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"He's Just Not That Into You"... not to be cliché, but please --- do you really want to 'hang out with him and his buddies?" You deserve better. I think you did exactly the right thing to put your...

Update... who knew any govt. office was so efficient--- package mailed yesterday, I rec. it today. That's unbelievable in itself.

Anyhow, it appears under paragraph #13 (ironic) that I have...

I'm not holding my breath on anything. I ask a question, got a few responses, a few suggestions, a few remarks, that's it.

I wasn't quite finished... (still making mistakes)...
Anyway, I don't understand what difference any of it makes if what YOU SAID is true and I signed off on his retirement in our divorce...

Remember Cool Hand Luke - "What we have here is a failure to communicate".

I think what started it was when I SAID I was "too young" and YOU SAID the numbers don't add up. I meant I was too...

Yes on everything you ask, except the alimony. No alimony.

I located the case on the county court clerk's website, and I ordered the documents, it said there were 4 pages, and they will be mailed within 2-3 days. It doesn't seem like 4 pages would be...

First, you assumed the role when you said "all 3 of us think that".

Stand on your opinion. Good man.

I will get a copy of the entire file. The application I completed with the office of vital stats said it was for the "dissolution of marriage granted in Florida", it cost $5.00. I will contact the...

I said I don't have a copy of the divorce decree, I did not say that I've never seen it. I have ordered a copy from the office of vital statistics in Florida. Should have it within 2-3 weeks.
I...

George or Cadillac - it sounds like you both think if I waived my rights to the retirement in the divorce decree, then I'm done... no chance of anything. Is that right?

Thank you so much for this response. I didn't think all the dirty laundry matters, or the numbers. If I did waive it, in the divorce decree, is it futile to even pursue?

Thank you for the posting info.

As far as the "too young doesn't sound right" comment, I was 34 yrs old when the bomb hit, so call me stupid. You don't know my background, the way I was raised,...

[QUOTE=Emland;1527663]floridanative: Have you remarried? That will determine a lot.

The rule of thumb is if you are married to the active duty service member for 10 years you are entitled to 30%...

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If you signed off on it and gave it to him it's gone.

The big "if", and I'm sure I did, like I said, he knew exactly what he was doing, and I was too young, or too...

How do I get a copy of the divorce decree? He filed for divorce, I signed the paperwork, I was young and naïve. I'm sure it said I would not get any of his retirement. He knew exactly what he was...

I do not have a copy of the divorce decree. No, I did not have a lawyer. I've got lots of "details", and believe me, the devil is in there.

We were divorced in 1987. He had been in the military for 3 yrs. When we married in 1971 the divorce was uncontested, I was shell shocked, and just signed the paperwork.

I think it was John Anderson.

Married an active duty military man in 1971. He had been in the military 3 years prior to our marriage. We were married almost 16 years, divorced in 1987. He retired from the military in 1990. ...

It sounds like from what you have said that your son should have custody of the child. Has he talked to the mother about this option? Maybe if he approached it as a temporary arrangement......

You won't like this answer.
I promise you this situation will not get better. He is ABUSING you, he has no respect for you. You are allowing his ABUSE and still having sex with him! Lucky...

My friend recommends that I start taking liquid minerals, not only to improve my health, but also to help with weight loss. Does anyone take them? What's it all about? Thank you.