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In a fairly new relationship. Not too serious yet but I do adore him!
He is always sweet to me. He is romantic and loves to just hold me and cuddle and he will just randomly give me massages. ...

I think you are doing the best thing! You have made the right decision and from the sounds of it you have a lot more than a family of two between your nan friends and the possible reconciliation...

He needs to sober up and go to AA. You should leave until he has gone to AA and shown that he can be sober for some time. Alcohol is a drug addiction too. One I have unfortunately seen far too...

Men often say stupid things without thinking. I went through the same and I know that it is very painful to think of. Even when you know you have made the right choice there is always that what if....

Awesome that you left this guy in the first place! If you can block his messages do that. A lot of cell services allow you to place restrictions. Be blunt in telling him to stop calling. You have...

jamesbond21, this is one girl. I would take some time to work on your own self-esteem and find what makes you happy. Girls love a happy fun guy with a good self worth. You will find the person...

I don't think she was trying to be conceded. I think she was in an akward situation when you said that you thought it was stupid of you to tell her you liked her. Were you trying to make her feel...

2 months and this guy is already asking for a break?? I am sure the ex will use this to her advantage and to me it sounds like he is going to get back with her. Trials come up in life but that...

I don't think us girls calling is a problem as long as it is not overdone. IE Calling excessively. I am in a new relationship and I call but not every single day (we both lead busy lives) and it is...

How long have you two been seeing each other, and about how old are you? I think a promise ring is really nice to get. I would suggest going with the I love you first and maybe talking with her...

Words of wisdom! Just the knowledge that you didn't "crumble at the sight of her" must be very liberating. :D

That is awesome! You were in total control of yourself and didn't let yourself get sucked in by the tears!
You sound like you are doing really great! I wish you the best!

I'd go with the wine, cologne (especially if you know what her wears), or the cufflinks!

By something is not right between the two of you, I just mean that she probably sees that you two are a little beyond the friendship stage in your relationship. I understand that it takes two and...

In my opinion, he is definitely using you. Go out with other people and stop seeing him. There will be someone who treats you well and you will see that he is most certainly not that someone. It...

You did not mention YOUR husband much in your post at all. Where is he in all of this? Does he know that you were seeing this man? Are you having problems in your own marriage that need to be...

From a women's point of view: too clingy, needy, and overwhelming are bad things. Being easygoing and fun to be with are a big plus!

I agree with Widcat21. Good post!

I suggest you talk to your wife about the lack of intimacy and warmth in your relationship. Should you both decide that you need to separate or divorce then you can of course go out and see whom you...

I would steer clear of this messy marriage if I were you. In my own experience I have seen that when someone just gets out of a marriage they probably are better off with time on their own so that...

My mother was the one who proposed and they are extremely happy so I think that it is okay for the woman to ask out the man! Might turn out really great

Maybe this guy really still liked you and realized he made a mistake and that is why he kept staring. If you still like him and want to then give it a chance. Him telling you he loves you is a...

It does not seem as if he is willing to make time for a relationship in his life right now. Did he ever tell you why he had to break his plans with you are did he just get mad and leave it at that? ...

Actions definitely speak louder than words. Thanks for all the input!

Yes, he stopped drinking but it has only been a month, and no he is not attending AA. And really, his behavior to me is still pretty controlling and demanding when he does talk to me. He acts very...

My advice is to let her be on top a lot because then she will be able to move in such a way that gives her the most pleasure. After a bit she may be able to teach herself and you how to give her an...

Yes, sometimes it is hard to keep things in perspective, just from day to day, but it is harder when he calls and says how different things will be etc.. Thanks for the input!

I know it may be the hardest thing for you to do but stop the affair. Stop lying to and cheating on your boyfriend. The man who is married is not good news. Even if he did leave his family for you...

I dated someone soon after they got divorced and found that he definitely needed time to readjust to life before even considering any big commitments. It is usually good to give someone a breather...

:confused: So, I posted a couple weeks ago, if that, about a relationship I was just getting out of. I was having a really hard time with deciding whether to give him another chance and decided that...

I truly feel for your situation! Mental and verbal abuse are nothing you should have to put up with. It is good that he is seeking counseling but I think you still may want to consider moving on to...

I would definitely say back off to this guy and keep your distance as much as possible. It may be true that you are attracted to him but are you attracted to him because he has been giving you...

It is not about sex when he wants it with the moving back in thing, he offered that we could sleep in separate rooms etc. He feels that us working on things not living together is going to end up...

I recently left my boyfriend of 6 years. We were engaged but things went down hill really fast recently. He started drinking again and there had been no communication between us. His drinking was...