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    I know these books, they're wonderful. The...

    I know these books, they're wonderful. The author is Diana Gabaldon, and it's the 'Drums of August' series, I think:)
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    Ok, just quoting UK because we had this with a...

    Ok, just quoting UK because we had this with a family member. DO NOT MAKE ANY PAYMENT, that's accepting responsibility. The likelihood is that your sister may have taken out payment protection but...
  3. Lucy, don't try to call anyone when you have...

    Lucy, don't try to call anyone when you have these dreams - you may be calling your parents but you are also opening a door for others to come through. Do not engage in conversation, and do not show...
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    Yes, although ghost isn't quite the word I'd use....

    Yes, although ghost isn't quite the word I'd use. The belief is that all children are born with a sixth sense, and life, adults and people disbelieving gradually closes that down. Some adults still...
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    It means you're lucky and that someone's looking...

    It means you're lucky and that someone's looking after you:) Orbs are supposed to be energy balls, dust balls, or spirits that are looking after you, depending on whichever viewpoint you're...
  6. 18 and 26? Stuff that, I thought that you meant...

    18 and 26? Stuff that, I thought that you meant there was a large age gap, that's no gap at all. He would date her under other circumstances? He is treating you as a doormat, and getting off on it,...
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    No I don't, but you've had a baby and even if it...

    No I don't, but you've had a baby and even if it looks the same on the outside, it's had internal changes through hormones. How old are you? My weight went straight back down with my first child...
  8. Okay, he could be playing around, but it could be...

    Okay, he could be playing around, but it could be an issue of FRIENDSHIP trust. You said she's younger and single, so how much younger? Is she viewing him as a kind of older brother/father figure...
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    Fruit has a high natural sugar content, and nuts...

    Fruit has a high natural sugar content, and nuts are high calories - check out the back of the packets and you'll be appalled:(

    Forget the scales, have you used a tape measure? That weight could...
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    Multiple Allergies developing

    I used to have allergies when I was small - Septrin, tinned fish. Both would result in hives, with Septrin the damage so bad it would require hospital attendance.

    The last few years I've had...
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    It looks a little like my ceiling. Not...

    It looks a little like my ceiling. Not immediately visible, but mine is actually a form of lining paper up there, painted over.
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    From a women's perspective, you're doing the...

    From a women's perspective, you're doing the right thing. Send her a card if you like, but keep it impersonal. Nothing romantic, just hope you have a good time, happy birthday, do not even sign it...
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    You don't say anything about your age, or your...

    You don't say anything about your age, or your lifestyle. For this amount of time, you don't treat it, you get to the doctor's as soon as possible.
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    What's the financial implications of a divorce...

    What's the financial implications of a divorce for these two? How long were they married and together before they parted, and did they have kids?
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    I hear what you're saying about the 'brat' issue,...

    I hear what you're saying about the 'brat' issue, but unless you have one of these kids, you don't really know what you're talking about. Sure enough, there's parents out there who let their kids...
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    He's talking garbage. There is ALWAYS paperwork,...

    He's talking garbage. There is ALWAYS paperwork, how else could he take legal action against you for non-payment? I'm beginning to wonder if the original loan company have been careless with their...
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    Just a quickie - if you ever get in money trouble...

    Just a quickie - if you ever get in money trouble again, please don't leave it in the hope that it will go away for good. Just contact your creditors as soon as you know you're in trouble, let them...
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    Are you US or UK? In the UK, the Statute of...

    Are you US or UK? In the UK, the Statute of Limitations is six years, I believe. So, what happens is that they sell the debt on, the Third Parties attach, and that becomes part of the original...
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    He has ADD, he's going to get in arguments, rows,...

    He has ADD, he's going to get in arguments, rows, and he's going to do totally inappropriate things. He may not even realise that they're totally inappropriate, because of the ADD, he won't have the...
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    Is he copying another child at school that he's...

    Is he copying another child at school that he's become friends with? You said your boy's a quiet lad - if there's another kid at school who's already behaving that way he's going to be dominant if...
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    Susan, was this marriage prearranged from when...

    Susan, was this marriage prearranged from when you were young, is this a 'honour' marriage? Did your husband bring assets to your family or honour by the joining of his family to yours? I don't...
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    Is this BRIGADOON?

    Is this BRIGADOON?
  23. Question: Far Away

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    You are not useless, you are not helpless, and...

    You are not useless, you are not helpless, and you are needed. They are nowhere near healing, and what he needs to do right now, more than anything, is TALK when he's ready. One of the worst things...
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    I'd guess that the weight gainer has caused you...

    I'd guess that the weight gainer has caused you to gain fat, when really you needed to gain muscle. I'd say that you need to be working out with weights and exercising to convert that fat into...
  25. There were a fair few werewolf films about back...

    There were a fair few werewolf films about back then. Was it an American Werewolf in London?
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    Why are you even bothering with this piece of...

    Why are you even bothering with this piece of crud? He's an out and out user and the only reason he's doing this is so he can do exactly the same, and play you against her when she 'steps' out of...
  27. Question: No screams

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    I've just noticed something, the phrasing, you've...

    I've just noticed something, the phrasing, you've quoted 'a male' and not 'my partner'. Do NOT take this as criticism, it's not - but is this a regular partner or a 'light' date? Problem? Because if...
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    Wow, when you are, believe me, you know:) Umm.....

    Wow, when you are, believe me, you know:) Umm.. it's kind of like being high? But with every nerve in your body wide awake? NOT thinking about anything at all, but purely reacting? Literally,...
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    Well, check with the lawyer because of the...

    Well, check with the lawyer because of the property issue, but should imagine that such an unpleasant waste of space doesn't hold friends for long and most people's sympathies will be with you, and...
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    Your ex sounds a darling - over here in the UK,...

    Your ex sounds a darling - over here in the UK, the term would be a 'ponce'. He wants you to pay his credit card debt - lord almighty, this isn't a man you need a divorce from, but a slug that...
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    Because she's fun to be with is why you like her....

    Because she's fun to be with is why you like her. Nature doesn't give us templates of what we're going to be like and we stick to that rigidly:) 'She doesn't hang with the people you would' - are...
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    Are you mentally turned on before you get to...

    Are you mentally turned on before you get to this? Or is he rushing to get to home base and missing out the foreplay? Go right back to square one - lots of kissing, caressing, find out what your...
  33. I call it the 'Mata Hari complex' after reading...

    I call it the 'Mata Hari complex' after reading the statement 'and with whom' that she's said. She doesn't necessarily want you, but doesn't necessarily want anyone else having you, either. It's...
  34. You poor love, my heart goes out to you, do you...

    You poor love, my heart goes out to you, do you have family you can talk with, and what about his family? Ae you close to them, can you talk about him with them?

    It's still early days to be...
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    Tyne, it's when a woman doesn't talk to you about...

    Tyne, it's when a woman doesn't talk to you about someone else's looks that you need to start worrying. Women flirt for recognition of their looks and the effort they've made, not to get a man in...
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    Tell them straight when they knock, that their...

    Tell them straight when they knock, that their calling is not convenient. Do not let them dog walk, or anything like that. You are going to have to get tough, but can I make a suggestion?

    Dog...
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    Think about what you said in your first posting. ...

    Think about what you said in your first posting. 'I was in the kitchen talking to her friend'... so you were talking to a female that you'd not long met (presumably as she's your new girlfriend's...
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    Nope, you're highly sensitive and just prone to...

    Nope, you're highly sensitive and just prone to the same worries and fears as the rest of us. They're accentuated because of your frame of mind, at the moment. And WELL DONE for not acting like the...
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    There was no criticism intended, it was simply a...

    There was no criticism intended, it was simply a response to your posting. As to your response - I have a son with ADHD who was picked up with the condition at a very early age, barely two years...
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    Please, for you to make that comment shows that...

    Please, for you to make that comment shows that you've given this some serious thought. Please take him to a consultant and have him checked out, it may even be something physical. Being afraid of...
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    Will he make eye contact with you, and does he...

    Will he make eye contact with you, and does he avoid physical contact? Have you had him checked out for lower grade autism? These kids can be very, very bright but live in a world of their own...
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    ] When did you last change your mattresses

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    When did you last change your mattresses
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    Can I just ask you something, and please don't...

    Can I just ask you something, and please don't take offense at this. You've said that you had a six year marriage and he's now a british citizen because of this? Have you actually been physically...
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    Desert Flower...

    Desert Flower

    Waris Dirie - 'Desert Flower' - amazing book.
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    At 20 years old, maybe you're not really 100%...

    At 20 years old, maybe you're not really 100% sure exactly why you feel the way you do? That wasn't so much speculation as giving her an open door to just say she'd maybe made a mistake anyone...
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    Maybe she's simply just fallen out of...

    Maybe she's simply just fallen out of infatuation, and it was never love to begin with? Older guy treating you better, spoiling you, heady stuff - then down to normality and realising he's already...
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    Have you seen the Kenny Richey case in Ohio? Mr...

    Have you seen the Kenny Richey case in Ohio? Mr Richey was on Death Row, but has now been released. The charges of Murder and Arson were dropped, and basically his conviction now stands at his not...
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    Your conscience should be telling you it's wrong,...

    Your conscience should be telling you it's wrong, nothing to do with law of the land, or the Bible. If you feel any other way and you're on here looking for someone to make any attempt to justify it...
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    What does your partner say, and what do his...

    What does your partner say, and what do his family have to say about all this? Have you all sat down together and discussed options? Your boyfriend also has a duty of care towards you, as he's...
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    Love changes over the years, but what you maybe...

    Love changes over the years, but what you maybe are feeling the most and not realising it, is resentment and you've lost respect for your husband. I've just been there with my own husband, so you...
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