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Thank you DoulaLC. I'm slowly coming around and my good days are outweighing my bad days, that's for sure. TY:)

Thanks Oliver! Great attitude. I'll get there :)

Just a quick update... For whatever reason, I've decided to have absolutely no contact at all with DD also... It's been a tough month+... really tough... and as much as I care about her, I feel like...

I had a very good relationship with her. She has always wanted me as part of her life and events (Baptism, ballet recitals, performances, etc). He'd always say, DD has your back. She adores you and...

Tal and Wondergirl, I appreciate this forum/site. Thank you...

Not so much a question but a thought I'm sharing... Had to fight myself from reaching out to him today. My ex-husband (I'm on good terms with, divorced 7 years ago) called this morning to let me know...

You're right... the truth hurts to hear/read but you are right. TY.

To be fair, I'm sure if you asked him, he would say that he 'offered' his home and heart to me and the girls and feels slighted that I didn't move in. He'd likely also say he feels trapped in that...

I agree... Communication is a big problem. No, he would never send his daughter to any school in the area where he lives. He even mentioned, that she "is taken care of" so he didn't have to worry...

Jake2008 and DoulaLC, thank you... actually, thank all of your for your input.

Point taken... After he realized the consequences of his poor choices and how erratic he was behaving... but by then, I think he realized it was too late which is likely why he bailed...but to do it...

I think we can both be stubborn. I've certainly compromised a lot to be with him. Every 2nd/4th weekend, I'm at his house, rain or shine to spend alone time with him after my kids go to their dad....

I asked him about the house and why he purchased it... especially seeing as how I had JUST helped him move into a rental townhouse 5 months prior. He CLAIMED he rushed to get a house in that short...

Hello everyone,
I'm going to try to condense this but I TRULY would love your insight on this situation.
2 yr relationship. Both divorced w/ kids. I have mine 98% of the time. He has his 50+% of...