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How were you in a 9 year relationship and never met his friends or family and never even went to his home? I had to read the post twice to believe my eyes. He is hiding something very big and you...

We wish you all the best thechump and feel free to come back to this site anytime.

I just wanted to mention that you had said that this feels worse than when you father passed away. My father...

It is really difficult to get to know someone very well in only 3 months. It sounds like you were aware that he had just gotten out of a long term relationship, yet you still stayed with him,...

I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I have been there myself. I was madly in love with a man 4 years ago and he cheated on me after being with me for 5 months. As Devorameira stated above,...

Really tough day for me today folks. Either I dwell on the fact that he was so nice and maybe I should have given him another chance, especially when he said he was willing to do anything, including...

Not sure how my second question got merged with my first question since they are two different questions. As far as it passing, I wish it would pass sooner and not tourture me every day.

Joypulv, thanks for your answer. I agree that he did not want to communicate about things. Once we got into a very small argument and he got quiet. Later on I told him "I know we got into an...

Here is my story... I met a guy at a party back in September and we hit it off really well. He asked to take me to dinner the next day and we went out. From that point on he was the most sweetest,...

Hi Fallendown,

I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. We all have been there one or more times. I will tell you from experience that it sounds like she takes you for granted and that...

Thanks all for the wonderful advice. I am thankful for finding out early but I am also very hurt because he was sooooooo nice to me. He was the nicest person I have ever met, but I guess that wsa...

Hi everyone, I have a dilemma. I was in a relationship for 3 months. He cheated on me 2 months after he asked me to be exclusive with him and be his girlfriend. This happened 10 days ago and I told...

Good Morning
I am having a tough time today. I feel the negativity creeping in, feeling hurt and used. The positive self is still in the background but the internal battle with the negative is...

Rachel,

Thanks for the post. I still have days where I want to fall back into my old depressing mind patterns. The difference now is that I am able to be aware of how I am feeling and am able to...

Update: I appreciate everyone’s advice. I have been doing a lot of soul searching since I wrote this post 2 months ago. I have also been on the Enlightment/spiritual kick and have been reading a lot...

Oh, and another thing. My Honda has 90K miles on it. I don't know if it is normal for mounts to break at a certain milage. The mechanic also told me that my car has 5 mounts, of which two are broken...

I just took my car into honda to get the brakes done and they told me I need to replace the Side and Front Mount. They said that these two mounts are completely broken. They quoted me $170 for the...

Thank you this8384 :)

Currently I have V rated tires on my Honda Accord (which is a V6). If I go down to an H rated tire, would that be bad for my car? Should I stick with the V rated tire?

Thanks for all of your help This8384 and thegreasemonkey. The first time I had to change my brake pads (both front and back) was after 40K miles ( I bought my car new). The second time I had to...

What's the BBB? I would like "thegreasemonkey" to answer this question please. I know that he has worked with hondas for a while.

How often do I need to change my breakpads on my Honda? My car has about 85K miles on it. I bought it new and have changed the front and rear breakpads 3 times already. Every time I change them, it...

Update: I have been feeling a lot better in the last couple of days. I hope it lasts :)

Wewed,
Granted you made a mistake, but if she chooses to stay with you, she has to stop saying all these mean things to you. I know that everyone is giving you advice on how to make her happy. From...

My broker sold stocks in order to pay taxes on them. Now I receive a 1099-b form showing the $ amount of stocks sold. The problem is that I never received any of the funds because they were used to...

Great Advice all, I appreciate it :). I am feeling a bit better. Sometimes it still gets to me but I am trying not to let it cripple me to the point that I keep letting it hurt me.

I think getting in shape may be good for yourself, your anxiety, and your health. Forget what he wants, getting in shape has a lot of bonuses for you. I am only saying that because I am big about...

I guess the hard thing to hear is that he made a specific comment about something I did for him. To do this thing, I had to travel half way across the world for him and put up with his family. His...

Rachel,
Thanks for the wonderful response. I have no contact with him or his family anymore and have no desire to contact him because I know I would be causing more unnecessary pain for myself.

I just recently broke up with a guy that I was seeing for 6 months. There were many reasons I broke up with him. The main reasons were that his parents were pushing him and I to getting married (go...

Ebaines, Thanks for the info. I have not sold any stock in 2007. This is company stock which I rarely mess around with. Since I did not sell any stock, do I need to still fill out a schedule D for...

I received a 1099-b from my company because the broker had sold some of my stock to pay off taxes. I don't know what to do with this form as I am filing my own taxes via turbo tax. Please help.

LBShort, thank you for your answer to my question. I have had my braces off for about 6 months now and I am loving life :) Everyone notices my smile and I am comfortable with my teeth now. I realized...

Yes you are acting like a doormat by staying. I know how it feels when you feel like your life is spinning out of control and your life is not yours anymore. I know how it feels to love someone so...

If he was trying to work things out with you, how did he "slip" and have sex with the other woman? Sounds like he was trying to have his cake and eat it too. Be very weary of him.

Wondergirl, you are right. I think we as humans focus too much on what is out of our control (Past and future) and not what is right in front of us (present). That book is really good, it talks...

Well this book teaches that to be attached to your mind is not to be in the present moment, since the mind is constantly thinking about either the past or the future. I don't like being attached to...

Has anyone read the book called "The Power of Now"? Its by Tholl and its an amazing book. Really eye opening about how humans are not really "enlightened" because we are all attached to our mind. If...

Marly, I am sending you a personal email

Marily I agree with you. It's the same battle for me. It does not shut off and keeps running my life. I have OCD as well, not with habits but with my mind. I continuously think and obsess about...

The book talks about how to stay in the present and not focus on the "mind made future". It also teaches us that we are not our mind, that we have a greater presence in the world. That our mind...

Its great that you had a good time and didn't think about your ex once. Keep meeting people and keep yourself busy. That's the best way to get over the pain. Counseling also helps.

Has anyone read the book called "The Power of Now" By Ekheart Tholl? It's a wonderful book and I feel like it answers the questions I have been looking for. It talks about how to focus on the...

You sound like a very intelligent person who is on the road to healing. The reason why you miss her is because as humans we do not like change, even if it is a good change. Its more comforting being...

MayfairLady, your advice definantly helps. I think that the root of my obesssion is since I was a child. I never had friends and instead of craving friends I would want that one man to sweep me off...

I really believe that it is so important to try and stay focused on yourself in a relationship. I don't mean be selfish but don't live in fantisy land and take everything as it comes, day by day. I...

Thanks Flossie,
I am still not 100% satisified but it helped to know that without surgury my bottom jaw cannot be 100% perfect. I am not willing to undergo the knife to look perfect. Its barely...

Im tired of always feeling like my brain controls me. I obsess over things all the time. I crave relationships but when I am in one I feel like I am constantly living in my fantasy world and thinking...

Carly
I am sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you are able to get your teeth fixed. A quick update on my situation, I have gone for a 2nd opinion to two other orthodontists. Both basically...

I thought you guys got a divorce? Are you still with him?

Wow!!