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    Please don't fall into this web of insecure women...

    Please don't fall into this web of insecure women allowing men to treat them like dirt! I have seen it happen too many times.

    What makes you think you don't deserve better than that? He told you...
  2. I agree with the above posts. This doesn't seem...

    I agree with the above posts. This doesn't seem like a good environment for your child to be in at all, let alone yourself.
    Seek legal advice, then have a sit down, no-nonsense talk with him. Tell...
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    Comment on answerme_tender's post

    Aww that's a nice idea. Thank you! Made me think I could maybe write him a poem and frame it? I write poetry and he really likes it... Thank you!
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    What to do for his birthday?

    I was laid off my job 2 months ago, I have been desperately trying to get a new job, I am literally applying for anything and everything! But to no avail so far.
    My fiancÚ is currently supporting...
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    That's a very immature approach to sex,...

    That's a very immature approach to sex, conception and motherhood.

    Wait until your period is due, if it doesn't come, take a test.
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    Take another test just to be sure. Go to your...

    Take another test just to be sure.
    Go to your doctor whether you get a positive or negative result.
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    Sticky: Thanks. I'll have to wait until 2010 to see if I...

    Thanks.
    I'll have to wait until 2010 to see if I am lol.
    Soooo long!
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    Sticky: Ok I hope I don't sound uneducated. I am on...

    Ok I hope I don't sound uneducated.

    I am on the contraceptive pill, have been for 5 years. I'm 23 and engaged.
    When I was 18 I got pregnant while on the pill and using condoms, but had a...
  9. Question: Sudden break up

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    Its been a week and a half since we officially...

    Its been a week and a half since we officially split up.
    After it happened, we shared the longest, nicest, goodbye kiss - and went our sperate ways.
    Later that night there was a couple of texts,...
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    Isn't the love of the girl of your dreams a...

    Isn't the love of the girl of your dreams a confidence boost enough?

    If you love her like you say you do, you wouldn't need the approval of random girls that you don't know.
    You want to keep...
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    2ndtime, I am not a yes person at all, never have...

    2ndtime, I am not a yes person at all, never have been. I, myself, like a bit of a challenge, and someone who mwill challenge me. Neither of us were ever into pandering to the other - that's one...
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    Thanks you guys. I am meeting him tomorrow to...

    Thanks you guys.

    I am meeting him tomorrow to finish this for good.
    I feel like being cold with him, I think it will be easier if I'm cold with him rather than friendly and cheerful.
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    Hmm... this doesn't sound good. It sounds as...

    Hmm... this doesn't sound good.

    It sounds as though he is purposely trying to make you feel low about yourself, and men who try to rid you of yourself confidence are the ones you should stay well...
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    All you can do is communicate with him and tell...

    All you can do is communicate with him and tell him how you are feeling. Tell him that if some changes aren't made, then you are prepared to leave, and find someone who will trat you better - if...
  15. Question: Sudden break up

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    I didn't know whether to post this here or in...

    I didn't know whether to post this here or in another thread, but just so you all can keep up with my story, I decided to put it here.

    We have been back together for a few weeks now, and I'm...
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    Yea thanks. I haven't said anything bad about...

    Yea thanks.
    I haven't said anything bad about her at all, people still ask me about her but I really don't have anything bad to say about her, she just wasn't a good friend so I moved on - that's...
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    Lol well that's good then.

    Lol well that's good then.
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    I think that depends on your state of mind at the...

    I think that depends on your state of mind at the time of the gut feeling.

    One thing I always remember is - The greatest a woman has ever been given, is her intuition.
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    How can you just tell her to "let this go" ? Its...

    How can you just tell her to "let this go" ?
    Its easier said than done. 10 months may not be an awful long time, but a lot can happen in 10 months, and this is a difficult time for her, so it won't...
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    I agree, if he doesn't know that this is annoying...

    I agree, if he doesn't know that this is annoying you, he can't be expected to read your mind.
    Talk to him about how it makes you feel, take it from there.
    Good luck.
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    Thanks for the advice. I told her how I feel and...

    Thanks for the advice.
    I told her how I feel and told her I want nothing more to do with her.
    So now Im concentrating on the people who show they care about me.

    Was difficult, but I needed to do...
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    You're best just getting on with your life and...

    You're best just getting on with your life and living it the way you would had you not met him.
    If he wants you back, he knows where you are.
    Other than that, you're just holding yourself back by...
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    You deserve to know exactly where you stand with...

    You deserve to know exactly where you stand with him, and the only way to find that out, is to talk to him about it.

    Sorry to say this, but it sounds like he's keeping you a secret. If you're not...
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    He seems messed up to be perfectly honest. He...

    He seems messed up to be perfectly honest.

    He tells you one thing, waits a while, then tells you something different!

    To be honest, that's what my boyfriend did to me before we got back...
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    I have to agree, it would tear me up if my...

    I have to agree, it would tear me up if my boyfriend was on a trip with another girl.

    But you said you were going to let it go and forgive him, so you have to do that. Reminding him constantly how...
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    Can't you just ask him what he's up to? He is...

    Can't you just ask him what he's up to?
    He is your husband after all, and there seems to be absolutely NO communication here at all.
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    Stop all contact with him! He doesn't want you...

    Stop all contact with him!

    He doesn't want you as his girlfriend, but is happy to string you along with chats, which is hurting you more and confusing you more, but easing his guilt at breaking it...
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    Stop texting him, if he cares about you as much...

    Stop texting him, if he cares about you as much as he says he does, he will contact you.

    He can't just say that he loves you and not show it, it doesn't work that way, and you can't allow him to...
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    She is using you for sex and company when she's...

    She is using you for sex and company when she's lonely - why? Because you allow it!

    Stop lowering yourself for this lunatic! She's not worth it!
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    Stop doing drugs, get your act together and start...

    Stop doing drugs, get your act together and start taking care of yourself.
    Get help!
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    No 5'10 is a perfectly reasonable height for a...

    No 5'10 is a perfectly reasonable height for a guy.
    The girls who won't date you because of your height are shallow, and you're better without them.

    I once dated a guy who was smaller than me,...
  32. There's nothing you can do. He keeps telling you...

    There's nothing you can do. He keeps telling you it's not your fault, he's not taking it out on you, so just be there for him, show him that you support him and make sure he knows your sorry.

    But...
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    If you had absolutely no feelings at all...

    If you had absolutely no feelings at all whatsoever for this other guy, you wouldn't have gone to see his band knowing how your partner felt about it!

    You had such little respect for your...
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    Michelle hasn't been acknowledging you because...

    Michelle hasn't been acknowledging you because she doesn't want to!
    Staying friends was her way of easing her guilt after breaking up with you, she didn't really want to be friends, because if she...
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    You're doing the right thing. Your son is much...

    You're doing the right thing.
    Your son is much more important than your ex!
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    No don't reply to him at all! You replying only...

    No don't reply to him at all!
    You replying only assures him that you're still speaking to him, and that's only going to make him feel better, and make you feel worse.
    Don't text him!
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    No don't text him at all. Just leave it.

    No don't text him at all. Just leave it.
  38. Yes you need to seek professional help for this....

    Yes you need to seek professional help for this. It's a real problem.

    Either that, or this girl really isn't "the one" because if she were, she would be enough to satisfy you in all ways.
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    I agree, you can't sit and analyse everything....

    I agree, you can't sit and analyse everything. You just have to move on with your own life, otherwise, you will go insane.
    Like you say, you don't see where it went wrong between the two of you, so...
  40. Question: Sudden break up

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    We are taking it slow, we aren't living together,...

    We are taking it slow, we aren't living together, we aren't engaged, we have gone right back to the start, clean slate.

    Of course I am a bit skeptical, because I put all of my trust in him and he...
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    That was part of the reason for our break up - he...

    That was part of the reason for our break up - he was down about his job and some home problems, and instead of opening up to me about it, he pushed me away.

    I didn't reply to him at all until he...
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    I kept No contact for a week, although during...

    I kept No contact for a week, although during this time, he was texting me - I didn't reply.

    The only time I replied was when he asked me back. I replied "did you just ask me out?" and he called...
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    No I'm afraid I would not be happy with this at...

    No I'm afraid I would not be happy with this at all.
    If he loves you and really cares about your feelings, he wouldn't have even considered going away with some girl.

    I really don't think that...
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    Keep up the no contact, it does get easier.

    Keep up the no contact, it does get easier.
  45. Stop all contact. She's being unfair asking for a...

    Stop all contact. She's being unfair asking for a break then asking you to help her study. She wants to have her cake and eat it too.

    As difficult as it will be, don't reply to her texts, ignore...
  46. Well you certainly seem confident enough. And...

    Well you certainly seem confident enough. And that's a good thing, she hasn't knocked that so that's good.

    Just give her space, she may see that she doesn't want to be without you and ask you...
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    Talaniman, I wanted to give u some rep, but...

    Talaniman, I wanted to give u some rep, but wasn't able to. Apparently I give you rep too often lol.

    But I basically agree with everything you said here.

    Take some friends with you, this girl...
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    You should stop contacting him. He knows how you...

    You should stop contacting him. He knows how you feel now, you have made your feelings clear, now you need to take a step back and let him come to his own decision.

    When you go out, leave your...
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    Wow this is a tough one. You couldn't be more...

    Wow this is a tough one.

    You couldn't be more clear to him about how you have been feeling, and what you want. He is playing a horrible game with you by arranging to meet, then not showing up. I...
  50. Go out! Go out with your friends, or anyone, and...

    Go out!
    Go out with your friends, or anyone, and leave your phone at home. You'll be surprised at how invigorating it is to not be checking your phone every 2 minutes.
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