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So life hit me with yet another new breakup challenge iv'e never yet experienced...

To make a long story short, I came home from a trip to find that my girlfriend of 4 years completely moved out...

I agree, and the drinking and irresponsible decisions would definitely remain the primary concern. And of course, as far as the cheating is concerned, what is done is done, and as I have never...

Thanks Bluefoo, all those things you mentioned are great, she does them all and it's especially amazing with her. However, I still feel , as most surely do, that trust is perhaps the most important...

Thank you, Talaniman. Will do

"Her solution seems to be run to family, state you are moving."
Exactly.

I don't mind paying my share of the least for the remaining 3-4 months if it comes to it.

My girlfriend (29) and I (33) currently live together and have been in a relationship for about a year and a half. We had plans for the future and everything...

Last night I overheard a...

I did not know about this until this past April when filing my taxes. It seems to me I have been fooled by the employer into sending invoices and not thinking any more of it. Isn't this wrong on the...

So I recently got "laid off" working at a company (in California) for which I have been working full-time, for over 2 years. I have been getting paid an hourly rate, and have been filing a 1099 for...

THank you all for the words. NC it shall be.
Its just such a tough one when you learn that your ex girlfriend, starts messing around with a guy you know is a jerk, only 2 weeks after the breakup,...

Its interesting to be back on this forum once again for relationship issues in my life, lol, but at the same time it shows how great this forum has been to me , the proof being that I have chosen to...

She does have a good heart and is not dropping her friend with feelings as quick as I'd like. But it may be that she is too kind to the point where she will feel the need to satisfy him (maybe...

Hello All. I would appreciate your opinions/advice on my current relationship situation please...

So I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over 3 months now, I am 29 and she is 23. We...

I thought that it would be nice to inform everyone of what happened here:

Day 1 & Day 2 in the apartment, smelled great and 'orangy'.

Day 3, the orange smell went away and the entire apartment...

Thanks for your help! I inspected the unit yesterday and if they hadn't mentioned the pet odor issue, I would have never known honestly.

I opened the door and there was a citrus smell of...

Greetings,

I have put down a deposit (lease not yet signed, until tomorrow, hopefully) on an apartment in a large complex.

My move in day is scheduled for tomorrow. I still have not actually...

Thanks Angel for the giving me a perspective from the other side. It definitely makes sense! You, just like my Ex have every right and reason to feel betrayed and want to move on.

Believe your...

Great Info! Thanks!
I will actually be needing a photo quality reproduction of the pictures. For the blueprints, working quality is fine. Are there any particular cameras that you would recommend? ...

Thank you for your responses.
I am by no means an expert in scanning or photography, I just know basics, lol. And unfortunately , I am in somewhat of a rush and need to purchase the equipment in the...

I am in the process of digitizing files onto the computer.
Blueprints and larger files do not fit in the scanner so I would like to create a setup where I could take high quality photos of the...

Thank you, thank you all so much for the words of wisdom and advice. It really makes me feel better in these super hard times.

I know now that the right thing to do is to move on and let go of...

Thanks for the words Lola. Yes, its definitely a lot of emotional drama, it's crazy, I never knew it could be this way. But the more I think about it , I think that the entirety of the emotional...

Thank you for the wisdom ardahk... It is exactly the way you say it. The only thing is that I've recontacted her so many times already that I did make things worse already, I'm sure. I just had to...

She never called me. I was waiting and hoping that she would one day. Then she changed her # without notice. After I tried writing to her she said that she is trying to move on and If I keep...

What do you mean by "nail the point home to you hard" ? If it means that she is trying to teach me a major lesson and that she wants me to suffer for a while , I feel that it is a very possible...

I was like your boyfriend , I didn't feel the urgent need to discuss the issue, I just made sure I kept in occasional contact with her to show that I still thought and cared.

She was like you,...

Yes I thought there was something better, but found out I had it all along. It hurts like hell!! I've never experienced such a bad feeling in my life before.
Is this really a classic mistake I made?...

She is good in the sense that she was always very smart and more mature throughout the breakup process. Even now that I try to get back with her, she is the one that is advising me , telling me that...

I would officially be qualified as a dumper. I dumped someone very "good" and now I've tried to come back but she is not accepting me at this time.
For nowI am hoping that she will accept in the...

Wow, that is really hard to hear.

I think that we will both always know that our love was exceptional.

If if our paths meet in the future, say 1 or 2 years from now, and we find ourselves...

1 thing doesn't make sense: It could be that we are both having a hard day and that we are both missing each other at the same time (say in 2 years from today).

Isn't there a logic behind getting...

I will definitely be leaving her alone, if not it would be disrespect.
As hard as it is , and as much as it hurts right now, I'm going to move on. Its just crazy how I feel that on one side, she...

I am quite sure that she is scared and unwilling to show her love, she is strong.
In any case, I know that I have to give up even if anything could possibly happen again between us. I will move on,...

My girlfriend and I had been a loving couple for 5 years. We had our arguments here and there like all couples but we had a genuine love, and it was amazing! Her parents loved me and we had lots of...