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  1. How do you feel about it ! That's the bottom...

    How do you feel about it ! That's the bottom line... Does it fit in with what you want out of life and relationships ? Only you know the answer... but I would suspect that your need to question...
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    No disrespect guys and thanks for taking the time...

    No disrespect guys and thanks for taking the time to reply. But from many years observation of the dating game and attractive women. Conversations with guys and girls, It would appear that what...
  3. Height or lack of it has a direct affect on attraction.

    Women prefer taller men and seem to reject smaller men, smaller men are more likely to be left on the shelf.
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    It would appear from my observations that we all...

    It would appear from my observations that we all look (Upwards) for want of a better word in terms of physical appearance value and then personality or combination there off.

    What I mean is we...
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    Clarity help and support needed.

    Hi Guys

    I find myself in an ongoing position this is difficult for me to handle.. A case of can't see the wood from the trees. I struggle with relationships and dealing with them.

    I am very...
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    It's Official! I am rubbish with women... D'oh!

    I am pants when it comes to women...

    From attracting them...
    From handling ex's moving on...

    I am just rubbish...

    I would love to be able to easily attract beautiful women, form a...
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    I just don't like it

    I never like the fact that an ex-partner can be so happy without you... As a person I really really struggle to deal with that... I guess its cause I find it so difficult to move on...


    I just...
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    So hard to get stunning women !

    Like the song says everybody wants her, everybody needs her, everybody wants to take your baby home...

    But I find it so hard to get he stunning women... so frustrating, they have there pick of...
  9. When you arrogantly think you can replace someone and your wrong

    How do you live / come to terms with that.
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    Do fit woman trade looks for money

    It would seem to be the case... What's your honest interpretation of the world... not the fairy tale interpretation.
  11. Question: Ex's

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    Ex's

    What is the best way to act around Ex's so that you can regain any lost value and attraction that was gone?
  12. Is this the same for Women (Women only answers please) !

    IF HE FINDS HER VERY ATTRACTIVE HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH HER.
    (Because he finds her attractive he has both an emotional interest in connecting with her and to be open to her connection interest in...
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    Emotional Higher Ground

    Nobody likes to not be wanted... Either from an ex, who no longer wants you... ouch! Or from prospective partners who don't fancy you... ouch.

    You can't hide from the hurt of this, but what is...
  14. Looks & Personality vs. Status & Personality

    Men are attracted to their perception of physical beauty, mirrored somewhat by advertising. (Same for women).

    So if the nature of attraction is based on the positive emotional interest in another,...
  15. Question: A love dilema

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    A love dilema

    Love is a positive emotional interest to be with the other person, based on physical attraction, personality attraction and positive rewarding experiences. I.e seeing a value in the other person!! ...
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    Unable to come to terms... still

    I know I have already posted about this subject...

    But its something in my life, that despite my better judgement and desire I have not been able to come to terms with...

    Frustration, anger,...
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    Some help guys...

    I am stuck in a vicious rut... I am not as good looking or successful with the ladies as I once thought I would be... At that time I dumped someone I should not have.

    But my assumed success has...
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    Nice House & Car makes you more attractive.

    Similar to last post but different:

    If being financially stable and smart with money is important and it's an attractive trait for both a man and a women to have.

    Is this enough to turn an...
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    Women what's your honest take on this. (Not...

    Women what's your honest take on this.

    (Not gold diggers, we know your take on this). I mean in terms of attraction and chosing a partner.
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    Does Money Make You More Attractive To Women

    Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread.

    Does having lots of money make a man more attractive to women.

    Not talking about the obvious gold diggers!!

    Women in...
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    Some wounds are just to deep !

    When a person purposely deceives or goes out of there way to hurt you.

    When it meant nothing to the other person.

    When then don't even value a friendship with you.
  22. Question: Value Reversal

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    Thanks for the answers guys. Not plesent to...

    Thanks for the answers guys. Not plesent to hear but truth.

    I guess when I see her, I need to act like it meant nothing to appear on that higher ground..
  23. Question: Value Reversal

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    Value Reversal

    I left thought easily find another, did not. Girl met another and no longer interested.

    Suffering value reversal for someone I did not want and can't forgive her for what she has done... So much...
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    How do you forgive an ex for moving on

    How do you forgive and accept that an ex prefers someone else over you and that your relationship had no value. Meaningless...
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    Dealing with negative emotions

    Having someone who you perceive to be of value either because of looks or personality emotionaly interested in you makes you feel good, attractive, deisrable and wanted. All the positive feelings of...
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    I am shocked !

    Just seen a photo of a long ago ex, with the lad she chose over me. This is someon, who I have pined for.

    I can't believe I allowed myself to get hung up on her! She is nothing special to...
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    Dealing with it meaning nothing

    Ever had an ex who acted like they were well into you, only for you to find that in reality it mean nothing to them...

    Why lie, why just not be honest.

    Relationships end: If it meant...
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    Emotionally Higher Ground

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    Is it right to get angry over the fact that you miss them, but they do not miss you. They have moved on and happy...
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    Love can come back.

    If initial physical attraction, followed by positive emotional interest, positive time spent together and positive rewarding experiences is needed for a strong emotional bond, i.e. love.

    Then once...
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    Sick & Tired

    Hi All.

    I am sick and tired of feeling regret and pain over losing an ex who whilst she said the words her actions have demonstrated our time meant nothing to her.

    I can't help but wish I had...
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    I wonder if ex's ever regret moving on.

    I wonder is sometimes you move on from somebody but then regret leaving the person behind.

    Is the grass always greener.

    Anyone ever found this and tried to go back ?
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    No different girl - the one that got away. ...

    No different girl - the one that got away.

    Just a painfull rant over mistake made...
  33. Question: What is love?

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    Love is a strong emotional attachment to someone...

    Love is a strong emotional attachment to someone who is perceived of very high value, based on spending positive rewarding time, interest and experiences together.

    Anything else is making do. ...
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    Just can't understand why she does not have...

    Just can't understand why she does not have questions. Staying friends seems to of allowed her to wein herself off me... I didn't realise. Aaaargh !
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    I want her back

    I so miss what I had, I so miss her wanting me, never thought it would go to the point where she does not want to keep in touch.

    I wished to god I had realised what I was doing...

    Done now,...
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    I understand Talaniman, Its not that I need her...

    I understand Talaniman, Its not that I need her or another to be happy, however its natural for us all to want somebody in our lives.

    Its just in this particular instance where I have made a...
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    Some guidance needed

    Hi guys. Could do with some guidance

    In conversation with a long ago ex! Sent a friendy hi and received a reply. I apologised for the way I handled the breakup

    I have always regreted...
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    ex's don't talk

    I am curious at why some ex's don't talk.

    If the relationship was a one night stand or a brief fling then those ex's always talk. But if the relationship lasted years and had genuine love in...
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    More on breaking up than divorce

    I, like most people have struggled to make sense of breakups.

    It seems strange that someone can go from being so loving, caring and supportive to someone then be so cold and uninterested!

    I...
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    There is resentment there, because I asked her...

    There is resentment there, because I asked her back when she was single and she turned me donw for a guy she was not even dating ! This from the girl who wanted marriage... That hurts so much... ...
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    I just dread seeing her again. It means nothing...

    I just dread seeing her again. It means nothing to her seeing me but an inconvenience ! But for me it a wrong choice I should have walked.. She pushed for marriage as well...

    God this...
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    Support needed

    Split with ex many years ago. Never stopped regreting the choice I made.

    That is now gone, she has family.

    On network sites she knows the same people I do, messages are left where we see...
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    Bumped into ex

    Bumped into ex when you parted years ago on very bad terms and the relationship meant nothing to her.

    How do you handle that ?
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    Strugling with an emotional situation.

    Hi Guys. (long post, sorry)

    As you know I have posted on here previously, And this site has been of great help.

    I however have re read all my previous posts and the answers given, because I...
  45. Question: Single 10 years

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    Single 10 years

    Hi guys, I have been single for about 10 years. I can't figure out why.

    Oh a couple of girls, lasting a few months but that's all.


    I go for very attractive girls, who get loads of attention...
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    [QUOTE=MiSSsy111222;1591146][B](My dilema is...

    [QUOTE=MiSSsy111222;1591146][B](My dilema is this. If I could turn back time I would marry her and have a familly. but I can't and she is married)
    This is a dilema because we cannot turn back time,...
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    Message ex

    Hi guys. I need some advise if possible.

    I was with a partner, scared to take the next step. Ended things, tried the friends, which we did. She met another and I realised the mistake I had...
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    I straight away see to sides to this ! Firstly...

    I straight away see to sides to this !

    Firstly a question for you, do you have family members and friends that you have been on holiday with and have fond memories of ? Do you have pets that you...
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    Talk to Ex's

    Talk to Ex's

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    Of the loving relationships I have had that have not worked out, I have a desire / need for an...
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    Firstly I would say that all the answers you have...

    Firstly I would say that all the answers you have received are spot on. You should listen to them, but you won't, you will continue on driving yourself insane, acting on the overwhelming emotions...
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