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No not yet. I am kind of in shock. This is something that I never expected even in my wildest imaginings. I have just had a great holiday and now this. Trying to get my head around it....

Update:

We have just had a really good holiday. He was sick part of the time, so a bit grumpy, but he apologised for it. Otherwise we got on really well and had a lot of fun,and everything seemed...

Thank you so much guys. Your comments made a lot of sense actually. I will just be patient and see what happens, and perhaps provide you with more questions along the way!

Alte, I definitely...

Hi Everyone,

I am currently dating a guy who is 37 (I am 28), who has a girl aged 8. I have never dated someone with a child before. We have been dating a few months now,and we see each other once...

That's great!

I am cheering for you too! :-)

Happiness is not having what you want... but wanting what you have...

I don't know who said this quote but it can be applied to many situations including body dissatisfaction.Being happy with...

Every end of a relationship regardless of how functional is was, is hard.

This is a hard time for you but hang in there...

I PROMISE YOU WILL FEEL BETTER WITH TIME...

Whenever you find...

You have the power... You have control over the situation... I agree with Amicon. You should not let him dictate your life.
Either tell him it is over and never make contact or accept contact with...

Yes I also I agree... You are not alone! :mad: very frustrating

What is your speaking impediment?

No question is stupid but obviously we have to play by the rules right.

We all think we are really mature when we are younger, and the older you get, the less mature you feel... When you are older...

Hide it... definitely don't tell your wife that you are on this site right now

Just done it!

OK. Won't do it again for sure

I am really sorry Altwenweg. I did not know this was the rule. I posted it before I saw your message. Can you delete my post?

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For oral sex?

Why would you want to do this?

Hey! Don't let what others think, shape how you feel about about yourself. Do you even know what they think? What evidence do you have they they view you in a negative light anyway?

When girls get...

Yeah Emo Princess... I agree. Yes, a bad marriage affects everyone in the family. Once you have kids, they should be a priority in your decisions. Staying togetherfor the sake of staying together...

Don't make the samemistake again. USe a form of birth controland act responsibly. Think of this as a mistake that you make once turned into a learning opportunity.

By the way, pulling out is NOT...

One more thing... It you are tired and fatigued and unwell, it can really have an effect on your mood, and how you perceive things in your life. It may be that you do have problemsin your marriage,...

It is important to sort out your relationship problems or leave, because this will have a alsting detrimental effect on your kidsif they are around this unpleasantness. You not only have a...

R. E. S. P. E. C. T (to tune of Arethra Franklin) Altenweg! (for decifering the meaning) :-)

I agree... it sounds like you are really unhappy. You should change your life and start making it YOUR life.

Getting financial independence is a very good first step. Get a job.

Having your...

Haha Alty! Lets see what he says..!

Ps I never imagined excon as elderly! In fact it is quite strange to think how we imagine everyone on this site to look like! I suppose we all have our own...

Love can happy to any of us at any time. Just because you are young doesn't mean that you canmt experince love. The very fact that you are asking the question that you have, shows that you are...

Are you serious? I don't know if this is a joke or you want a real answer...

Happy to give a serious answer if you want one! :-P

It definitely sounds like you are ready to meet someone...

You are still young and there is lots of time still.

Meeting someone takes both effort on your part, and luck. If you are open to...

Your life is your life and only you know how to live it in a way that makes you happy.

Life in general (and happiness) is all about finding the right balance between doing what you want (our...

What does your boyfriend want you to do to him? It is not very clear. Does he want to have anal sex with you?

You should not do anything that you don't feel comfortable with,no matter what he says.

Sexuality is a journey,and it can take many years to develop sexually and to eventually feel comfortable with your sexual self. You are still very young, and are still discovering who you are...

Hi Artlady,

I have just got back from a no-internet holiday... Now at work.I really appreciate your honesty. I will have a think and get back to you... I think it would do me a lot of good to...

Radioactive:
It is the first time that he has lied to me. But not the first time he has smoked when I am at his house in another room, or when he knows I am coming over.

Hi Artlady;

When it is just casual use, then it is OK. Although I don't want to be around the smoke.

When he smokes a lot, then I cannot connect with him We are on different levels for weeks....

I am really struggling at the moment. I am heartbroken and in despair. I have left my boyfriend of one year because I found out that he is still using marijuana even though he told me that he was...

Cold turkey sounds horrible, and it is (only for a short while), but it certainly is the best way to do this. Hanging on to this man, especially how you are feeling in your last post, will only cause...

Thanks! :-) will check it out. I don't have much experience with online recipes, so this sounds like a great place to start. Yay!

I think that you should respect the fact that he is 'seeing someone' at the moment. I take this to generally mean that he is off bounds, regardless of your previous conversation. Why else would he...

What day of the cycle were you in? (ie when was th eday of your last period)

How long does your cycle usually last?

Did you have unprotected sex? Have you had sex since the 12th December?

We...

I am looking for a good, failproof recipe for a traditional pumpkin pie. There are so many on the internet, but I can't ever be sure if internet recipes will work. I am not from USA, but I have...

Gun pil is a brand of silicon based lubricant. I should have made myself clearer... I didn't mean to use literal gun oil as a lubricant.Silicon based lubricants are hypoallergenic, and also last...

My advice to you is simple, although echoed in the posts above:

Don't HAVE AN AFFAIR!

This will never do you any good, even though it may be good at the time. Why don't you try reading some of...

I have read your other post. It really sounds like you are confused about what is happening with him. It is not fair for him to not let you know what is happening like this. If he has left you then...

After 2.5 years, I think it is very hard to let go of someone, regardless of what the cause of the breakup was. You will both have formed an attachment to each other from th emere fact of having...

By the way, I didn't mean to make it sound like all men are bad, and all women deserving of their love. It goes both ways. I was just speaking from the point of view of my sex (female) and the OP's...

I have also loved a married man, and this was one of the BIGGEST mistakes I have EVER made.

You are hanging on to something that you believe that you cannot do without. I know how that feels, but...

I believe that finding love takes a certain number of things, partly luck and partly effort.

Luck factors:
-meeting someone who has a compatible sense of humor, desires, values, intellect,...

This is absolultely normal. It is what you do in waking life that is more important.