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The nookie thing was genuinely an example, not related to what you were talking about. I was trying to come up with a way to illustrate motivation in this sense. You had stated that you were trying...

It is impossible to be selfless.
Hey A-hole, you just need to be able to honestly see what your motivation is for doing what you do. For example:Are you cleaning up because you feel like it will...

I think you have been given some good advice here already. I do have some questions for you-
How much do you trust these repressed memories? What made them come out later, and was there a...

I sent you a PM, Snowyhill. It has been a very long time since I have been on the forum, but this jolted me right back when I checked my email. Thank you for reminding me that I don't live in a...

Seems to me like you are pushing aside all of the thoughtful advice about how to treat her and still insisting on finding out how to get her to perform oral on you again. You are being selfish.
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I don't think I would put up with it this long either. If you have tried to find out what is wrong and he won't tell you, then no one can blame you for leaving- you tried. I would wonder, though, if...

Describe the "big black void of uncomfortable sleep", please
I can't process it because a black void of sleep (to me) is just a very deep sleep, and how can that be uncomfortable? Sounds wonderful!

I have had the same sort of feelings for men before, and I have always felt it was me actually wanting a big brother. I don't think that having those feelings for another girl necessarily makes you a...

I think you are probably shook up over the deceit from both your ex and your friend. Maybe it also hurts your pride- who likes to be duped like that? Have your moment of grief and anger and then go...

Your right- we all have our insecurities- at least you are with someone understanding. It seems you are just sensitive, and there's nothing wrong with that. You just require a mate who can won't take...

BOOT CAMP!

You really need counseling for everyone, though, because you mentioned all these separate issues that everyone has. A counselor would be able to tell your husband to get off his (he...

You will get better, and the pain will go away. Being with someone for 4 years and having them do that is unforgivable. To carry on with an affair for over a year? That means he didn't have the balls...

Around the time I turned 30 I just stopped worrying about what people think of the real me. I say "real" because in certain work situations you have to behave appropriately, but around my peers and...

Interesting...
Need some more info- why would you want to if it were possible?

I got a message from Snowyhill- she is doing fine and doesn't have any more thoughts of self harm.

You have a lot of the symptoms that the online questionairs discuss. If it last more than two weeks you are supposed to see a professional. Maybe there is someone at your college who can help.

I really don't want to judge, but if your daughter acts like this 24/7 I can see why she would have a hard time holding a job- is that true? You didn't mention anything about her employment status,...

You could also ask people if they think OCD would be treated by medication, and ask if they think OCD could result in hospitalization. I think a lot of people trivialize it into just a behavior and...

The cutting is to release a lot of pain that you have stored inside. You think it will release the pressure like the blood is being released. It is almost a physical manifestation of what is going on...

Medication is a personal choice- you can try other things before you go to that, but you really have to decide what is important to you, first. Truth is, your mood swings DO effect your...

You have to watch out with Effexor- it has what the doctors call. "discontinuation syndrome". When the medcine levels drop in your blood, you have symptoms that are not very pleasant. I take it, and...

One more thing- there is WIC and other types of help for you if you look around on the web and in your community. That can really help you out financially. See how many people can give you a shower....

I went through the same feelings when I was pregnant-I think doctors always concentrated on "post" partum depression, but it can start during the pregnancy too. Keep thinking about that gorgeous baby...

I sent her a PM- maybe she checks in. She is 13 and may have just needed to reach out at a tough time. Lets just hope she is OK now.

I think dreams are symbolic in the sense our own minds create metaphors for what is affecting us in our daily life. To me the snake is something negative that is really bothering you right now and...

Perhaps you should post your own question on a new thread- it sounds like you have some specific concern, and you may get more attentive answers posting your own question.

Is that you Mark? I told you to quit smothering me! As you can see I have had experience with an insecure person like yourself- no offense. KP2171 is totally right- your neediness and clinginess is...

That really doesn't mean the house is haunted. It isn't a good idea to jump to conclusions and possibly scare Screamin. I don't get the connection between your pets and Screamin's thumps and bumps....

I'd bring it up the doctor again. I think anything that affects your ability to rest is important to address with your doctor.

All I can add to Joe's comment is "don't be like your mother." I know you probably are not, but that is the only solice you will ever be able to have because she will probably never see how wrong she...

Have you been checked for sleep apnea? There is an aparatus you need if you have that condition. They have you do a sleep study at the clinic. If this is something you have never checked out with...

I just want to thank everyone for their input here. My decision for now is to encourage Aud to do her best academically, and nurture her artistic abilities. She was chosen to join the art club and...

I used to be in the military, and I still work with them as a civilian, so I am always concerned for those who are not with their families. That is what prompted me to open the thread.

EEEEK! No offense, but the poor guy isn't bothering anyone. His coworkers are simply trying to understsnd him and maybe help him. Turning him in for being a little different could further alienate...

Hopefully everyone had a great Thanksgiving. The Holidays are here again-so soon! This time of year is not a time of joy for everyone. In fact, it can be a very depressing time for a lot of us.

I...

You can use Tai Chi or Yoga, as well. Exercise is one of the most beneficial ways to improve your mood. Write in a diary or journal, too. I am really glad to hear you are finding a way to help...

It is a catch 22- you probably won't feel better until you forgive Uncle Rick, and yet your misery over his actions is what is causing you to hold the grudge. I know how this is. I suffered for years...

This is really a hard one to deal with! I can tell that you truly do appreciate everything your mom has done for you. You are not being ungrateful by trying to be independent from her. You are...

I will admit that I am really sensitive to criticism, and I was even more so as a young student. I still don't handle it well. I have to admit though, that even though my life drawing teacher was...

Have you spoken with a family counselor or a social worker? Maybe you can get some advice on how to talk to your son about this without confusing or troubling him.

It does put a whole new loop in...

All I get from my daughter's father is the monthly child support (I am happy to get that)- the least your ex could do is support his child financially. He can't do crap in the courts for custody if...

Not really- I wasn't attacking you- I asked a valid question. BTW- I am college educated, even if I don't post it in my signature. I don't take offense at all to your theories or try to shoot them...

There are a lot of choices out there for people suffering from depression and mood swings, but what about people whose relationships and lives are effected now? What about those who are suicidal and...

You are welcome. I really hope you find help somewhere.

I think you need to address the sexual assault with a trained professional. I also think that while a lot of the negative thoughts you are thinking about your current boyfriend are fueled by...

Whoa! I can't even fathom the hurt some of you have gone through, but I know what it is like to have an absent, unloving parent. I had a horrible father who was open about how he hated me for "taking...

I can see mandating a nature theme for an assignment to see how each person interprets the assignment. If the specific lesson has to do with detail, then pop art wouldn't work well in the parameters....

See if the doctor's office will talk directly to the insurance company to work this out for you. I have found that I don't get anything done by being a "go-between" . Since the Dr wants to be paid,...

It is good that you recognize the effect you are having on those close to you- not everyone does. If you are looking for descriptions or explainations for your disorders, you can Google to find a lot...

OK- Huh? Did I forward SPAM, so to speak?