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Yea sucks doesn't it, too shy to approach, but usually they want us to approach, but I have to say, id never approach a gorgeous woman cause I'm not trina get turned down by a beauty, that alone...

I thought love was an emotion, not an action.

Define love.

Also a lot of it has to do with past experiences. Probably an embarrassing experience or put down and usually we don't want to re live it.

Don't beat yourself up, she was the wrong one das all, but yea I agree cause I find it difficult myself, to approach again after a break up.

What it is with shy guys, they find it difficult to...

So basically, either or, just depends on the situation and the 2 individuals right?

I don't believe ex's are meant to get back with.

There was a reason for the split, and people don't just click back.

You know there has been a lot of questions on here but I've never heard of...

Hmm, I don't know. Maybe it is?

OK OK OK, all sarcasim aside,

Miss, your relationship is over right? So this is the message you send people:

"i need help, my ex has some sexy photos and i dont want them to be made public"
...

Well, obviously he still loves you.

Geeze what you think men don't have feelings too?

Look, if you don't want anything to do with him why are you so concerned about stupid pictures?

I think...

What the? This sounds like a premade story.

That's too good to be true, and if its too good to be true then,

ITS PROBABLY NOT.

MAN, You're IN DEEP HERE.

Best way id put it, she's not for you. Listen, if you have doubts in your heart, and she says she's not doing anything, but you have a GUT feeling that she is, chances...

Wow, amazing, another torn girl.

These guys just don't care anymore do they?

Man they are making me look terrible!

THIS IS WHY THE GOOD GUYS can't GET GOOD WOMEN! CAUSE THEY ALWAYZ WORRY...

Yes, I agree. We all need this at times, as have I.

But there comes a time when you got to stop looking back, wondering if someone's there to catch you if you fall.

Instead, believe in...

WHAT ARE YOU SERIOUS!

You want pictures back from him cause you think he's going to make them public!

Man, how does this stuff happen?

Look you have no right taking those pics from him, as...

Well, revenge isint the way. You got to let him go.

Just don't think about it.

Look, if you love him, and you think its not going to work, do what you think is best for yourself, but don't do...

She did love you, the time you 1st met, when you used to stare into her eyes and tell her how much you love her, and her smile, turst me, it was love.

But you got to understand that you already...

No, when you guys 1st met, I bet she was young at the time, and you obviously were older and more mature.

She has no clue about what a relationship is right now, let her go mess up a couple time,...

She's not ready man. Let her go. Its going to be hell on earth but I'm telling you from experience let her go.

Had a g/f for 4 years, I'm 21 she was 18, some of the things she is doing is very...

Heh, you know what he's doing? He knows you're hurt, so in return, to make HIM feel better, he acts as if he doesn't care anyway. But honestly, he probably doesn't care, cause he may think "theres...

Look, alls it is, is you. What do you really want, deep down inside? Look in the mirror and ask yourself. Then answer.

There's your answer, now when you know what you want,

DO WHAT YOU KNOW IS...

Love triangles always turn out bad. If he is an ex, why do you care?

Bottom line , move on.

Yes. It hurts, GET OVER IT. Cause obviously he doesn't love you.
He MOVED ON. So you do the same. Or its going to hurt more an more, and you're just going to keep hurting yourself.

Take it from...

1st of all love triangles are just bull, second, move on you're going to keep hurting them including yourself. Just leave them alone and grow up a little.

No need for revenge, move on.

Cause he doesn't know what love is.

So approach HIM.

Shy guys cryptonite is usually being direct.

Just go to him and ask him if he likes you or not. Lol

I'm pretty sure he will say something strange at 1st, but be serious and make him feel...

Heh you got to understand how they operate that's all. Its all a game, just read the manual. There are a variety of guys out there who think differently and approach women differently. You can't...

Umm if he's shy, usually, he probably does. The only thing is, he won't approach you.

He's too shy.

So just go for it, trust me it'll work. Just start talking to him, keep in mind that he's...

Heh yea, you'll get tired of that though. You'll get tired of all these guys always coming up to you trying to mack you.

Then when you find that shy guy, you'll be all over him cause you enjoy the...

Look alls I'm saying is that he really shouldn't let one girl get him all messed up in the head, there's so much more he can be doing.

And yes your emotions are just inventions of the mind, but we...

You said BUT, there's your answer.

Hey I got a question, why are relationships hard to make and easy to break? Hm?

So basically you never had sex with her or bought her anything right?

You're missing what I'm saying,I'm speaking in business terms. Ultimatley it DOES come down to those 2.

Everything else is...

And ends with me.

Its all in the eye of the beholder.

People keep searching, people stop searching.

Its just how it is.

We give advice on our age levels, intellectual levels, and maturity...

Bottom line...

Loves like a roller coaster, it has its ups, it has its downs, shiz, maybe even some loopty loops, but eventually, like all things, it has to come to a complete stop, and...

Lol oh trust me, I'm not her, lol. But if that's what you feel then you are absolutley right, you don't need us telling you what to do, you already knew what you had to do, as you know her 10 times...

Look guy, I'm 21. Don't do it to yourself, really, its not worth it.

Love messes with your head too much. All of the good that comes out of it is false.

It turns you away from you friends,...

Bottom line why are you on here asking us questions??

Because you have "doubts" about him.

If that's the case, there goes trust right out the window.

If its true love there should be no...

Its because you still love her.

Ima tell you right now, if you don't love her make it easy for the both of you and move on, do what you got to do.

Cause it just gets worse. If I was you, I wouldn't even let thins thing get to...

Heh sounds to me like you guys were in a love triangle. Well, good luck with that, maybe its her that's going to hurt you in the end.

3 guys like 1 girl, hmm... I wonder who's to blame? Heh.

But this is something I've been thinking about for a while now, think this through carefully,

Do you love the girl? And if yes, what if she does come back?

Why wouldn't you take her back? Is it...

How do you not know what I'm talking about, aren't you guys the experts?

Here, let me speak in your language,

Basically, in the beginning I was told that this response was wrong, " until she...

Well he already answered the question.

Look I get it cause I did it myself skell, and its common sense that NC is the best way to go.

You know what then, what's your advice to the guy when she wants him back?

What if a couple years...

No one said it was going to be definite that he would get her back, we are just giving him advice so he can take the best steps in order to move on, and if getting her back is his consolation for...

This is ture, but we need to ask ourselves why is he here in the 1st place?

What? This is not revenge,"hes trying to get the girl back". What I recommended was the best decision to do this.

I believe this was more logical Than emotional.

We recommend he has no contact...