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    Are the two of you actually a couple? Or do you...

    Are the two of you actually a couple? Or do you just like him and think he likes you? And did your friend start liking him at the same time you did.

    Because if he is single and your friend liked...
  2. There could be many reasons this happened, it...

    There could be many reasons this happened, it could be because of aging, it could be your mind imagining things to justify your theory (it's possible since it's been awhile since you last had sex),...
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    Ignore his sexuality for the moment. Weather he...

    Ignore his sexuality for the moment. Weather he is gay or straight concentrate on the fact that this is a guy who left you to have sex with someone else, with the expectation that you will still be...
  4. While people are right that this is none of your...

    While people are right that this is none of your business, I wouldn't be able to do nothing if this were my brother.

    If you are sure about this then I would talk to your sister in law.
  5. You shouldn't tell family/friends purely to hurt...

    You shouldn't tell family/friends purely to hurt her, but you shouldn't let the fear of them finding out stop you from doing what you feel you need to do to either leave her or make this work. It was...
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    To answer your question NO, it is not OK that...

    To answer your question NO, it is not OK that your mom is having an affair.
    I really think you should confront your mother about this first, as said a good place would be in the hotel lobby before...
  7. If it's been two years and you still have not...

    If it's been two years and you still have not gotten close to forgiving her then you probably never will.

    The fact that this was "premeditated", she has no real excuse for doing it (at the...
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    I have got to agree with the last two posts in...

    I have got to agree with the last two posts in saying that unfortunately to give your marriage the best chance possible your friendship is over.

    Chances are your husbands will never be OK...
  9. She still cheated on him for one and a half...

    She still cheated on him for one and a half years, and like I said it isn't the past for him.
    I don't think she should be let off the hook just because she managed to successfully hide it.

    I'm...
  10. Jesushelper76 He found out a few days ago, it...

    Jesushelper76
    He found out a few days ago, it isn't the past for him.

    rahluraj
    How long were the two of you together before you get married? Why did she cheat and why did they break it off? Why...
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    So she was raped by someone 10 years ago before...

    So she was raped by someone 10 years ago before you were married. If this is true then I would leave it in the past, I too would be bothered by her lying, but since she was raped you can't really be...
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    I agree, Blood type alone is not enough to test a...

    I agree, Blood type alone is not enough to test a child's Paternity, I would advise a DNA test.
  13. I agree with J_9, if they are young, whether you...

    I agree with J_9, if they are young, whether you are leaving her or not, neither parent should try to turn the children against the other.

    If/when they are old enough to be classified as...
  14. I haven't been in a relationship as long as yours...

    I haven't been in a relationship as long as yours myself so I don't understand the levels of commitment you have.
    But if this was my Girlfriend I would make my opinions clear once and if she...
  15. Ask him, it's all you can do. Why would you...

    Ask him, it's all you can do.

    Why would you want a group of your friends at your brothers wedding anyway.
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    I got to agree with Llisa and Romefalls19 here, ...

    I got to agree with Llisa and Romefalls19 here,

    Your actions, whilst not wise, had good intentions where as she was just being Mean. Especially putting you down in front of her friends and...
  17. I really think we need more information to give...

    I really think we need more information to give you a good answer here.
    A one night stand is one of the few forms of infidelity that I could forgive, but it greatly depends on the circumstances...
  18. I don't know myself but have you tried asking the...

    I don't know myself but have you tried asking the person who gave it to you?
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    No one should ever have to do something sexual...

    No one should ever have to do something sexual that they do not want to, just because you accepted another female into your bed does not mean he has to accept a male.
    You should accept his No to a...
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    If you truly love you husband you wouldn't be...

    If you truly love you husband you wouldn't be having an affair, which is what you are doing, having an affair. As others have said stop making excuses,accept the blame and accept what you a doing.
    ...
  21. It would be useful to have a bit more info here,...

    It would be useful to have a bit more info here, but from the sounds of it she has just gone and dumped you so she can have sex with other people and then expects yoy to just take her back when she...
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    This has been going on for too long now, if she...

    This has been going on for too long now, if she hasn't seen that what she is doing is wrong by now or at the very least respected your opinion as her husband, then I'm sorry but she never will, I...
  23. I agree that seeing a therapist is the best...

    I agree that seeing a therapist is the best solution to your anxiety.

    Also break up with your boyfriend. From what I understand you not only cheated on him but you wanted to continue to do so and...
  24. More details seriously needed, if you were...

    More details seriously needed, if you were together/engaged when she was seeing this man then I say divorce, I personally could never forgive someone and definitely never trust someone after a two...
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    I agree with Jake2008 in that you should...

    I agree with Jake2008 in that you should definitely talk to a lawyer before you talk to her.
    She is not the woman you think you know.
  26. Question: Teen Shaving

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    He should start shaving when he starts getting...

    He should start shaving when he starts getting facial hair he doesn't want.
    As for downsides to shaving early, as far as I know there are none.
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    I can't help but laugh at this comment. The guy...

    I can't help but laugh at this comment. The guy is going after another man's fiancÚ, even going so far as proposing, And you seriously claim he has morals?

    "The grass is greener on the other side...
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    You say there are signs that they had a...

    You say there are signs that they had a relationship that ended five years ago? I hate to say this but you should probably get a DNA test on your children. Especially after seeing her text "Do you...
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    Sure tell her her she can have sex with him, just...

    Sure tell her her she can have sex with him, just make sure to tell her not to come back after.

    Even if she doesn't have sex with him, to seriously consider cheating when your only four months...
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    I've got to agree with most of the people here, I...

    I've got to agree with most of the people here, I wouldn't have a problem with my girl having a vibrator, I wouldn't take it as an insult to my capabilities but instead another way to give her...
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    Your brother is trying to get your husband to...

    Your brother is trying to get your husband to cheat on you? You seriously need to get away from these people, family or not.



    It's good that your husband is actually making an effort, however I...
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    Always Keeping your phone close and denying...

    Always Keeping your phone close and denying others access to it is very suspicious, but to actually bang on a locked door to get it back, and then erasing it all. It's extremely obvious here that,...
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    As others have said, you can't say she is bi...

    As others have said, you can't say she is bi because of a dream.

    And even if she is bi, it shouldn't really matter, as long as they still find you attractive and are loyal to you it makes no...
  34. I'm Confused, are you saying that if I went on a...

    I'm Confused, are you saying that if I went on a massive killing spree, I shouldn't feel guilty about it the next day?
  35. You should tell your boyfriend and hope for the...

    You should tell your boyfriend and hope for the best, he deserves to know before your relationship gets any more serious than it is. It's terrible that two of the people closest to him would betray...
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    I Agree with your point that the three can be...

    I Agree with your point that the three can be completely separate things, however in this case they are not. If you agree to have sex with other people, or even to have emotional relationships with...
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    You are still with your husband and have not yet...

    You are still with your husband and have not yet told your boyfriend it's over, Explain to us how exactly you have made your decision.

    The grass in greener on the other side, because by staring at...
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    There ares some situations where if one spouse is...

    There ares some situations where if one spouse is abusive(emotional or physical) it may be fair to say they had it coming.
    However I believe that you should get out of an unhappy relationship before...
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    I agree, at the moment your husband believes the...

    I agree, at the moment your husband believes the problems in your marriage are all his fault, and at this point the blame lies more on you than him. It's a lot harder to fix a problem if not everyone...
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    If the Other man is okay with being nothing more...

    If the Other man is okay with being nothing more than a bit on the side then he obviously doesn't love you as much as you think and clearly doesn't have much potential to be in a full relationship....
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    Admitting the full details isn't necessary I...

    Admitting the full details isn't necessary I know, but admitting that the strain in your marriage made you look elsewhere may help reinforce the marriage in the long run. Preventing marital problems...
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    I think you need to admit the your affair. I am...

    I think you need to admit the your affair.
    I am not sure what you mean when you say "kissed and other things" but since you haven't slept with the other man yet, this affair is only emotional, and...
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    The fact that she shows no regret over her affair...

    The fact that she shows no regret over her affair shows she doesn't really see what she did as wrong, meaning she is likely to do it again. She cheated because you didn't give her what she needed and...
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    Marriage counseling is for married people who...

    Marriage counseling is for married people who are having problems, but still love each other. You have said you no longer love him, and you don't see that love coming back, so it would be useless.
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    Personally I would say leave him, he cheated on...

    Personally I would say leave him, he cheated on you for a year and were it not for his desire for you to sleep with another man and for you to get involved with his fantasies he may never have told...
  46. As others have said, who he cheated with is not...

    As others have said, who he cheated with is not as important as the fact that he cheated in the first place.
    His wife should know, although try to get him to confess to her himself.
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    If everyone abandoned her then I presume that a...

    If everyone abandoned her then I presume that a lot of people knew about her having an affair, meaning that the husband probably knew as well and since he didn't leave he must have accepted it in one...
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    I agree that you need to let this go a little,...

    I agree that you need to let this go a little, and concentrate more on your own relationship.

    However since she has admitted to having an emotional affair with the guy, and lied about it for a...
  49. I know it will be hard, but leaving him is the...

    I know it will be hard, but leaving him is the best option.
    That is Unless you can live knowing that he is sleeping with other women, some of whom are your friends.
    He doesn't seem willing to...
  50. Confessing to your husband seems to be the only...

    Confessing to your husband seems to be the only option here, and in truth you should have told him anyway. It will sound a lot better coming from you than the man you had an affair with.
    You husband...
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