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  1. Comment on Fr_Chuck's post

    Another significant difference: The removal of Maccabees 2 (amongst others) was done by Luther because it contradicted his personal beliefs. He disagreed with the concept of praying for the dead,...
  2. Comment on Fr_Chuck's post

    A significant point of clarification: They were not "Addition" books. They were originals, accepted for 1500 years. All protestant bibles are abridged, and edited versions of the "original." But...
  3. It has been suggested to me to read "Where We Got...

    It has been suggested to me to read "Where We Got the Bible... Our Debt to the Catholic Church" which I hope to buy and begin reading this Memorial Day weekend. My understanding is that the Catholic...
  4. Comment on RustyFairmount's post

    Good point on the phase.
  5. The math works, but my concern would be the gauge...

    The math works, but my concern would be the gauge of wire you use. Consider that 240v is just two phases of 120v in a single package. Right? If you bond all lamps to the same neutral wire, will...
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    Assuming the circuit panel is perfect. Do you...

    Assuming the circuit panel is perfect. Do you have a GFCI upstream on the circuit that may have been tripped, perhaps by little curious hands? Those are the outlets with the tiny buttons on them. ...
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    Marriage is until death, in sickness or in...

    Marriage is until death, in sickness or in health. At least that's what people pledge when they say their vows, according to every wedding I've ever attended or saw on TV. But consider that...
  8. Question: Gay

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    A totally naïve and slightly rhetorical question:...

    A totally naïve and slightly rhetorical question: Why do you feel the need to tell your parents that you're gay? I'm hetero. As a young man growing up, I never felt the need to tell my parents that...
  9. Let's ask that question: In what legal...

    Let's ask that question: In what legal jurisdiction do you live? Country, state, province, etc?
  10. Comment on smoothy's post

    Good point. My answer was in context of US law. I don't know the laws of other countries. In the USA, woman may refuse sex at any time for any reason.
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    KmmCA, I recognize your concerns. They appear...

    KmmCA, I recognize your concerns. They appear to be based on trust, not sex. Is that true? It seems that sex itself is not the issue... You like it and are a very sexual woman. What's bothering...
  12. Comment on RustyFairmount's post

    I should add that I know this because I served as the foreman on a jury that heard such a case.
  13. Yes. The woman can refuse any time or every...

    Yes. The woman can refuse any time or every time. She has free will. When a husband forces his wife to have sex against her will it's called rape. Criminal Sexual Conduct, 2nd degree. 1st degree...
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    KmmCA: This is precisely how porn affects...

    KmmCA: This is precisely how porn affects relationships. Contrary to what the others have posted, porn is not akin to romantic comedies or soap operas. Porn is a graphic depiction of people who...
  15. Comment on Enigma1999's post

    No need to read the whole thread. I was responding to the OP's question, not the 4 pages of other people's comments.
  16. Apologies if this has already been posted. It's...

    Apologies if this has already been posted. It's a long thread and I came in late. The notable line for me in your post is that you have sex, but he masturbates later. Clearly, his appetite hasn't...
  17. I cannot comprehend any "Christian" that would...

    I cannot comprehend any "Christian" that would not celebrate Christmas. The redeeming value of Christ's death was only possible because of His birth! He needed to be the son of man for His...
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    Visit www.aa.org or www.al-anon.alateen.org. Ask...

    Visit www.aa.org or www.al-anon.alateen.org. Ask your doctor about his behavior. Never forget that alcoholism is a disease. It is treatable, but never curable. Alcoholics need support to fight...
  19. A question: Were you married in the Catholic...

    A question: Were you married in the Catholic Church? If so, you and your wife are required to raise your children in the Catholic faith based on the vows you took. In the Catholic wedding...
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    Comment on Altenweg's post

    There was supposed to be a [wink] in the previous post that didn't show up. No ill-will was intended with that post. Just the obvious rhetorical question.
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    Comment on Altenweg's post

    Giving you flack because you asked for it <wink>: God knows the baptism was done. So if you do it a second time but don't tell the second church, isn't that a LIE?? There's probably a rule against...
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    Comment on Synnen's post

    Agree with the mental. Oh, how I agree. But... don't write men off as the culprits. We're not automatic. Pumping in and out doesn't keep it inflated. We need mental stimulation, too. Blaming...
  23. Thank you for your post. I will try to go to a...

    Thank you for your post. I will try to go to a meeting on Monday. I am my Mom's 40 year old alcoholic son. Good luck with yours.
  24. I sincerely admire your respect for your Catholic...

    I sincerely admire your respect for your Catholic boyfriend's faith. The fact that you even asked this question shows you care deeply for him. That's all I have to say. I feel happy after having...
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    No. There is but ONE baptism into Christ for the...

    No. There is but ONE baptism into Christ for the forgiveness of sins. I believe Paul writes about it in Ephesians. If it's done a second time, it's just a person getting dunked or drenched in...
  26. Sorry. Wasn't trying to come across harshly. ...

    Sorry. Wasn't trying to come across harshly. Totally agree with all you've typed above. The line in the Nicene Creed that you quoted is one of my favorites. That's why I tried to be careful to...
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    Two things... maybe three. Let's see how this...

    Two things... maybe three. Let's see how this goes.

    1. Listen to Fr. Chuck. I've read his posts and can say the guy is right on most of the time.

    2. Your guy is an alcoholic. Trust me, I...
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    Read Dr. Emmerson Eggrigcs, Love and Respect. ...

    Read Dr. Emmerson Eggrigcs, Love and Respect. Great book that helped my marriage.
  29. No. Absolutely not. Those who sin must ask...

    No. Absolutely not. Those who sin must ask forgiveness or burn. Christ dies for our sins, which is like opening a door to heaven. But only through our humility before the Lord, asking His...
  30. My understanding... is that the Roman Catholic...

    My understanding... is that the Roman Catholic Church is the "original" church. Kind of like the National league is the "original" baseball league. That doesn't mean to imply that the American...
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    Same answer as on the breast thread: If you have...

    Same answer as on the breast thread: If you have to ask why a person's "stuff" is attractive, then you're not mature enough for the answer. Nobody on Earth can explain to YOU why YOU find something...
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    What makes breasts attractive?? Seriously? If...

    What makes breasts attractive?? Seriously? If you have to ask, you're not mature enough to understand the answer... regardless of the answer.
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    Do dogs have souls? I'll answer with a...

    Do dogs have souls? I'll answer with a question:

    Were dogs created in the image and likeness of God?

    If not, then NO, they don't have souls.
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    Just quit. Marijuana isn't chemically...

    Just quit.

    Marijuana isn't chemically addictive like booze, heroin, or nicotine. It is perhaps the easiest drug to quit. If you're having problems... it's all in your head.

    I suggest seeking...
  35. Does recycling empty beer cans count as a hobby?...

    Does recycling empty beer cans count as a hobby?

    OK. Bad humor, I know.

    From personal experience, I suggest an evening "big book" or "12 and 12" program. After each meeting, there is an...
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    I'm not old, but I am an alcoholic. My answer is...

    I'm not old, but I am an alcoholic. My answer is based on my personal experience.

    Have you ever heard of the term "whiskey ?" It's for real. Your man could be pounding the vodka and appear to...
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    First, I can't imagine a scenario where that...

    First, I can't imagine a scenario where that could possibly happen. Second, people voted for an ineligible candidate. I'd argue that the election goes to the next highest vote-getter who was...
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    No, it's certainly NOT un-biblical. It's just...

    No, it's certainly NOT un-biblical. It's just irrelevant.

    Jesus routinely offered proof of God's love, and His divinity. He performed miracles. He touched hearts. He was crucified,...
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    Open space or not, minors asking adult strangers...

    Open space or not, minors asking adult strangers for sexual advice is reckless. Adults giving sexual advice to minors may also be illegal (depending on the nature of the response). Children are...
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    The discussion of whether it is near is...

    The discussion of whether it is near is irrelevant. "Near" in the eyes of God could be 200+ years, tomorrow, or in 5 minutes. It's a topic that we aren't even qualified to discuss.

    The only...
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    Choux is right on. Talking heterosexually: Porn...

    Choux is right on. Talking heterosexually: Porn allows a guy to indulge in carnal fantasies without the need for human interaction. Basically: Men can have sex with virtual women without all the...
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    There's a fine line between heavy drinking and...

    There's a fine line between heavy drinking and alcoholism. Unfortunately, most people who aren't alcoholics really aren't qualified to know the difference.

    Have you gone to an Alinon meeting, or...
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    First - Congratulations on 8 days. You rock! ...

    First - Congratulations on 8 days. You rock!

    Second - Trust your AA group. Choose a sponsor. Work the steps.

    Third - Remember: One day at a time.

    Believe me, it gets easier. You will...
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    You're 14 years old! Do you really think you...

    You're 14 years old! Do you really think you should be taking advice from a bunch of strangers on the Internet?

    I might say porn is good; I could be wrong. I might say porn is bad; I could be...
  45. Congratulations on being sober. I am genuinely...

    Congratulations on being sober. I am genuinely happy for you. I have every faith and confidence in you to resolve your (new) relationship issues.

    How to spice it up? No clue from me. Let's...
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    What difference does it make if you know the...

    What difference does it make if you know the exact date that the rapture will happen? Are you going to sin and ask for forgiveness moments before the rapture? If so, you're a sorry excuse for a...
  47. OMG! You are such a prude! I envy you. I drink...

    OMG! You are such a prude! I envy you. I drink a pint of whiskey nightly. Sober by morning. Kick butt at work all day long. Repeat.

    The zero tolerance policy of your office (wrt alcohol) is...
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    Are you having sex with him? If not, then 3x is...

    Are you having sex with him? If not, then 3x is not a problem. It may just be that he has a vigorous appetite for sex. If you are having sex and he still does that, then you are not enough to...
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    He's using you. He's taking advantage of you. ...

    He's using you. He's taking advantage of you. You're young, probably cute, and are willing to give him what he wants. Think about it: Why should he care about going down on you, massaging you, or...
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    Nope. Because to feel guilty, that would mean I...

    Nope. Because to feel guilty, that would mean I regret those relationships. The worst I feel is frustration from having wasted my valuable time on some of them.
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