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Is it happiness? Is it success? Is it apathy? Is it forgiveness?

I have wanted to get the quote "success is the best revenge" tattooed on me for some time but, I've recently begun to question...

No, scratch that. We enjoy sex. As much as men, and for some of us, more.

But in all of my experiences, no matter how great it felt or how experienced my partner, I've never been able to get off....

For the past week I've been going to bed with my stomach mercilessly growling, the kind of uncomfortable growl that echoes the room and makes you want to apologize to it for not feeding it LOL....

Your mother sounds like my great-grandma. :) She'd blush if she saw me in the kitchen! It would have been great to get some cooking lessons while she was still around. Alas, I was only playing with...

Thank you! This will work perfectly. I have salad and some cold diced fruit. :)

I have mayo and Parmesan, I don't have onion, and there are 4 breasts.

Oops, I forgot to mention that--yes!

I don't have oil but I do have butter, so I brown the chicken with that stovetop before putting it in the baking dish. Pour said ingredients over chicken, I only have provolone and swiss cheese that...

I want to cook something tonight for my boyfriend and I because I'm going away for a little while. I'm not much of a chef so, I'm hardly in the kitchen.

Problem is, I have VERY limited ingredients...

That is terrifying. Brain starved of oxygen? Like a week ago I was doing an improv skit at school where I was pretending to choke, and the wire actually did get stuck around my neck and I had to get...

Thank you! Yes, I slept for about an hour and didn't feel anything when I woke up, but about ten minutes of being awake it came back. I'll try a cold cloth and laze about, hopefully time will shake...

I have, and I'm thinking that might be the cause. Sleep seems to be the only thing that helps. Oh well, excuse for some serious napping! :)

Before I went to bed I was seeing annoying white flashes. They happened every few minutes until I fell asleep. I woke up at 8 with a throbbing, pounding headache in my temple/eyes/teeth. It's...

:) I am feeling very empowered by all of this positivity. I appreciate your help dearly!

This gives me a lot of hope and a lot of encouragement and I thank you.

I never noticed I was giving him so much power, but now that I see it, it's both frightening and embarrassing. There's a lot I need to correct.

Indeed I do. It's easier said than done, but nothing worth doing is ever "easy".

Thank you for the advice.

You know what? You're absolutely right. Why am I still here? I should be taking the advice I ask for.

I'm afraid that if I bring it up, he'll use it against me or claim that I take for granted the other things he does for me.

I'm 18, he's 24. I stay because I'm confused and lonely.

My boyfriend doesn't make moves, give me compliments, or initiate sex.

He says I want it too much and everything leads to it. He says he doesn't kiss me because it'll eventually lead to sex.
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I've been looking for this movie for years. I watched it over and over as a kid but don't remember the title or character names.

A little Asian girl is driven by her parents to work on some white...

Thanks a ton! This is all the information I needed. I will definitely update when and if I find something. :)

I'm in the Pacific NW of the US.

I've been needing counseling for a decade, but I don't have the funds. I've talked with different doctors about Sliding Scale payments and they were still too steep for my near-nonexistent income.
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Ahahaha! Brilliant!

Love myself, set higher standards?

I know exactly what you're feeling. The flurry of frustration and guilt and hurt that can come when you're always ready for sex but your partner never is.

Tips: don't throw yourself at him, let...

Bahaha! Post-coital smörgåsbord.

I'd do anything to feel powerful again.

Young girls fall hard, I guess. He's my very first love. And I feel like if if let him go I'll have nothing to live for. It's so pathetic, but I can't control it.

I'm in the dumps today, as per usual, and I need to vent. I'm hoping to also get a few answers to some of my prying questions.

I've caught my boyfriend in a lot of lies, and they went unpunished....

I don't blame him, but it's really frustrating.

About five months ago I tried to snoop through my boyfriend's phone but it was locked and I couldn't figure out the passcode. He asked me later if...

Oh my goodness, I would love to! It's been a while since I've gotten to write something constructive. I'm a newbie so share the blog details? :)

Thank you for this information! That is so fascinating, but also conditionally unfortunate for those trying. Great read nonetheless. :)

I'm a young woman who loves to travel and compose music and poetry. I'm good at making people laugh. I'm pretty much all on my own when it comes to family.

Thank you for your positivity. It's really refreshing and appreciated. I'm having a hard time with my own pride and power, but I guess that's a whole other topic in itself. I almost feel...

You're correct. I don't currently have the confidence, nor the courage, to dump him. I'm emotionally exhausted and it's a lot easier said than done to walk out on something I've put so much into.

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3 posts merged together about the same relationship to avoid confusion, and have the whole story in ONE place.

The title says it all.

Before you ask, I have many reasons to suspect.

He...

That is so incredibly strange! With all of the pregnancies on birth control, I would assume it would be so much easier!

Just go for it. He'll show the signs if he's interested or not, in this day and age it's perfectly normal for women to be the initiator. :)

Exactly. Feelings tend to overshadow logic when you love someone, or even like someone. At the end of the day, the person you really need to be taking care of is yourself. You're all you have...

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No, because the following morning I called him and casually asked, "Who's Natasha?" and he said he'd never met a Natasha. I explained the message content to him. He was...

He gave me his Facebook password to view a friend's profile, there was something funny on there I couldn't see because I blocked that person.

Inbox pops up, out of curiousity I read it. And then I...

Growing up, my family set an example of careless eating, and often rewarded me with food. I used food as comfort and it became my friend and enemy.

I was bullied for being overweight until it...

Craving power and control comes from insecurity and jealousy. He probably has a lot of past issues he hasn't dealt with, and he expresses them in a way that put him on the pedastal, put him in a...

Are you using any form of birth control?

If not, it might be the time to try a pill (patch, ring, or whatever you find convenient and comfortable).

They're known to lighten periods, relieve...

You're a second choice. Don't stick around.

I've been in your shoes and I can tell you, this isn't going to be a happy relationship.

If you guys were to develop a more serious relationship, his seeking out the attention of girls will...

As I said, remind him of his boundaries, if she can't do it herself.