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    Definitely keep alcohol out of your life. I...

    Definitely keep alcohol out of your life.

    I would suggest doing some volunteering and giving back to the community, as well as build a new network of people around yourself instead.

    Sometimes...
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    I know it is easier said than done, but for both...

    I know it is easier said than done, but for both your sake, I would keep the communication with him to a minimum.

    It would take a lot of time and energy to clear the air between the two of you.
    ...
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    It is something that they need to work out...

    It is something that they need to work out between the two of them. The most you can do is encourage them to speak to each other in a positive way. Not in a nagging way (not that you are doing it,...
  4. Question: Does she like me?

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    Just keep talking to her to get to know her...

    Just keep talking to her to get to know her better. As you get to know each other better, you'll have a better idea how you really feel about each other.

    Because right now you only know each other...
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    If you're interested, talk to her and get to know...

    If you're interested, talk to her and get to know her!
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    Just like the others said. Takes practice. Have...

    Just like the others said. Takes practice. Have you tried toastmasters? Or other public speaking type of courses that you can take on the side?
  7. No need to overreact. Just be cool about it. Her...

    No need to overreact. Just be cool about it. Her non-response is a signal that she's not interested. But it doesn't mean that you have to ignore each other.

    If you see her at work, just keep...
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    The other two posters already covered all the...

    The other two posters already covered all the bases. So I am just writing to confirm what has been said.

    What is it exactly that bothers you about her hugging?
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    How did he respond when you asked him about why...

    How did he respond when you asked him about why he doesn't buy you anything? What kind of explanation has he given you? Does he pay on dates?
  10. It depends on how well you know each other. Go...

    It depends on how well you know each other. Go back to basics. The better you know her, the more you can figure out what will make her happy.

    I would not try to live in the past. What made her...
  11. I would not generalize everyone. It will still be...

    I would not generalize everyone. It will still be a case to case depending on the two people involved. Of course it is possible if the two people involved are on the same page.
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    I think that you two need to sit down and work...

    I think that you two need to sit down and work out a game medium term game plan that you can both agree with. Once you have a plan laid out and you both follow it, then you know that you are...
  13. I think that you need to put yourself in the...

    I think that you need to put yourself in the position to meet more people to expand your network to see that there are so many more amazing guys out there that you haven't met yet.

    The best way...
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    A lot can happen in a year. Why not use this time...

    A lot can happen in a year. Why not use this time apart to clear your minds and then worry about another chance at a relationship when both your minds are clearer.

    Seems pretty clear that both of...
  15. 7 months is not a long time and you're both still...

    7 months is not a long time and you're both still teenagers. It's going to take a long time for his parents to warm up to you. For now, just focus on the relationship to make sure that you are...
  16. Instead of guessing all the 100 different...

    Instead of guessing all the 100 different possibilities, you can always just ask him why he's using your name so often. See how he answers that. His answer will probably be a better indication of...
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    Love can also be relative. You have been together...

    Love can also be relative. You have been together for so long that you barely have anything else to compare with.

    The thing that I see is that he's not able to provide you with the love that you...
  18. I am going to reverse the perspective. I keep...

    I am going to reverse the perspective. I keep reading about how you want to interpret what's going on in her mind that I am unclear what is actually going on in your mind.

    First of all, straight...
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    I'm sure many others have cartoon character...

    I'm sure many others have cartoon character crushes as well. I like Hawkgirl. But I think what it comes down to is that you might have a good idea on what you want in a partner, but you're not able...
  20. I strongly suggest you meet new people. You`re...

    I strongly suggest you meet new people. You`re holding on to the past and you are not able to move forward with your life. Give yourself a chance to meet new people to be happy with. And give that...
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    You have to remember, you were quite persistent...

    You have to remember, you were quite persistent since the beginning. You confessed your feelings three times and she rejected you twice. Had you not been so persistent, she would have moved on with...
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    I finally got caught up with your story. It took...

    I finally got caught up with your story. It took me some time to read through it all. Here are some thoughts for you. Some harshness warning for you here.

    You started posting from May 2013 and it...
  23. Question: So mad at myself.

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    Clearly talking to each other constantly is...

    Clearly talking to each other constantly is making things worse. And clearly no contact is not working either.

    Tell you what. Why don't you come up with a compromise.

    Why don't you two stop...
  24. Question: Love sick

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    First of all, kudos to you for leaving your past...

    First of all, kudos to you for leaving your past relationship. It does take a lot of strength to move past it. But you've already taken many steps forward, but there are still more to come.

    Be...
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    You can also keep this very simple. She's your...

    You can also keep this very simple. She's your boss, so treat her like one. It doesn't matter how she treats you, as long as you keep things professional on your part.

    If you have feelings for her...
  26. Question: Confused?

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    I finally caught up to the entire story. It's too...

    I finally caught up to the entire story. It's too bad that you seem to be stuck in a never ending cycle. I know that no contact has been highly recommended, but I wouldn't use no contact as a way of...
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    Yes, if you can't trust him anymore, so then...

    Yes, if you can't trust him anymore, so then relationship is over whether you want to keep it going or not. If he lied about his past, imagine what else he can lie about?

    I'm sure you will find...
  28. Evicting him can get messy and I'm worry for you....

    Evicting him can get messy and I'm worry for you. I suggest you call your landlord for sure and see what type of arrangement you can work out. Know your options first before making a decision. Either...
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    Why don't you send her a message to see if she...

    Why don't you send her a message to see if she even responds to that first before worrying about asking her out.

    Start with, "Hey, it's been a while, how have you been?"

    Let's see if she's...
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    A simple way to tell her is the tell her the...

    A simple way to tell her is the tell her the truth. What you told us sounds great. Tell her that you really care about her and you do think about being a couple, but you are also scared that it could...
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    Sounds like he's taking you for granted and no...

    Sounds like he's taking you for granted and no longer taking you seriously. If he's not willing to work on the relationship then why stay in it?

    When you say you still love him, what do you love...
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    Time will tell if this is going to work out. If...

    Time will tell if this is going to work out. If you both feel it's worth it to wait for each other to sort things out, then wait it out. If even of you starts giving up, this relationship will...
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    If she's lying again, why are you forgiving her...

    If she's lying again, why are you forgiving her again? So that she can cheat again?

    It's clear that if she's willing to repeatedly cheat on you, she doesn't value you anymore. You're both just...
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    If you were truly that good friends, then...

    If you were truly that good friends, then confessing your feelings would not get in the way of the friendship. If anything, it might strengthen your friendship because you won't be hiding your secret...
  35. Question: Sneaky boyfriend

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    17 and 27 is definitely trouble. Depending on...

    17 and 27 is definitely trouble. Depending on which country you're in, this can be illegal. How long have you been together anyway?

    Trust your instincts, you already see all the problems and only...
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    1. Just keep getting to know her better before...

    1. Just keep getting to know her better before you decide to ask her to be your girlfriend. There's no reason to rush into anything when you're not ready.

    2. It's just the process of getting to...
  37. Depends on whether you think the relationship is...

    Depends on whether you think the relationship is worth the risk. It's easy to give up on it and you would have the opportunity to meet new people, but you won't know if it would have worked out.
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    Not making rush decisions usually does the trick....

    Not making rush decisions usually does the trick. Give yourself time to think things over before reacting to something. Be patient with yourself.
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    This is an excellent wake up call for you to...

    This is an excellent wake up call for you to reflect on what type of person you would like to become. There's always a chance that you can be together again, but now's not the time to pursue that.
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  40. If you already told him how you feel, then the...

    If you already told him how you feel, then the ball is on his side of the court. Silence is a form of rejection. Seems pretty clear that he doesn't feel the same way, so better to move on. If he...
  41. It's up to her to cut him out. So don't worry...

    It's up to her to cut him out. So don't worry about things you cannot control. What you can control is your interactions with her. Instead of talking about her ex with her, focus on showing her a...
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    Can't you just be honest with him and tell him...

    Can't you just be honest with him and tell him how you really feel?

    If you're able to tell us here, then you should be able to express the same concerns to him.

    If he still gives you the "oh"...
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    Keep on talking to each other and getting to know...

    Keep on talking to each other and getting to know each other better and see where that leads.

    Has he no called you at all? Can you give him a call just to talk?

    If you want to pursue something...
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    Is there a chance for you two to show up to a...

    Is there a chance for you two to show up to a common event? That way you can talk to him directly.

    Just beware that people coming out of a divorce have a lot of baggage.
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    If you keep living at home, then you will keep on...

    If you keep living at home, then you will keep on being under your parents control.

    If money is the problem, then you need to go make some money so that you can be independent. Is the father...
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    The fact that you don't understand what's going...

    The fact that you don't understand what's going on in her mind means that she's not sharing her thoughts with you. When she's not sharing her thoughts with you, it means that she's given up on you.
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    Sounds more like you're not ready for a...

    Sounds more like you're not ready for a relationship. So why are you rushing into one? Before you can commit to someone else, you have to be more securea about yourself.

    Furthermore, if you have...
  48. Question: Hurt

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    It's hurting me to see you drag this out. Think...

    It's hurting me to see you drag this out. Think about it this way, once you cut your ties with it, it will hurt in the beginning, but at least both of you will learn to recover and move on with your...
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    If she wanted you, she would put your as her...

    If she wanted you, she would put your as her priority. Actions speak louder than words. Nor matter what she says (about wanting to be more than friends), she has to walk the talk. You've done your...
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    Definitely leave the ball on her side of the...

    Definitely leave the ball on her side of the court, cause it seems like you've said what you wanted to say. If you do look for her, keep things casual, as in only asking her how she's doing and...
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