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  1. Question: Looking older

    by redhed35
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    You have gotten some great advice, so I'm just...

    You have gotten some great advice, so I'm just going to take a different approach.
    My intention is not to offend but practical advice.
    The ugliest guy on the planet can get any girl he wants if he...
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    Perhaps she is just being a nice person when...

    Perhaps she is just being a nice person when she's talking to you and not playing the field.

    Often when we fancy someone we look for signs they might fancy us back and end up feeling confused.
    ...
  3. Question: BPD

    by redhed35
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    If you have a diagnosis of mental Heath issues...

    If you have a diagnosis of mental Heath issues and you are attending a mental Health service, you will have received a recovery plan, if not, ask for one.

    A recovery plan will give you the tools...
  4. Question: Am I Depressed?

    by redhed35
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    Talk to your parents, a teacher or an adult who...

    Talk to your parents, a teacher or an adult who knows you and who you trust.

    At eleven they are your people, they are the ones to support and advice you, not strangers on an Internet site.

    Go...
  5. Question: What to do?

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    No reason why you can't do it all, or at least...

    No reason why you can't do it all, or at least give it all a good shot. I'm 43 and I'm 10 years into my second career. I have plans for a third to bring me into retirement and beyond.

    Sounds like...
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    The second hand smoke will effect you, but the...

    The second hand smoke will effect you, but the smoker will absorb most of the drug, it's the crashing and dying bit that will have more of an effect on you.

    Make better choices!
  7. I have been pondering your question and reading...

    I have been pondering your question and reading the responses, all excellent advice.
    For me, having once been on the receiving end of a cheater I just could not get the image out of my head, the...
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    There are some pregnancy testing products on the...

    There are some pregnancy testing products on the market that can pick up low levels of the pregancy hormone, however I would advice caution using these as you could get a false negative if the...
  9. Hi Sophie, sounds like your self esteem and...

    Hi Sophie, sounds like your self esteem and confidence are pretty low right now . Loss of employment can effect people in more ways then financially. There are a couple of things you can do on the...
  10. From your post you have done nothing wrong. The...

    From your post you have done nothing wrong. The great thing about dating is the freedom you have getting to know someone BEFORE the relationship.
    So, move on!
    If he calls, and your free and...
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    Getting checked out is no harm, every women is...

    Getting checked out is no harm, every women is different and a lot depends on your delivery, medical background etc.
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    Silver lining, I have never met a parent who has...

    Silver lining, I have never met a parent who has 'got over' the death of their child, you just learn to live with the loss, you find ways to get through the anniversary, whether that is spending the...
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    Anytime you have unprotected sex you leave...

    Anytime you have unprotected sex you leave yourself open to pregnancy, there are MILLIONS of sperm in pre ejaculate, he can shower all he wants, he can pee all he wants, it won't stop the pre...
  14. Question: Daughter

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    What has your relationship been like in the past?...

    What has your relationship been like in the past? Were you close, has there ever been an ongoing argument between you both?
  15. The cozy is some kind of different all right! ...

    The cozy is some kind of different all right!

    Tata's got lots of attention, god bless them!
  16. daughters bella, totes amazeballs = totally...

    daughters bella,

    totes amazeballs = totally amazing

    lols = laughing a lot

    it goes on and on bella, I don't understand half of what they text me, and they could only be asking what's for...
  17. Your going to have a great time, and her visits...

    Your going to have a great time, and her visits will be more the sweeter cause you have missed her, and she you.
  18. Now J, I'm going to have to give out to you! ...

    Now J, I'm going to have to give out to you!

    She's going on an adventure, life! Its so exciting for her, she is going to have so much news when she visits, your both going to talk into the early...
  19. J, never fear, they come back when their hungry...

    J, never fear, they come back when their hungry and get their groceries from your freezer! they talk the ears off you and then their gone again.

    I was surprised to learn I actually like my house...
  20. Alty Don't DO IT! Damn it women. Syn, your...

    Alty Don't DO IT!

    Damn it women.

    Syn, your son is totally gorgeous, oh to be that loved.

    Bella, at least the spots will fade, plus E ( in the words of my own daughter) is totes amazeballs!
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    You are totally raw with grief right now, your...

    You are totally raw with grief right now, your whole world as you knew it has been turned upside down.

    Its so difficult to make sense of anything right now, just facing the day and drawing breath...
  22. Sounds like she's keeping the 'shag in the bag'...

    Sounds like she's keeping the 'shag in the bag' for a Friday night, keeping you sweet, a text, a 'maybe this will lead somewhere', while keeping her options wide open for mr right not mr right now (...
  23. UK Border Agency | Children born in the United...

    UK Border Agency | Children born in the United Kingdom

    I found this which you may find helpful, at the end of the page section 3, is probably what your looking for.
  24. Dating is about getting to know someone BEFORE...

    Dating is about getting to know someone BEFORE the relationship, your guy has taken his time, he has chosen you.

    You're the girl he wants his parents to meet, you're the girl he wants to be with,...
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    The woman looks dreadfull! She would'nt bring...

    The woman looks dreadfull!

    She would'nt bring her child into the tanning booth but didn't put enough sunscreen on her so she would not burn, UV rays, same thing.

    By the by, there are new laws...
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    Continue on with your life, all it was was a...

    Continue on with your life, all it was was a movie and a cuddle, you had a good time, nothing wrong with that.

    Perhaps he thought he was going to get lucky, when he realised sex was off the table...
  27. Question: Messy Room

    by redhed35
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    Does she ever have friends over? Nothing like a...

    Does she ever have friends over? Nothing like a little peer pressure in the right direction of course.

    At 12 she is just heading into those teenage years, now is a good time to lay down the law,...
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    To make a friend you have to be a friend, have...

    To make a friend you have to be a friend, have you ever noticed how little kids go sit in the sand box and just start playing with other kids ,they get involved in the activity, they share their...
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    He might be more bothered by the lie then the...

    He might be more bothered by the lie then the kiss, your only getting to know each other and he might also have kissed someone else, for me the kiss so early on would not be a deal breaker, the lie...
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    You have already pin pointed where the problem is...

    You have already pin pointed where the problem is i.e, rarely going to social events and mainly doing lone activities, branching out a little from this to extend your social circle is key to...
  31. Hey martin, good to see you back, I'm sorry to...

    Hey martin, good to see you back, I'm sorry to hear mutley died, there's no easy route through grief I'm afraid.

    I'm glad to see you.
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    Mwah right back at you dad!

    Mwah right back at you dad!
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    Hey stringer! I'm back, good to see you.

    Hey stringer!

    I'm back, good to see you.
  34. Question: Wedding attire

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    Depends on the wedding , did the invitation say...

    Depends on the wedding , did the invitation say anything?

    You could also ask other guests what they are wearing, and also the venue would say a lot about the attire you need.
  35. For your ensemble get someone to help you...

    For your ensemble get someone to help you practice, just the two of you, three people would be better, the more you practice the better you get, practice taking deep breathes while on your own, be...
  36. There's a little 10 year old on the boards, she's...

    There's a little 10 year old on the boards, she's not being mean but handing out advice with all her years of experience! just a heads up if anyone she's her on the adult boards.. username- Balarasara
  37. Your enabling his bad behaviour, your treating...

    Your enabling his bad behaviour, your treating him like a child and he's behaving like one in return, how about he gets himself up and runs his own bath!

    If on the whole your happy and its just...
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    Contact ChildLine by phone | Talk | ChildLine...

    Contact ChildLine by phone | Talk | ChildLine

    Hi brokensmile, the link above is for childline, I know you have probably heard a lot about it, this is a site where you can look up about the...
  39. Talk to your doctor is the safest option, the...

    Talk to your doctor is the safest option, the birth control you were given may cover you straight away, birth control methods work in several ways.

    Instead of jumping to possibly the wrong...
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    There is no radical solution, you are the same as...

    There is no radical solution, you are the same as every other person with a broken heart, no more no less, there are thousands of posts here on the matter, some cope better then others, you obviously...
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    Hello sean, at 100 posts your question has been...

    Hello sean, at 100 posts your question has been addressed by many of the best people on this question and answer site ( I have read the entire thread), the answers of which you don't seem to want to...
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    If that's the case then call the police, log any...

    If that's the case then call the police, log any stalking, and if it comes to it a protection order.

    Time for you to get this guy out of your life once and for all, start no contact and stick to...
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    IF you have had unprotected sex you can become...

    IF you have had unprotected sex you can become pregnant, however, there is no way anyone on the internet can say if you are pregnant or not, your best bet is wait until you miss your next period and...
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    Is this the same guy you posted about in January,...

    Is this the same guy you posted about in January, that you had broken up with?

    If so, his actions are telling you he does not care about your feelings or making amends for cheating.

    Walk away,...
  45. Question: I must be ugly

    by redhed35
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    Have you told your husband how it makes you feel?...

    Have you told your husband how it makes you feel?

    I doubt very much that your ugly!

    Men look, they do,when your out and about take note, I bet men are checking you out too, perhaps a little...
  46. Cake is my cure all!

    Cake is my cure all!
  47. Bloody hell J, mind yourself!

    Bloody hell J, mind yourself!
  48. Hey! Been there, and it feels like crap, however,...

    Hey! Been there, and it feels like crap, however, they know your interested, if you really want it keep applying, same thing happened to me last year, I was gutted, but I worked harder, I got...
  49. You obviously behaved the same way when you first...

    You obviously behaved the same way when you first met and in the 2 years together, your engaged, so there also must be plenty that she loves about you, there is a compromise i.e you tone it down when...
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    Congratulations! There is 13 months between my...

    Congratulations!

    There is 13 months between my eldest two, and it was tough going, both in nappies, a very wobbly toddler and a new born.

    My biggest hurdle was the lack of sleep and getting out...
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