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    Right. Modern rats and mice ("murid" rodents)...

    Right.

    Modern rats and mice ("murid" rodents) first appeared about 24 million years ago and radiated into the kinds we would recognize today between 1 and 5 million years ago, around the same time...
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    I forgave my ex for having an affair with a close...

    I forgave my ex for having an affair with a close friend before we were married. Today, I wish I'd left him right then. I stayed, married him, had two kids with him. He turned out to be verbally and...
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    Boring sounds good. Congratulations! I agree...

    Boring sounds good. Congratulations!

    I agree with everything you say--about the daughter and the guilt.

    And, yes, he can work anywhere; hence his offer to move.

    Will chew on the idea of...
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    Thanks, Joy. That's an excellent point about the...

    Thanks, Joy. That's an excellent point about the death of someone you've felt anger towards. I will keep that in mind.

    I have asked him about her death and he ends up talking a lot about the...
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    We have talked about moving in together. But I...

    We have talked about moving in together. But I have said I wanted to wait and he agreed once I said that. He has been planning to move closer to me, and gets ever closer to doing it, then doesn't. He...
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    His wife has been dead for several years; they...

    His wife has been dead for several years; they were separated for four years before that. He has not brought anyone else into his daughter's life, to my knowledge. He doesn't always tell me...
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    So who would sit with him instead?

    So who would sit with him instead?
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    Thanks, Joy, though this is a wedding a year...

    Thanks, Joy, though this is a wedding a year away. I don't think it was about where I would sit. It was about whether I would be allowed to be there at all. He wasn't as direct as I said. He just...
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    Comment on Wondergirl's post

    Book nearly done, thank goodness. Thanks for the reality check. Hope you are doing well. I am not used to the new look of this place.
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    Thanks, wondergirl! Been awol from AMHD because...

    Thanks, wondergirl!
    Been awol from AMHD because of a heavy workload (a book project).
    He did manage to hurt my feelings. I'll try to suck it up though. :)
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    Why do you want a stunning woman? Do you think...

    Why do you want a stunning woman? Do you think she'll be nicer to you than someone just pretty? Do you want to be able to show her off to other guys? Another reason? Just curious.
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    Weddiquette

    I have been dating a guy for about 18 months. His wife is deceased and his adult daughter just announced her engagement. I've met the daughter only once but it went well and we've exchanged a few...
  13. You do not sound at all stupid or na´ve. It's...

    You do not sound at all stupid or na´ve. It's sounds like your life is really hard right now. You have a right to want to find ways to make it easier. Your mother should not be yelling at you so...
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    Osmosis is just diffusion through a cell...

    Osmosis is just diffusion through a cell membrane.
    Diffusion you can read about here.

    Active transport is movement across a cell membrane that require the input of energy, usually in the form of...
  15. Does the father pay child support? Is there a...

    Does the father pay child support?
    Is there a custody agreement?
    Does he have formal visitation rights?

    All these things will affect the answer to your question. If the father is the legal...
  16. I'm guessing the fights are a big deal to her....

    I'm guessing the fights are a big deal to her. What do you fight about? When she's upset, do you listen?

    Also, did you use to have a good sex life? When did it start to go downhill? Have you asked...
  17. I just reread this part. I have to say this is...

    I just reread this part. I have to say this is classic abusive behavior.
    He kissed another woman; you complained and then this bizarre sequence of events where he's following you around yelling at...
  18. I think his history of lying is well worth paying...

    I think his history of lying is well worth paying attention to.
    (I have a boyfriend who does that too, but he doesn't have an ex in the picture and doesn't kiss other people. Still, I haven't figure...
  19. Broken Heart, This is lust speaking. It is time...

    Broken Heart,
    This is lust speaking. It is time to be honest about what you are doing.
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    Sigh. I need to sleep on this... Thanks...

    Sigh. I need to sleep on this...

    Thanks everybody. You have all been incredibly helpful.
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    I misquoted him. He used the word "magical," not...

    I misquoted him. He used the word "magical," not romantic. But to me it was the same thing.

    It's possible that I am taking the relationship more seriously, DoulaLC. He says he is moving to my...
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    Money is one reason he gives. He also says he...

    Money is one reason he gives. He also says he cannot take time off from work to take a trip with me. He says he doesn't take vacations and he needs someone to look after his business to go anywhere...
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    They were not always close. She did not speak to...

    They were not always close. She did not speak to him between ages 11 and 16, or so. She is his only child. He says the mother was very protective of her, slept in the same bed with her when she was...
  24. Why bother asking? You know why. He doesn't want...

    Why bother asking? You know why. He doesn't want you on her radar screen before he's done with you.

    And you, for your part, are lusting after a married man. The feelings you described elsewhere...
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    Father daughter trips

    Is is normal for a 57 year old man to want to take 3-7 day trips alone with his 24 year old daughter? I am talking about places like Costa Rica, Hawaii, New York.

    My boyfriend did a couple of...
  26. Absolutely, yes. You are lying to yourself if you...

    Absolutely, yes. You are lying to yourself if you think otherwise.

    I'm going to be a bit harsh, because this has been going on so long.
    Why you take this guy's calls is beyond me.

    He cheated...
  27. I would not recommend having the mother in the...

    I would not recommend having the mother in the home at this time. It could potentially upset the kids a lot. If she goes away and never comes back, nothing is gained and it will hurt them deeply....
  28. The courts usually prefer what is in the best...

    The courts usually prefer what is in the best interests of the children and that means that if all is well, a judge would be unlikely to insist on a major change. That doesn't mean a judge wouldn't...
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    That began here in California under Governor...

    That began here in California under Governor Reagan. It was a cost cutting program to release the mentally ill onto the streets, where they have pretty much remained ever since. It was not a liberal...
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    I think you two are a bad match. He has little...

    I think you two are a bad match. He has little libido and seems happy with things that way. It sounds cold, but you are young and can find someone else. You are not married and have no children...
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    Congratulations ortiz on your successful outcome....

    Congratulations ortiz on your successful outcome. I think you did the best possible thing for your daughter. I'm so sorry you have lost a child, but happy that you have been able to ensure the safety...
  32. Spencer, I agree with wondergirl that you really...

    Spencer, I agree with wondergirl that you really need some human contact. Helping others even in very small ways feels good. It's a start but an important one.

    Your loneliness is not good for you...
  33. Not yet. But in principle it's possible....

    Not yet. But in principle it's possible.
    Capuchin is correct.
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    December 31, 2010 We are up to 516 planets. I...

    December 31, 2010

    We are up to 516 planets. I bet the astronomers will find lots more in 2011.

    Happy New Year!
  35. Scott is right. If your ex concealed income and...

    Scott is right. If your ex concealed income and isn't living by the custody agreement, you have plenty of reason to go back to court on this. But you definitely should not represent yourself. You...
  36. I agree that alcohol got you into this. I...

    I agree that alcohol got you into this.

    I agree your friend took advantage of the situation and definitely pushed you into it. I would not stay friends with her. She is deeply troubled. I would...
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    It is normal for you to feel lonely and sad. Is...

    It is normal for you to feel lonely and sad.
    Is there any chance you could go with him on some of these long trips, just sit in the truck and be together?

    Still, if he's trapped for the time...
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    I know couples who go years at a time without...

    I know couples who go years at a time without sex. I personally would be climbing the walls if I were you. Everybody's different. I don't think this is related to the baby, since it started before...
  39. Given your health, I would hire a lawyer to help...

    Given your health, I would hire a lawyer to help you. The lawyer will cost a lot less than $5000 and can probably negotiate a lower payment.

    Is some of that money unpaid rent?
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    I hope you have already told him all this. If so,...

    I hope you have already told him all this. If so, tell him again and say that this is something you two need to resolve, maybe not this week, but eventually. Ask him if he would be willing to go to a...
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    Have you told him all this? He needs to hear...

    Have you told him all this?

    He needs to hear that he is neglecting his most important relationship and that you'd rather have him than the money.
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    And on Facebook, such a post might well be seen...

    And on Facebook, such a post might well be seen by the victim if there are mutual friends involved. It seems reasonable to assume she saw it.
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    The friend!

    The friend!
  44. Some antidepressants and other drugs can cause...

    Some antidepressants and other drugs can cause heavy sweating.
  45. Cute, but I'm not buying that. An adult male is...

    Cute, but I'm not buying that. An adult male is responsible for knowing simple courtesy. In no way is it his wife's fault, nor is it her job to teach him what his father did not model for him when he...
  46. Is the kink in the last inch or so of the tail?...

    Is the kink in the last inch or so of the tail? I've heard that's typical of this defect.

    My black cat has siamese bone structure and behavior. But nothing of the coloring. In fact, in the right...
  47. Congratulations, Sharon, on taking this step. I...

    Congratulations, Sharon, on taking this step. I think even when the daughter was grown this would remain a challenging situation and you have done the right thing. It's also good that you told him...
  48. Just like us, cats are social animals that need...

    Just like us, cats are social animals that need to be socialized when they are little. It's sad when they are not and end up unable to relax or bond with others.

    Are you sure the kink isn't...
  49. On the other hand: California Retroactive...

    On the other hand:



    California Retroactive Child Support Lawyers
  50. Purified water wouldn't have any minerals in it....

    Purified water wouldn't have any minerals in it.

    However, there are lots of ways to detect and measure the chemical content of solutions, including chemical tests, spectrophotometry, and nuclear...
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