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Any suggestions about what to say to credit card companies about lowering interest rates? I pay on time but I am trying to pay them off and I refuse to go through a credit counseling company, as they...

I don't have a family yet, or even a husband, so don't laugh too hard, but I am considering becoming a teacher so that down the line I will be able to stay home with my future kids. I guess I never...

I graduated in 2002 with a communications degree, got good grades in college, and did a PR internship after graduation. But... I had a tough time finding a job in the field, so I ended up taking a...

I am a 27 year old female, 5' 7" and 140 pounds. I was at 125 lbs and I want to get back there but I refuse to starve myself like in the past. I go to the gym every day for an hour or so. I do...

I am interested in going back to school to become a high school counselor. :eek:

What do high school counselors deal with most in a typical day? Do they focus more on students with social and...

I am a 27 year-old female, 5' 7", 135 pounds. I am in pretty decent shape, although I would like to improve overall this summer, so I am trying to work out 4-5 times per week.

I injured my right...

Thanks, and yes, I agree it isn't hard to call when you say you will. It seems like guys are taking a while to grow up these days! Arrgh! I will do as you suggest and just be polite and move on....

I went on a date with this guy a few weeks ago. He is a marine, and we went on the date one week before he had to leave for training (a 3-week camp).

Anyway, the date went very well, and he said...

Thank you jonath85 and lovelesspa! Great recommendations. I am already eating wheat and multigrain products and I drink only water right now (except my morning coffee... can't seem to give that one...

I am a 27 year-old female, 5' 7" and weigh 134 pounds.

I have worked out off and on for a while, but recently I started exercising for 1 hour every day.

My routine is as follows: I run a 10...

He did not tell me there was someone else until I was back home a thousand miles away, and only after 3 months apart. I was in agony the whole time. And he never fessed up to getting together with...

I went through this EXACT experience just 6 months ago. I am 27, my now ex-boyfriend is 35. My ex and I were together for 4 years... he was ready for marriage and kids and I was "just not ready". We...

This is kind of involved...

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I have been seeing this guy for 5 months or so. Let me start with the fact that he is 26 and has not had a serious girlfriend EVER. He is extremely...

You are a genius! Thank you! It worked!

My aunt has a website where she posts pics from her mac. I tried to copy and paste them to my desktop but no image appears. The only way I get an image is to convert it to a bitmap format but then it...

Thank you for your reassurance... I was beginning to think all men were this crazy, but you have helped more than you know!

This guy I have been seeing for a couple months is confusing me. We had "the talk" the other day about where this is going, and of course, this is after we just had sex. We hadn't been getting...

I started dating this guy back in late September. It was kind of a rocky beginning because I had just ended a four-year relationship, but he was very interested in me and was patient while I "figured...

I started dating a guy who is a year and a half younger than me. I am 27, he is 25. At first, things were great! He was totally calling and emailing me. After 6 weeks or so of dating, I slept with...

Thanks, that is good advice. I was 23 when we met and he was 32, so I think that had a lot to do with it.

I am doing a lot of soul-searching these days after a bad breakup. I always had considered myself to be a very giving person, because I agreed to move when my ex wanted to move and I felt it was a...

I am a female in her 20's and I think I have an anger problem. Recently, I started anger management voluntarily. The thing is, I feel like this anger inside is deeply rooted and I don't know if I can...

Thanks. I tried to end it on good terms - that was the whole reason for the email. I won't do anything else... there is nothing left to do so I have to leave it alone now.

It just sucks. d*mned if...

If that is the case, then should I just not contact him, or send another email saying sorry I overreacted. I feel like I am digging myself into a hole here.

He already has a new girlfriend. That...

Well, it has been 2.5 months since I moved out of the house. We were together for 4 years. I know through the grapevine that he started dating someone as soon as I left. They must have met while we...

Why did my ex have to be such a jerk?

I sent him an email this morning... people told me not to do it, but I am weak I guess... told him I was working on being less passive-aggressive, could he...

I would call him, but he already has a new girlfriend. I found out through the grapevine, although he refuses to admit it to me. You think he could be honest after 4 years. He started to date her as...

My ex and I recently broke up. Well, we broke up 2 months ago. We had been together for 4 years, but I did not want to commit for some inexplicable reason. I have done a lot of soul-searching the...

My ex broke up with me. We were together 4 years. We lived together almost from the beginning, moved a few times to different states. I was 23 when we met, he was 32. So of course, I knew it might be...

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Finally, an answer that is totally clear. I really appreciate your advice.

I won't do it.

Thanks again!

My boyfriend broke up with me. He wrote me a letter telling me he felt like I did not need his heart enough, that the growing stopped with us, and that he felt I needed to fall in love with someone...

Hi Miszulaki,

Thanks for checking in... I am doing better. My ex called me on Sunday and told me he misses me but not to expect us to get back together. I am confident he is with someone, which...

How is it possible? I thought I wanted to go to grad school, to be with a different guy, to live closer to my family (we were 1000 miles away). My boyfriend broke up with me because he said I did not...

Thank you SO MUCH!! I really understand where you are coming from! When he called the other day, I (unfortunately) confessed that I had stopped dating for a while because I needed to put things into...

My boyfriend broke up with me. We were together 4 years. I think he checked out of the relationship a while before we broke up. A lot of it is my fault -- I kept pushing him away because I felt...

Short version: I wasn't ready to commit, he broke up with me, I want him back. I live 1000 miles away and we have been apart for 2 months. He is dating other women and last I talked to him (2 weeks...

Yeah, you are right. I guess that is why I should wait a little longer, at least.

It might really be over. I hate to see it that way, but if he doesn't write me after he promised to, then probably...

How long should I wait?

10 days ago he told me to move on on the phone, but then he replied to an email I sent later that day. He said he would write "when he can". It's been 10 days and nothing...

IS THIS GOOD OR BAD LETTER TO SEND HIM??
How are you? How is work going? Hopefully you had a nice Halloween. Anyway, I hope you are doing okay.

I think about you and I really miss you. I...

Yes, I want to be with him. I kept thinking the little things that bothered me about him were a big deal. After dating other guys, I realize the things about him I took for granted that I would not...

So I pushed my boyfriend of 3.5 years away because during the relationship I was unsure of what I wanted and "who I really am." 2 months ago he sends me packing back home (we lived in a different...

This is my first time using this site, but I am impressed with the thoughtfulness of the answers, so I hope someone can help me out.

I am a 27 year old female and until recently I was in a 3 1/2...

Brutally honest yet inspiring because it really is the truth.