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I honestly wouldn't worry about the technicalities, you have never had sex willingly. To me the idea of a virgin is just as much a mental thing. Are you apprehensive yet curious about sex? If the...

Have you thought about maybe I don't know expressing your feelings to said BF? I know that's what I would do. You have only been in one relationship, you probably want to experiment with other...

Just like everyone else said, it's probably time to hit the road. It's unfortunate for you, but sometimes you have to lock your heart away behind your mind and do what is actually smart for you...

I agree with what's said, also I'm sorry, but he is just not that into you if he is acting like that. Don't try to validate yourself to his actions of ignoring you by giving up more of your time to...

Seriously all one can do it trust, if you don't have that you might as well just give up now. You stated that you have only been going out as a couple for 3 days. I wouldn't worry, it's very healthy...

Haha it's probably not worth writing but you really should try to apply the advice you have been given here. To be honest you're only going to get the same 2-3 variations of the same answer as well...

Yea people really really underestimate the act of foreplay... :(

Nothing, you do nothing. Just stay in love and enjoy it for as long as possible! You don't need to be married to be in love. Those are all just your feelings, being married should not change them...

Anyone have a clue?.

I think you missed his point, I was assuming he was using it as an expression. From what I've read any ways is that we use almost most of our brain, somewhere around 95%+ of our brains. I on the...

I am doing quite well, got a meeting with my Air Force recruiter at 7:00 tonight and I get to buy my motorcycle this month! I don't even have time to worry about bad dreams and the other things I was...

I think were getting side tracked on the original point of the topic, it's not a pi$$ing contest about who knows more word for word of the good book.

Hmm what you should do depends on what you want from your relationship, do you want/see yourself getting back together? If you do then give her what she asked for, space and time to get her head...

I didn't bother to read the rest of the answers so it may and probably already has been said but it sounds like you two are on two totally different pages in life.

He doesn't seem to be as...

Well you have a fork in your road, go for it and possibly lose a awesome friend or ignore it and not strain your friendship. Most relationships go awry at one point or another. Do you really want to...

I wanted to rep you again Devorameira but couldn't ;( but maybe just break up with him, reality checks are good for people from time to time, but it very well could be entirely over if you break it...

Usually things are much harder on the person that was broke up with and somehow or another the person that ended it comes out unmarred and ready for a rebound.

You really don't have to be so...

Sounds like a burning ship, I wouldn't bother to be honest. But you cheated on him multiple times, kudos to the guy for being a good guy and taking you back when you probably didn't deserve it.

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I'm really tired so I won't rewrite my experience. I do however think I have a post somewhere on this board telling about half of my story in a nutshell.

I think jesushelper pretty much said it as clearly as possible, the mind creates and forms the world around you. Everyone's reality is different because the way they were brought up and there own...

Very rarely do I ever have a hard time sleeping now, I almost NEVER have bad dreams now. Less than before all this began. We will see what happens in the weeks upcoming.

Well maybe 10-20, 30 sounds a little exaggerated now that I think about it lol. Sorry.

If I was lucky and I was once every few weeks I got a very light six hour sleep where I would wake up at least 4-5 times, the weird thing is, your brain needs at least a few hours to go into its...

Nice to see that this thread is still going, I do and probably always will pray daily if not multiple times and I'm kind of getting into it, just not really ready to make huge changes yet. It really...

Okay this may sound weird but has anyone tried this or something similar? First off my situation, I have had sprint service for about 6-8 months and have been using the Palm Pre the whole time. But...

Nothing per say, I was thinking about taking a loan out for a Ninja 500r (motorcycle). But I would like to just keep it healthy for the sake of being responsible.

But back to my original...

Well the basics are pretty simple, I'm 21 with a good credit history (bills always on time, no collections, etc, ect). I have an averaged credit rating of about 720, my student CC is paid off but it...

Sorry about my late response, I work a lot so it's hard to get here every day with all that I have to do. This is all pretty new to me but I think this is some pretty positive input. Enough to at...

Yea man cut your losses, from what you told us she seems to be completely using you while purposely putting you on a short chain so you are nice and don't piss her off.

Imo it's only a matter of...

Maybe you should back off the physical portion of your relationship and start doing normal couple things with this guy. See how he works as a mental fit. Spend more time talking and getting to know...

I usually wouldn't use relationship and Vegas in the same sentence but just because it took place in sin city doesn't mean it can't be real.

Maybe ask to meet again for another weekend?

The basics have already been said, you just need to work up the courage to actually ask your guy what his problem is. Could it possibly be that he is unsure of his "skills" in bed? You won't really...

Look at the time stamps before you make a post, this thing is ancient...

Everyone's had solid advice, my only concern is that 8 years is a long time. In 8 years you can really learn about and see what a person is really like in most scenarios. You may have loved him out...

Thanks for the answers so far, I guess things will come as they should but also no point to ignore what's happened and will happen. Food for thought I suppose :/

Well I suppose I will keep it short and sweet and to the point. Scroll down to the ================= separator if you don't care to read the story and you will still get the idea of the question I'm...

Synnen and others have pretty much already nailed it. His lifestyle choices are obviously affecting his libido and possibly performance?

Sex is a great stress release but we wouldn't be posting...

It almost sounds like he is trying to guilt or play you into it, he says he thinks that you two are close, he thinks of you as a sister. Obviously that's not the case in my opinion, it's just an in...

There is some really great advice in this thread, try to really take it to heart if you want to make an improvement in your life.

Wow I think the question is WHAT ARE YOU DOING? From what I got in this post it sounds like you guys are just incompatible... If you have no trust you don't have a relationship, just someone who you...

Lots of great points!

This is your girlfriend NOT your wife... She should not have this much control over what you do in your life, even in a serious setting of 1-2 years of dating. This looks like it could be the tip of...

I did not read all the responses so I am guessing that what I'm going to say has been said several times arlready, but if it helps reinforce the idea then more power to me I guess!

First off a...

Sounds like you guys had a great honeymoon phase then once things got real you just did not click. He seems a tad to immature to have a real relationship right now. Being jealous gets you nowhere and...

Well here is something for you. If you want something to happen with this you have to be a little aggressive. It's you or the Ex. Once your truly in the "just friends" position your in it for a long...

Umm easy answer GET OUT AS FAST AS YOUR FEET CAN CARRY YOU.

Hard Answer: Do you care for this girl enough to help her through this? She has been obviously jaded from the get go so it's not really...

If you care about her enough to give her a chance then throw in a game of your own. Tell her to pick you or her P.T. a good ole ultimatum with no BS. If she says you and keeps going to see this guy...

Well it seems like he has reached in his mind the point of where things either get very serious or he gets out. Looks like he took the latter. If you want to keep things moving maybe you need to talk...

Lol Talaniman one date, but to answer the question I thought It lasted about- 3-5 months depending on how stable the relationship really is.
2)about 3 months as well
3)maybe 2 days.

That's the only thing you can do, as the others said just talk about it and evaluate the answer you get and go from there. Ignoring the problem is not going to fix it. Because sometimes your getting...