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I second Talinam, by the way long time no see! I haven't been on for a while.

For the OP, I think you need to be single and find out what YOU want in a significant other, and if that person can't...

Hi there,

You've basically answered your own question by saying "she is smart-mouthed, mean, discerning and despising towards me."

To give you a piece of golden advice, if she isn't going to...

Just to add to my previous post, you have basically started a routine by texting him every single morning. He's grown accustomed to it, and if you want to see how he actually feels. Don't text him...

I concur with Wondergirl. From a male's perspective, if he was in to you, t would have been made clear by now.

How old are you and how old is this guy? How does your brother feel about all of...

Hey Jimmy, this thread is quite old haha. We ended up splitting for good shortly after this post was created. After a while we became cool with one another and there were no hard feelings....

Muse = Friggin' Amazing (especially live!)

There's a song that's sort of angry, by Hollywood Undead, it's called Black Dhalia.

If you don't mind the yelling aspect, you may at least like the...

Hey guys,

I recently found an artist named "Murs", after listening to some of his music it has really made me feel better in many aspects of my life, including my disaster of a break up (haha)
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I'm a 20 year old male, and I too am not a big fan on body hair. I don't SHAVE my armpits, but I do trim it to keep it from having hair stick out the crease when your arms are down. As for the...

Have you heard of these "electric cigarettes"? They are a big hit in the UK. I read up on it for my mom (I'll admit... I have one every now and then, but I'm really not all that dependent on them.)...

I demand to drink some beer with the almighty Talaniman!

Heineken's on me!

I think you're missing the point of this thread. He's not taking dancers (I don't really like to call them strippers... demeaning in my opinion, even if they are technically "stripping") home, he's...

At the time this was posted, it's only been THREE days. Stop panicking, chill out.

You can't expect her to miss you after 3 days (honestly).

I would say make your short term NC goal 2 weeks,...

Let me put a male perspective into this.

Since it seems that suddenly the guys are complete idiots by the rest of these answers or opinions, which is NOT true.

First of all, why does a strip...

Let's be perfectly clear here.

NC is NOT a "tool" to be used to get somebody back. It is used as a shield to protect your pride and your dignity. You wouldn't go back and talk to someone who...

Very true, you always have great advice Chuff.

She can keep the jewlery, the promise ring (even though it wasn't cheap.. ) and all the clothes she stole from me during the relationship. The item...

Yeah, I told the sister that it would be best for us not to talk for a while because tension is high and it's just making things harder for me.

She understood and said okay.

She can think what she wants. Her sister is 16 (I'm 20) and I only see her as my "little sister".

I would never do something like that to my ex of 2.5 years. She's just being immature when it...

Ouch dude...

All right Let's keep it simple.

If girl "L" really likes you, give it a shot, we all have feelings for our ex's when they come back whining, don't let this mess something new and...

Hey Talaniman,

I didn't even notice you replied here. I was waiting for you! Lol.

I haven't been talking to her family at all, her sister sometimes calls me to say hi and see how things are...

That's the thing I don't get. This is the first time she said stop talking to her (which I have done so, haven't talked to her yet, don't plan on it)

I already deleted her myspace/facebook/e-mail...

How am I the @$$?

Yeah, I still need to get my stuff back from her. I'll have her sister get it for me though I think.

Her whole family is completely cool with me, and think that my ex made a...

All right,

I'm bringing this back from the dead.

It's been about 3 months since the breakup, tensions have been high between her and I somewhat.

We had an on/off conversation thing going. ...

Look,

You're running this guy around, saying you love him, but to be perfectly honest, you wouldn't have cheated AGAIN.

Come clean with him, don't ask for his forgiveness or to take you back,...

I used to go to stripclubs with my ex girlfriend haha. To us it's just entertainment, having a good time. We didn't choose the raunchy, filthy strip clubs, but rather gentlemans clubs that were...

I have to agree with Romefalls19's disagreement to Moose. Just because a guy may not like a strip club (maybe they have more RESPECT for women, and don't think of them as simply sex objects......

I would honestly do the same thing you are doing, but if the relationship is that important to you, you don't want it to seem like you're just bouncing you know? She may just leave too.

Just be...

Yeah, I'm in the same boat too lol.

2.5 year anniversary, then the next week (exactly 1 week after) she dumps me after saying that very same day how much she loves me and is happy I am in her...

Actually, you knowing that she's dating around already is pissing you off and is making you want to talk to her to do a number of things.

1.) Try to win her back.
2.) Get angry and tell her how...

Do it!

Instead of going and getting your stuff, why not take the opportunity to make ammends? Have you cooled off enough to be able to talk to her?

Clearly if she's saying she misses you, hates you,...

EPIC advice.

I would never expect Talaniman to say something like what you have in your quote bro! HAHAHAH

Here you go Jay_Bird.

Just in case, here is an old thread that I started a little bit ago. Let's get it stickied!
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I was driving home from work. I'm 20. How you holding up?

Aside from the fact almost all the waters in the bay area are disgusting and polluted LOL

I'm from California, born and raised!

California sunshine FTW!

Awesome. My best friends is near my age! Hahaha

Like I said, you don't have to hate him. Admire him for who he is as a person, not as your boyfriend.

I'll be your best friend okay? Heck, I'll be everyone's best friend!

Hooray!

Key word is "NOT RIGHT NOW".

I like to think that people can change, that souls can reconnect at the appropriate times and that sometimes you may find the right person for you, but at the wrong...

All of the little issues can be handled in a timely manner. I have a really good idea for you to deal with your hurt (I've been doing this myself)

Get your calendar you can write on. You're goal...

If it makes you feel any better, my girlfriend dumped me exactly 1 week after our 2.5 year anniversary. She won't talk to me, and she just acts like we never existed. Twisted huh?

You may...

Well this only happened almost 3 weeks ago that she dumped me. Our 2.5 year anniversary was August 16th. August 23rd she dumps me.

I still haven't really moved on. I miss her terribly, but most...

To be perfectly honest, you can't really assume that what the friend said is what you make of it. It could always mean something completely different. I would suggest that you don't delete the girl...

Here is a cool little trick I learned from a previous ex that kept playing mind games VERY similar to yours.

You don't have to delete her from your cell phone (since NOBODY really uses a home line...

Testing people is not the way to do things. Why would he be using you?

I have a few questions about your relationship with your actual boyfriend.

1.) Is the sex department the only thing that is lacking? What about it is making you "not sexually attracted to him...

I don't know how much time you have to dedicate to some exercise, or how much money you would like to invest but there are some key things I would HIGHLY SUGGEST.

1.) Cut soda, juices (except...

You may think that there is no one more attractive than this women... but have you gone outside recently? Even when I was WITH my ex girlfriend, she and I would check out some FINNNEEEEEE girls....

Honestly, one word describes what you have...

LUST.

You're whole relationship is based off physical attractions, sex, and that's it. What you guys are doing now is friends with benefits, and...

So, let me get this straight.

You posted about this crazy idea, (asking for our opinions and advice). Had multiple pages of people (including myself) saying that it won't work, just cool off,...