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Here's what I think ( MEN LOVE PORN ) Put it this way, men are visual beings. I don't for one minute think they are looking at the woman in the porn and saying " I've got to have her " it's not about...

I know you're right about what your saying. I'm just saying that being completely forgotten hurts a lot too. I guess that just goes to show you that break ups suck regardless of how they play out.

Thanks tal, I am doing great I think. My biggest concern is the next time I get into a relationship one of 2 things will happen. 1) I won't see it if he's pretending to be in it 100% like the last...

Hi guys, WOW! I just surpassed the nine month mark. Nine months broke up, nine months NC.

I read this thread a lot. I wonder how some of you can remain friends with your ex's. I still hold a lot...

You are so right, friends don't understand or they get sick of hearing about it. I think it feels like a death. When my boyfriend left I grieved just like he had died.

And this forum is a life...

I want to thank everyone for supporting me, and I know you do. It helps more then I can say. It's hard when so many members of my family work with my ex and his girlfriend, they think I need to know...

It's a little surprising to me that all you've seen is bashing. I too feel sorry for the children and I'm sorry if I haven't made that clear. And if it seems to you that all I do is bash my ex well...

Well cerisa sleeping won't be his problem seeing how he could sleep through a 4 alarm fire but rumor has it he's the one that takes care of all the kids because she doesn't want to be bothered with...

Ash he obviously wasn't like that in the first place or I wouldn't have spent 7 yrs with him...

As for my self-esteem, I'm doing fine. He's the idiot... not me.

Well I just thought I would share the happy news with all of my good friends here at AMHD. My ex and his girlfriend got back together and she has since giving birth to the twins.

They were born on...

Your original posts sounds like how you really felt and how hurt you were/are, this post on the other hand looks like you copied off her paper. It doesn't sound at all like you did in the first...

Friends with my ex, NEVER Going to HAPPEN. Like I've said before he left me for someone else and I didn't feel the need to invite them over for dinner.

In your original post you said if you were breaking up you weren't going to be her friend, that you were going to cut her out of your life... What changed??

I sometimes wish their had been red flags. It's like getting blindsided by a truck when you don't know their unhappy or thinking of leaving. He never indicated he wanted out and he never treated me...

My boyfriend of 7 years left me for a co-worker after only knowing her 2 months.

Thanks Hon, NC really is a blessing. If only we could see that in the beginning.

Oneguy, I agree you have some very valid points and I admire you for being happy for your ex. I also feel a little bit of bitterness is human nature... And your right, often what we think we have is...

Never George... I'm an addict now.

Wow George... You don't think that would be to mean? LOL just kidding

Tal he doesn't have the coconuts to call me after this..

I have an interesting update to share with everyone. Well my ex and his girlfriend are over. She finally admitted that the twins she's pregnant with aren't his...

She told him that they are her...

Number 91 is Marquise Hill the Patriots player who passed away this past summer!!
The '21' is in honor of former Redskins safety Sean Taylor who was murdered

I think this is every dumpee that has gone no contact biggest fear. I even posted about it in the beginning. As do a lot of dumpee's. I finally just figured that if he loves me enough to want to get...

This makes a lot of sense to me... We were together for 7 yrs, been broke up for 6 months. I still have not dated, he on the other hand jumped into another relationship only 2 weeks after we split.
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What do you call it when they leave a good long term relationship for a trampy gutter rat?
STUPIDITY?

OUCH!!

My ex's rebound seems to be working.. They've been living together since he left me, so they've been together almost 6 months. Hmmm maybe it's not a rebound..

If your ex leaves you for the other...

No because even if they say "IT'S 100% OVER FOREVER" you're not going to believe it... It's because you are in the DENIAL stage of grief.

Out of all the stages of grief that you are going to go...

If You guys only knew how piss'd I was at the responses I got when I first came to this site you'd be surprised. I wanted to hear things like call him and tell him how you feel, and things like sure...

I just have a general question here so anyone that knows feel free to respond. Many times on this site I've seen the dumpers make contact at 3 months of N/C. What is that? Is 3 months some kind of...

Very good plan lunchbox, My ex and I lived together for many years so everything I now have we accumulated together (furniture, t.v.'s dishes) EVERYTHING. It's rough living in the same place with all...

She left me hanging is a good title for your post MLB33... Its funny how that's exactly how we feel. Like were left hanging in mid-air not knowing what's up or down.

Listen hon, I'm about to hit...

I could never knowingly be the other woman... I might be self centered but I can't imagine being someone's dirty little secret. I want to be his one and only and not his second choice, the one that...

This post is crackin me up... I know everyone probably knows my story, but if you haven't read the earliest of my threads then you might not know that my ex is 19 yrs younger then me. Other then the...

My ex left me for one of his co-workers...

He at the very least had enough respect for me to leave before he got involved with her. As for advice, I really don't have anything nice to say so I...

Ok I think maybe the mistake is telling the guy you like him... If you are friends and you want it to be a more romantic thing I think you have to be less obvious. Flirting goes a lot further in...

I don't think even the fact that he moved in with someone else made it easier or more quick to get over him... I should've been mad but for months I made excuses for him... In my mind it was almost...

I've never dated.. Or what people would consider dating. I've only ever gotten involved with guys I've known for long periods. The thought of going on a date with someone I don't know scares the...

It's been 5 months no contact for me now... I think N/C is the easiest part of all this. I suppose when your ex moves in with someone immediately after leaving you it makes N/C that much easier... I...

I know exactly how you are feeling sully. I too have been brokenup for 5 months now and my ex moved on immediately... It sometimes seems we need the answers to why this happened before we can move...

My no eating or sleeping phase lasted about a week after my breakup.. Eating got easier but I still have problems sleeping and it's been 5 months

Stone Sour:

Through Glass

I'm looking at you through the glass...
Don't know how much time has passed
Oh, god it feels like forever
But no one ever tells you that forever
Feels like home...

Hi firefly, It's funny how things work out isn't it. I too accidentally found this website because I was patheticly trying to find websites that tell you how to get your ex's back... I came on here...

Yep, still 5 months later I say the same thing... It wasn't a case of having blinders on for me... He made it a point to make me think it was going to last... It must have been his sick twisted goal...

So true Chery... Besides I have all my teeth and I don't usually flash my boobies for Jerry beads.

Happy Holidays, to you too Chery

My story is so flippin interesting it should be on Jerry Springer... LMAO

You broke up with him and broke his heart. It's completely up to YOU to get in touch with him. Tell him straight up how you feel and that you want to get back together. None of this " I was just...

Letting go and moving on has been extremely hard for me... but you're right, NC is the easy part... I have'nt even been tempted to call him.

Diamondstar, I don't really have an answer for you but the advice to take it hour by hour instead of day by day makes sense. It's been 5 months for me too and I still think about him several times a...

Yeah I remember it... Great song the Eagles are the $hit