER she doesn't get fired. You're being played like a fiddle my friend. As soon as...

I read your original post, and I think you made the better decision. Don't call her back period though. She made her choice. The part about taking it slow and easing off, is a nice way of saying...

This sounds like puppy love. Ah young love is so endearing. Go for it! But just make sure that whatever happens you guys make a pact to never get to a point where you hate each other or when it...

Fake accident? You sound a bit like you have histrionic tendencies. You have to realize who you are before you know how to fix your problems. It doesn't sound like you're actively analyzing what...

The saying never say never applies in relationships. In your case to have any chance at ANY relationship, that is one that is healthy and rewarding, you first have to take care of yourself. If you...

This is either a joke or you're inexperienced. She's no good and this sounds like just insanity. Find something more about you.

I'm at 180 days. I've reached acceptance. On my side it has been total NC, although she has contacted me 4 or 5 times since we last spoke, which I've ignored. I get sad, but I've reached a...

I'm 14 months in and I get sad from time to time. I've realized that it has more to do with me than with her at this point. She contacted me about a month ago wanting to touch base with me, but I...

You've got a real problem on your hands. Go to a marriage counselor with her immediately. She needs to hear from someone else that what she is doing is inappropriate and damaging.

There, so I guess it's CASE CLOSED then. You will live a good life find someone better than she ever will be and she can stick with mr. ape man. Time to move on my good man!

You are a girl indeed, how you doing cutie? Nice smile, wonderful advice too. I want to hear anything you have to say.


Ok OK.. seriously my man. You should also be aware and expect that if...

You're welcome. I've been there. You'll be allright. Never look back OK? Start living your life for you and building it made of brick so when the right person comes along they will realize how...

You're sister in law was probably afraid of being the bearer of bad news, don't fault her too much we are all human. She also probably realizes that this relationship wasn't right for you and...

It's not weird that her "perfectness" seems to disappear, I just said it would in one of my earlier posts. It's natural. Stop thinking about what if's , heck if I thought of how many what if's I've...

You know. In my years, and through tumultous self discovery, mistakes I've made, observance, 4 years of college, several failed relationships, a misplaced engagement ring, I've come to believe that...

And if you are 17, do you realize that you are probably to inexperienced to even navigate the complications you're about to endure with such a baggage filled tryst!? Forget him, find someone who has...

You're in denial. Take a breather. The reason everyone is telling you that is because it's pretty blatant.

Can I ask you, if you where walking down the beach and a tuna hit you in the face,...

Sounds like she felt bad about being the villain, and was merely trying to be a diplomat to your sister in law. That or maybe she's just a little girl, who doesn't understand the complexities of a...

Oh boo hoo, she's sad that she broke YOUR heart. She made her bed and she must lie in it. Never look back. In 1 year you'll look back and see the truth, and it's likely you won't feel as inclined...

That's using pure logic, which can work, but fails to take into account how relationships mostly defy logic. That is also under the assumption that she knows what love is. Some people don't have a...

Hey Plonak, how you doing cutie? Everything good hmm? Everything all right, need a massage?

Ahem ahem, OK onto Jerry umm listen my man, I'm going to be straight forward;

First, when a woman...

She's going to be a pain in the until she's about 26 or 27. You should be asking yourself, do I want to lose my hair and cause endless hours of torture on myself. You're young forget her, there's...

Dude this girl is playing all of you for fools. Cut her off.

Thank you all for replying.

Nohelp4u,

I know, I know I need a life. I'm working on cutting some of my responsibilities out, especially at work, so I can have some free time to pursue some...

About 6 months ago I was a regular here. It's been 13 months since I've been in any sort of relationship. I had a very intimate relationship, a great house, a promising career, and great friends. ...

The recent "Into the Wild" gave me a month or two of inspiration.

Going on 13 months since I last was with anyone. My ex has moved on to bigger and better things, and I seem to be in limbo. She's on TV. I'm on the couch, how metaphorically tragic can you get? ...

She's showing the classic signs of showing off! She's flaunting her new found affection in spite of you. It doesn't take a psychologist to determine that what she is doing is bound to cause...

How old are you SD? You're my hero man.

I am working out. I have my own private gym. Perhaps that's the problem. It's an office gym, and not many work out there. She doesn't know I'm in agony. Nor does she know anything more than,...

There is no way she will ever know that I am in agony. I'd rather die then let that be known. I take it from your shock, that 7 months seems to be a bit extraordinary when it comes to moving on. ...

It's back. The confusion, the jitters, the fears and the dreams. She left me 7 months ago. A woman that many have told me was unique and amazing. I can't replace the void. I was doing fine for...

I saw her tonight. Looking radiant. She was with her other. I can't seem to catch a break. It hit me hard. Why has it hit me hard? It's been 7 months. What's wrong with me?

Boo hoo right Cerisa? I was looking to feel connected. Like I'm not the only one completely alone this holiday season. I know I have my family (to a certain extent, I actually wasn't invited for...

Anyone else having as much of a hard time getting through your first holiday season without the "other"? Man I tell you, going home to a slightly dysfunctional family, where you are one of the last...

Apparent disdain for logic.

It won't end unless some drastic change is "brought upon". He either needs to go to a therapist, at which point you will have to walk this very rocky path with him, or you need to break it off and...

A woman literally, physiologically, radiates during pregnancy, especially during the first 6 months. I as a male, would say that one day I hope to have the ability to have a wife that is carrying my...

I think you need to date other people. This kind of inexperience can lead you to do things you don't know will harm you. Time to grow don't you think? Perhaps some real time apart would help. ...

Wonderful advice. I'd like to add that you have to cut her off. She might try and keep you on a string while she tests the waters of the unknown. Remember, she is the one that left she lost the...

Cordially and in a kind way distance yourself from them. What they did was rather cruel and they see you as a pushover. See if you can find someone else to carpool with. You know the old saying...

It's an ego trip she is having much like your question. She can't believe you are moving on and getting over the amazing being that is her. The last line was sarcasm if you didn't catch it. It...

Hello all,

I've been struggling with my mind lately. My past relationship has been finalized, and I'm no longer accruing emotional "escrow". In the previous months I've increasingly becoming...

You know, there is a member here, Chuff, he once told me that women, at times, leave you emotionally way before they leave you physically. I found that profound and quite frankly a realization that...

It seems like she is a very confused girl. She is clearly not opposed to confusing you. Take a step back, do not call her again and let her call you. Take some time alone to think about whether...

So let me ask you, is the type of guy you like the a guy who will cheat on his wife? Why are you playing with fire? Logically does it make sense for you to date someone who is untrustworthy?