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Well I ended it over the phone and it was tough because she was giving me no choice. I left Sunday and no call until Wednesday and then no message I called later Wed and a text and no answer. When we...

Well we are long distance and she is flying out to see me Tuesday and staying until that Sunday. I can handle seeing her.. but not sure if she deserves it or I should be a man and not let her control...

All right I usually coming on here defending all the actions and what not but for some reason I have come to a point where the aggravation outweighs the benefits of this relationship and it just has...

Men can have friends with benefits because sex to them isn't always emotional, it is just a release. A sad fact but reality. Very rarely can a woman keep emotion out of it and it is just built in. He...

I feel like when I give advice on this site I am able to understand others problems and decipher the best way to respond to it. With my life every woman seemed to come and go and I never put in any...

The funny thing is he is calling you out about sitting in front of a computer screen all day yet responding to all of your messages, ironic huh

This situation is messed up... you may have only 6 months but why force something to have a baby.

#1 you need to break up with the man you are seeing now and become single
#2 You need to talk to...

I had the same situation happen to me almost a year ago and it worked out for me but your only chance is to be a man and cut ties for now. Tell her she wants a break and her calling you all the time...

Why come on here if you are not going to listen to a word anyone says? Despite people's attempts to voice their opinions you have not done anything to show you are listening. You just want us to tell...

Definitely do it face to face. The key is you can't lie here because ultimately she will find out. She has trust issues and so does my girl and last thing you want is to keep this from her. Be like I...

You guys seem too young to handle anything serious. And her being asked out by the new guy may not be seen as serious to her like she knows you are. So it can be casual and have fun. Maybe letting...

Aight so I just talked to my girlfriend today and there really isn't any issues I just feel like lately there was some lack of communication. Maybe not lack of communication maybe just she thought he...

Letter from ex and I know she doesn't respond to them but the problem is she has mutual friends and the ex I guess was at the party and the only reason I know is I saw the picture. Nothing crazy but...

Need much foreplay and maybe he needs to be more gentle. Also maybe try astroglide suppose to be better than KY

Her ex won't leave her alone and it is killing me and I am not sure if she is stringing along or not. I am dying just don't know. We are long distance she doesn't cheat you just never know. I bolded...

Here is what you need to realize man... almost every girl you will like will most likely have some other man in their life when you like them or at least the majority. If she is a catch like you say...

Thanks Tal, very well put. Why do we so often let other people's opinions control how we think or act?

My life is so good, work, getting in shape, traveling around from state to state. Everything...

Tal, from my words I could see where those conclusions would be drawn or at least those questions. She was actually the one who initiated all this. She called me crying one night saying how stupid...

Aight I try not to come on too much because all I do is overanalyze things way too much. I feel lost to a certain degree and not sure where to turn. My life was doing great and my ex came back in my...

Aight so my ex has tried to come back in my life and basically say she wished we never broke up and wants to make me happy and try again. I on the hand love her and care about her but I am just there...

And she just called me and told me she wished we never broke up... too many games and I don't play games she is the one doing the calling. Just tough cause I still do love her but in no way do I want...

If you don't know my situation it can be summarized as me and my ex broke up back in October and she jumped back into a relationship a month and a half after. I moved on and got back into shape,...

Well if you don't know my situation.. it is basically like every other post on here in terms of a breakup. Back in late October my ex girlfriend asked for a break and I followed a few days later with...

What is best for your childrent? Isn't it self evident. I understand the concern of being alone but being alone is far better than ending up hurt. Your kids don't need to be around this and you will...

Women and men in my opinion sometimes use it different... a hookup for a man might usually mean more than kissing and for others it may only be kissing

If I say I hooked up with this girl I mean...

What made you realize what you want? Because she decided to use you when she good well pleases and she knows you will always be there and that isn't fun. She knows that all she has to do is say let's...

Please re-read everything you just wrote.. then read it again

And then I want you to think if you need all this confusion and stress in your life right now.. if sex is all you want then that is...

Subconciously we try to conjure up thoughts of the past and not allow us to be the person we truly want to be. It is a harsh and cruel world out there and it isn't for the weak. Whatever she is doing...

I just got back from NY to DC yesterday and as soon as I hit my room in a complete high from such a great weekend. And here comes a call from my Ex. I mean I do want to keep open communication there...

Thanks everyone... it wasn't like I was afraid to talk to her or not

I guess it is hard because to be honest this girl is now famous and I will definitely look her up and be direct..

But I do...

Ok so the other night I met this basically unattainable girl who can probably get any man in the world. I know that is selling myself short and it won't stop me for trying, I just wonder how do you...

Both those answers aren't what you want to hear and although you will keep saying and telling yourself that you loved your ex and could never feel like that again you are just lying to yourself. The...

You are right it is advancing but most likely the friendship will go away if it doesn't work out is all I am saying. It would completely contradict every sort of advice that is on this site. When you...

Here is the thing.. I think men and women can have purely platonic relationships but it is hard for men to really have them unless they are mature beyond their years. In my opinion he wanted you all...

Drinking is not an excuse and if he was so perfect you wouldn't be going out there and even putting yourself in any situation where there is the potential to be unfaithful.

He became perfect once...

I was just thinking and many of us guys as well as girls out there have this feeling that when their significant other breaks up with them that what they were told is gold.

For example, your...

Look I want to be honest with you but it doesn't seem to do anything for you. You are a beautiful girl but you are with this guy for all the wrong reasons. You will never know if there are good guys...

Many men enjoy sex in the morning more at night. I would say bring it up again to see how much it is hurting you. And then maybe back off sex for awhile and not give in for sex and tease him a little...

Games accomplish nothing... you need to move on and stay away and if he chooses to come back so be it

No reason to pretend

You broke up with him and then you toy with his emotions by being...

Very confusing not sure... but too many games you two seem to play with another

Instead of coming to us with this I think this is something you need to sit and down and talk to her about... but...

"I wil forgive her and still be her friend regardless of the pain she has caused, but this is not a healthy relationship, the trust is dead. Outside of this 1 wrongdoing, she is an amazingly...

Ok I stopped reading it because I got tired and I apologize but I see some reoccuring things. First off you are looking into way to many things and analyzing every little thing she does. Having sex...

Lots of buts haha

Well didn't see the comment before me. End it don't waste your breath or time. She will beg you back and she saw it wasn't worth it and now look where she is. No reason to stoop to her level and call...

Cut this girl off right now and let her see what a 19year old is really about. You don't need this in your life right now or ever. She is 27 but she sure as hell isn't acting like one. I would say...

Well it is tough because you are moving to her area in August. But she has been with you for four years and during that period she knows nothing else. Long distance takes a toll and rarely works out....

You definitely should not tell your ex what you are doing. She doesn't need to know every little going on in your life even if to you it is a big thing and a sign of the changes that are ocurring in...

You do make a lot of sense skell because with so many people talking on this site, you can't just pinpoint and fix someone's problems when you rarely no every detail of the relationship. All you can...

Why such the urgency for a date? She just came off a serious relationship and was rejected. She doesn't want to jump right away in a relationship. You have a few options moving forward and none of...

You need to give more information for that to move forward... but either way no contact will give you both options

The thing you need to focus on is to understand that he broke up with you and he...