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    Ask her. You got nothing to lose.

    Ask her. You got nothing to lose.
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    I never told her I wanted anything from her. It's...

    I never told her I wanted anything from her. It's not a big deal if I get with her or if I don't. It just doesn't matter. My whole perspective on this is that I've been friends with her for quite...
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    I don't really take it too seriously either. It's...

    I don't really take it too seriously either. It's just that I'd rather just stay friends with her, in the end. In all the years I've known her I never once thought of her as relationship material at...
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    Yeah. The whole cheating thing is true. But I...

    Yeah. The whole cheating thing is true. But I should have mentioned that it's not the first time this has happened between us. There was a gap of almost a year between the last time and the time...
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    I never rejected her, because I replied in kind...

    I never rejected her, because I replied in kind when she said it to me. Also, she was with her current boyfriend when this all happened. I tried to get together with her a few times in the meanwhile...
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    So, I saw her over the weekend and it was quite...

    So, I saw her over the weekend and it was quite strange. She acted like she didn't even know what I was talking about and she laughed about the whole thing. I feel foolish about it now and for some...
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    Thanks for all your help, you guys. I'm going...

    Thanks for all your help, you guys.

    I'm going to see if we can at least have a chat in the near future. I guess what this all boils down to is that I just don't want her to think I used her....
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    I agree with you, red. I think that what I really...

    I agree with you, red. I think that what I really want to do is talk about that night in particular and what it means to her. I know it meant a lot to me, but the difference is that I'm single and...
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    Yeah, we've crossed the line I think. Because of...

    Yeah, we've crossed the line I think. Because of that, I definitely do see her in a different light. It's strange really, because I'm torn at the moment. I'm not 100% sure if I want to be in a...
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    I'm not hooked on her. I'd just like to explain...

    I'm not hooked on her. I'd just like to explain myself to her and whatever she does or says is fine by me. It just feels like there's too much history between us for it to wind up like this. I don't...
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    Yeah, red's advice seems to be the most fitting....

    Yeah, red's advice seems to be the most fitting. I felt like an idiot when I last saw her, and I still do. The problem is that I haven't directly said that I wanted to speak to her about that night....
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    Here's the broad strokes: Really good friends...

    Here's the broad strokes:

    Really good friends for ~10 years. Also close with her parents.
    Went out with her. Got drunk.
    She told me she loved me.
    We slept together.
    I spent the night.
    Went...
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    I wrote up a whole post but when I went to make...

    I wrote up a whole post but when I went to make some edits I accidentally deleted it. I just don't feel like typing it up again.
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    Slept With My Best Friend

    Slept with my best woman friend.
  15. Question: My NC breakup

    by itried
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    Don't accept her friend request, no matter what....

    Don't accept her friend request, no matter what. This is all a power trip for her. She wants to keep all her options on a string just in case something better comes along or something bad happens or...
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    You can't contact him at all. You left him...

    You can't contact him at all.

    You left him and because of that you've given him more to think about than you can even imagine. If I were him I would be seriously considering if I wanted to get...
  17. You're so selfish and it seems that you've...

    You're so selfish and it seems that you've intellectualized the whole ordeal but in the end you still come across as a selfish, flaky, and immature.

    Here's what you do: move out of your ex's...
  18. I think it's really the other way around: you're...

    I think it's really the other way around: you're getting in the way of him and his DYING MOTHER!

    The first thing you need to do is understand that there will be trials and tribulations during...
  19. Maybe she thinks that your praise is...

    Maybe she thinks that your praise is condescending and she doesn't really care what you think about her parenting skills anyway. More than likely, all the tricks and techniques you employed when...
  20. Here's another perspective, She may in fact...

    Here's another perspective,

    She may in fact have feelings for you but the timing just isn't right for her right now. This is a natural feeling that comes to people after breakups and is actually...
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    It's unreasonable for her to have trust issues...

    It's unreasonable for her to have trust issues because you were with another woman, since she was the one to break it off with you. What were you supposed to do? Sit on your hands and wait for her to...
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    He hasn't responded after you said "just...

    He hasn't responded after you said "just friends?", which means you've backed him into a corner. If he says "OK" to being just friends then that's that and it's more than likely over. If he says...
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    I have a different take on this whole thing. ...

    I have a different take on this whole thing.

    I don't think he's being selfish or playing with you or that he just doesn't know what he wants or even that he doesn't want a relationship. I think...
  24. If he said it's over then you have to respect...

    If he said it's over then you have to respect that. Don't go trying to read between the lines for hidden meanings. He knows what he said and the consequences that come with it. The ball is in his...
  25. Don't do it. It's way too over the top and...

    Don't do it.

    It's way too over the top and desperate to just fly out to another continent to profess your love or whatever.

    Would make for an Oscar worthy scene in a movie, but an absolute...
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    From what you've written it sounds like she's...

    From what you've written it sounds like she's only amazing because you were always taking care of her and basically carrying her sorry a--. Now that she's found out about the debt you incurred during...
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    She does all this because she's obviously a huge...

    She does all this because she's obviously a huge b-i-t-c-h. You're lucky to be rid of her now that you've seen her true colours. Congratulations!
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    You can't realistically trust him/her again. No...

    You can't realistically trust him/her again. No matter what anyone says here, it's just not going to happen. You'll always remember what they did, it's just that the intervals may become more or less...
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    What you need to understand is that your girl is...

    What you need to understand is that your girl is just using you to fill the gap between her life and "happiness". As it probably stands, your current relationship is just a setback, a speedbump on...
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    I'm guessing that you only married her because...

    I'm guessing that you only married her because she's "hot" and gives you the best sex you have ever had. Bad move.

    You should have known what you were getting into but were probably blinded by all...
  31. If you know, deep down, that you would never do...

    If you know, deep down, that you would never do the same thing (i.e. sleep with one of your ex's friends/acquaintances/barber/dogwalker) then don't take her back at all. You have your morals and you...
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    I think that you may be on to something. She...

    I think that you may be on to something. She could be doing this to get your attention, after all, she wanted to make it official but you weren't on board. She wanted the label of "bf-gf" because she...
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    From what I gather, she's become a completely...

    From what I gather, she's become a completely different person while you guys were broken up, went out partying and started banging some dude. Then she tells you about all the wild monkey sex she's...
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    I'm just wondering what she is "hurt" about? She...

    I'm just wondering what she is "hurt" about? She dumped you, did she not? It doesn't make any sense for her to say that she doesn't want to be "hurt" again since she's the one who ended it. Dumping...
  35. Honestly, it sounds like the two of you have a...

    Honestly, it sounds like the two of you have a little routine figured out:

    Break up
    Put stuff in garage
    Leave door unlocked
    Take stuff
    Get back together
    Lather, rinse, repeat

    I guess what...
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    You should watch the movie called "I Love You,...

    You should watch the movie called "I Love You, Man". The guy goes on a bunch of "man dates" to meet some men, but he's not gay.

    Really, that's the only advice I can give because you don't want to...
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    Yeah, I would have to say that you have been had....

    Yeah, I would have to say that you have been had. This guy is just afraid to lose you because he may not have any other prospects at the moment. It's up to you, you know him better than us, but I'm...
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    Yeah, it probably was a big revelation for her to...

    Yeah, it probably was a big revelation for her to make and it probably took a lot of time for her to work up the courage to finally reveal it to you. Take it as a good sign, a sign of trust and go...
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    If she can't make calls then I guess your hands...

    If she can't make calls then I guess your hands are tied. You can't wait for her to call you so you have to make a move I guess. If you do have to call her, make sure that you have plans that don't...
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    She's been hiding it and that's all there is to...

    She's been hiding it and that's all there is to it. She wasn't ready to reveal it to you until recently. I guess you'll just have to get over it somehow. I have no idea how though, because I don't...
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    Just sit back and wait for her to call you. If...

    Just sit back and wait for her to call you. If she thinks you're hard to figure out, then make it even more difficult for her. Trust me, she's having way more fun talking to her friends about you and...
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    There's really only one way to get over a...

    There's really only one way to get over a breakup, and that is to avoid each other while your emotions settle down somewhat. When a breakup is fresh and the wounds are newly opened we can do things...
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    I think I get it. You now feel that she may...

    I think I get it.

    You now feel that she may have had ulterior motives when you two became friends? Now that she's revealed this to you, you feel that the friendship has been compromised and that...
  44. Question: No talking.

    by itried
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    You're going to experience a lot of strange...

    You're going to experience a lot of strange feelings. You may hallucinate and see neon leprechauns and pastel monkeys. It's going to be pretty weird but you'll get used to it. Also, look out for...
  45. Question: Proving infidelity

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    Yup, he's cheating.

    Yup, he's cheating.
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    Here's how I see it. I have a feeling that...

    Here's how I see it.

    I have a feeling that this guy really isn't as attractive as you think he is. The only reason you're with him is because you think that nobody else but him would be into you....
  47. Question: Ex contacted me!

    by itried
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    The fact that you say that you need to heal hints...

    The fact that you say that you need to heal hints that she dumped you.

    Never forget that she thought her life was worse with you in it.

    Tell her that you feel bad for her but there is nothing...
  48. Question: Love nicknames

    by itried
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    I got some good ones: Porkchop BonerChamp...

    I got some good ones:

    Porkchop
    BonerChamp
    Hot Dog Fingers
    Purple Headed Yogurt Slinger
    The Ramburglar
    Pennis the Menace
    Pope John Pole III
    Kaptain Keilbasa
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    You say that you treated her like crap and yet it...

    You say that you treated her like crap and yet it was she who came back to you after you dumped her in the past. Why would you think that you are in the wrong? Especially since she comes back to you...
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    Yes. ALL men watch porn. There's no reason to...

    Yes.

    ALL men watch porn. There's no reason to get into the reasons because there are many and it's not important. It's the same as eating, farting, burping or even picking his nose. He does it...
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