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  1. Question: Betrayed

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    You could be right. Counseling is so expensive...

    You could be right.
    Counseling is so expensive though.
    To be honest I have tried this last year and really I get more help and sense from you guys.
    Believe it or not, I am 1000fold better now...
  2. Question: Betrayed

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    It is an option cat but as with most co...

    It is an option cat but as with most co dependants the fear of being alone is really quite crippling.
    To be honest. I am not sure that he is any worse than many out there. He does have bad points,...
  3. Question: Betrayed

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    Desperately looking for me!

    After a reply from a previous thread fromMudweiser I have been looking into the term
    Co Dependency

    Wow! This is something.
    In some ways I can relate to this problem but certainly not all...
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    Don't be too hard on yourself. For your marriage...

    Don't be too hard on yourself.
    For your marriage to work your wife needs to understand why she had the need to stray.
    Just step back and observe, you will very quickly see that you are trying so...
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    Looking over my last post it can quite easily be...

    Looking over my last post it can quite easily be misunderstood that I think that this was your fault but please don't think that.
    I don't agree with infidelity in any shape or form. That is the...
  6. Question: Betrayed

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    Hi This is awful. It also gives me a new...

    Hi

    This is awful. It also gives me a new perspective on cheating and being the other woman isn't always as it seems.
    As a wife and mother who has had the misfortune of experiencing infidelity I...
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    I can hear you crying out loud and clearly. You...

    I can hear you crying out loud and clearly. You so much want to be pregnant that it is painful to read the negative result right?
    I know how that feels. ( no concellation I know )
    I don't want to...
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    It is very hard to come to terms with the fact...

    It is very hard to come to terms with the fact that your spouse has cheated on you. The emotional rollercoaster is a hell ride.
    You have entered the first round and trying as hard as you can to make...
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    Hi ! Can I ask you how he met these women? If...

    Hi !
    Can I ask you how he met these women?
    If he is on the phone for hours at a time with both this is both taking money from your family and emotional time he should be sharing with you. It...
  10. Hi V40 Having one bad relationship behind you...

    Hi V40
    Having one bad relationship behind you and your kids is bad enough.
    Even though your new husband is not hitting you he is abusing you through his actions.
    I am a little concerned that his...
  11. Thought I had better give an update here as I...

    Thought I had better give an update here as I used to get fed up when people posted and never followed up.
    The reader gwts more confused while searching so here is my outcome:
    Well it looks like...
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    An answer worth it's weight in gold. Many men...

    An answer worth it's weight in gold.
    Many men think like this and it is very reassuring for women to hear this.
    Thank you
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    There are so many treatments for this. You are...

    There are so many treatments for this. You are nly 19 which means your skin is youthful and still produces lots of collagen.
    Go to you doctor and see if you can get help for this. If you can afford...
  14. Question: Betrayed

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    Thank you for your heartfelt reply I know you...

    Thank you for your heartfelt reply I know you mean well and what you are saying really does make sense... for those of you who are reading... listen to her.

    I am just not there yet! I know what...
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    10 years is a long time to be friends. I think...

    10 years is a long time to be friends.
    I think that there is a difference of opinions between you to what the relationship really was.
    The fact that he sees you as an X makes this different.
    He is...
  16. Question: Betrayed

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    Back to life after revealing infidelity

    Threads merged

    OK
    I need to work on myself esteem.
    I have been having a very strange year after almost losing my marriage of 23 years.
    This took me very hard much to my own surprise as I...
  17. Question: Betrayed

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    Thank you this support is worth more than gold!

    Thank you this support is worth more than gold!
  18. Question: Betrayed

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    I have been looking over the communication which...

    I have been looking over the communication which has developed since I posted this thread.

    It has made me so aware of the importance on how we communicate with others.
    When we are feeling...
  19. Question: Betrayed

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    Spot n Cat I think this sums up me and my...

    Spot n Cat I think this sums up me and my situation perfectly
    Thank you
  20. Question: Betrayed

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    This is a good question. I need this type of...

    This is a good question.
    I need this type of challenge as you well know the confusion being on the rollercoaster.
    Yes it is better but maybe there is a little anger I need to deal with that is...
  21. Question: Betrayed

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    I don't understand how they can be good friends...

    I don't understand how they can be good friends when he secretly took contact after 25 years of not talking, or why he did this in secret.
    He kept his cell phone in his pocket on silent and ran to...
  22. I think that it is great that you are asking...

    I think that it is great that you are asking these questions and are honest with yourself. Think how easy it would have been just to go out and cheat ! Like so many others.
    I think the best thing...
  23. Question: Betrayed

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    Emotional affairs are one way tickets to hell

    Threads merged

    I need some honest opinions about what you consider to be an affair.
    Maybe I am too sensitive maybe I shouldn't be thinking like I do. I am not young so this has come as such a...
  24. Question: Betrayed

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    I only wish I knew, once again I say it is so...

    I only wish I knew, once again I say it is so hard to believe that you are in this type of situation. You waken up every morning hoping it was a bad dream and that you can sigh and feel good.
    When...
  25. Question: Betrayed

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    Thank you so much for taking the time to give me...

    Thank you so much for taking the time to give me some guidance it really does help.
    When you find yourself in this kind of situation you are so frightened of being seen as paranoid, hopeless,...
  26. Question: Betrayed

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    Thank you I will read up on both. You are so...

    Thank you I will read up on both.
    You are so right I did always say that I would never accept this type of behaviour.
    Explaining why is so hard. I see myself on this site giving advice to others in...
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    5 years?? You have let yourself be used for 5...

    5 years??
    You have let yourself be used for 5 years?
    You have been played and I think you know it hence the no reply for 2 weeks, wanting out.etc
    You got what you deserved.
    I agree with the...
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    So nice to read that you are thnking, you know...

    So nice to read that you are thnking, you know what is right and wrong but you are still leaning a bit too much on what is good for you.
    You are afraid of what others might think of you.
    What...
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    I would say that your fear of losing is not true...

    I would say that your fear of losing is not true love you are in the initial stages of a relationship with your lover.
    Sneaking around makes it even more exciting, just like a movie... it's not...
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    We are strange creatures on this earth. ...

    We are strange creatures on this earth.
    Basically we don't know what we have until the moment just before we think we are about to lose it!
    You want your wife more now because you know she had an...
  31. Question: Betrayed

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    You are so right, the insecurities that are...

    You are so right, the insecurities that are brought on are completely true. Then the ball starts rolling and you pick up a few more. How unnatractive must this be?
    Jeeso I have never really thought...
  32. Question: Betrayed

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    You arer so correct, the problem is in this...

    You arer so correct, the problem is in this situation is that it takes forever to get to the point where you feel like you have the energy to do anything.
    I am getting there, I think that by...
  33. Question: Betrayed

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    I am working hard to get past the feelings that...

    I am working hard to get past the feelings that were forced upon me.
    It is not always easy but to get the best out of life I need to try.
    For a year , a whole year I was someone completely...
  34. Thank you for posting this, it was good also for...

    Thank you for posting this, it was good also for me to hear the" other womans " anguish.
    Love is trying, but I honestly don't think that you were in love with this man. I believe that it was a deep...
  35. As the wife of a man who cheats I ask you to...

    As the wife of a man who cheats I ask you to really think through what you are doing.
    Wives are people too and quite often we find ourselves at the rew end of the deal for no real justifiable...
  36. Question: Betrayed

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    Do you have any good suggestins on how I could...

    Do you have any good suggestins on how I could approach a conversation without him turning around and walking out of the house for hours.
    I have tried and the answer is usually:
    "Here we go again i...
  37. Question: Betrayed

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    Thank you for your straight and honest answer. I...

    Thank you for your straight and honest answer. I really do appreciate it.
    Manipulation is a word I have tried to avoid as it has so many negative implications. However, unfortunately I think you...
  38. Question: Betrayed

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    Sorry about taking so long to answer. I am in my...

    Sorry about taking so long to answer.
    I am in my upper 40's and agree that perimenopause messes up our hormones, I just never thought it would get me like this:rolleyes:
    I have tried several ways...
  39. Question: Betrayed

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    I tried counseling but on my own I only heard...

    I tried counseling but on my own I only heard that I was like 2 people at the moment.
    I looked and gave the impression that I was strong and very sensible so it came as a shock that I didn't dae...
  40. Question: Betrayed

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    You make a lot of sense but packing up and...

    You make a lot of sense but packing up and leaving after 23 years of what I thought was good is really difficult.
    I have no family nearby and I really would like to try to make this work if I can....
  41. Question: Betrayed

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    We are not so young but it is amazing how...

    We are not so young but it is amazing how infidelity can screw you up at any age. You act in ways you can only imagine when trying to save something. We have been married for 24 years. Children at...
  42. Question: Betrayed

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    Betrayed

    My husband had what you call an emotional affair with his X of 25 years ago.
    When I found out it had been going on for 3 months. Every day 10 to 20 messages.
    After lots of trying t blame me for a...
  43. Home pregnant.test shows negative still late. 10days

    Has anyone had a home pregnancy test that shows negative but were in fact pregnant.
    How long is it normal to wait before taking the test?
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