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Again, I just say all you can do it inform you friend of your feeling and your love for you in some manner, via phone, email, phone call, letter, in person what ever method you choose. Let her know...

Dump the chump. Typically when people have a "feeling" its right, so trust your instincts. It may help you to read your own post as if were someone else's post and read you own post. When one...

Jesushelper76:
I will admit I know nothing about aids, so people with aids generally know they have this right away? I have heard stories of people not finding out they out they had this virus...

First congrats on beginning the "bettering yourself" process, however such a small amount of time has passed for any real changes. When I read you message, it seems that this distant thing really...

You ask why did he do this to you, the sad truth is because you allowed it. I am not saying its your fault by any means, but It appears you provided him a free ticket, and perhaps now he moved on...

The assumption that all seem be making is that she previously knew she had aids before she was with you? Is it possile that she just found out she had aids herself and that it was from a previous...

I would just let him know that you are their for support and don't push to be with him at all. It really takes time to heal from any divorce. The amount of time required for such healing is really...

The part of you screaming NO NO NO,, its your brain, I would listen to it. If you have any doubts at all, just re-read your own post as if were someone else's, what would you post? Then take your...

The easy answer is just end it with the oder guy and move one. But how do you change such feelings. You have mentioned discussing your needs with your husband and no real response. It seems you...

Perhaps you could email you friend a nice long email stating these feelings for her. You could let her know how you really feel about the situation and that you will be there when she needs you...

Ah, good point momincali; however if this is true love is mutual, then such betrayal would not occur. I believe that "unconditional" love typically does not exist and agree that such conditions as...

I agree with Talaniman. He doesn't have the love for you in which he speaks. Look for the "actions" of love not so much the word "love", for actions speak far louder than words when it comes to...

True love is not found, but realized. For true love begins with friendship. It is a mutual love between two who do not place conditions on their love for one another.

In short, people just want what they can't (or perhaps I should say shouldn't) have. The thrill of the affair only last as an affair, then your only left on would have could have should have but...

Touchy subject. Just a guess that this is not the first time that you stand up for you mom before your wife's take her side. The problem is that even in the post you blame your wife for her anger...

I must agree with Wildcat on this one,, I tend to go with the once a cheater, always a cheater. Not saying people can't change, but does't really seem to be the case here.

I believe that you can...

Wildcat,

Usually I agree with you approach on keeping distanct and not contacting, but in this case I just see it as a little different. First they dated for two years,, problably not the case...

I am guessing that you are young, but I suggest that if you don't want to ask directly then ask someone else to ask for you. I tell you I have known and still best friends with a girl since I was 7...

Is there more information about your story,, is this woman dating a military guy that is overseas or married to one? After a month then nothing, just seems that either someone else was involved or...

Past is just that the past. I will say that I too had this problem and I tell you it just kept distance between my ex and I. I kept digging into past and wanting all the answers to questions of...

Love is a very personal feeling in which we all have a slight different perspective on Love. Does this guy love you, perhaps love to this guy mean getting a tatto with his girls name on his arm, who...

Communication!! My suggestion is to just talk to her and see how the conversation goes now, perhaps enough time as passed to begin a friendship. Just don't rush into anything or get your hopes up,...

Actions speak louder than words. When you get tired of talking about it, then move it to the actions. Not saying divorce, but perhaps demanding a few changes, move out for a while. As you...

As a man, I assure you that not all men go to strip clubs. My opinion is that if two are in a relationship then both should respect one anothers feelings. I am not saying that life is always easy...

I could only assume that you are not of a religious background. While you may be wonderul to her, you are not being supportive. You mentioned she was praying to her god,, with a little g, for a...

It almost appears to be the typical cat and mouse chase, or wanting what we can't have. Just sit down and evaluate the things that you really want in life,, not a person, rather personal changes and...

In a post you sent to someone else you mentioned that you met a guy that was living with his girlfriend at the time, but then that everything worked out great not perfect but great. So is this the...

Sound like you friend is enjoy his cake and eating too.. Only one problem is that someone is sure to get hurt. You friend should tell his girlfriend, if it is new "fling" that he so desires, then...

Not sure I can give you the advise that your heart so desires; however, I can provide a listening ear. I feel your pain and fustration, yet some people in life will never change. You can have a...

I should have mentioned this in my first response, so I aplogize for writing another response. What you must realize that it is not your fault. All one can do is their best an move one. Learn from...

You mentioned that you were married to a wonderful man, which is awesome. Again on the "Tough Love" logic you may want to stop all communication that you can with your mom, just let your husband...

Jody,
First I would like to say that I am new to this so please take my advice with a grain of salt. Your situation is not all that uncommon, but it is very sad just the same. I have a good...

Dora,
Sorry to hear that you have these problems. I couldn't emagine such a problem. My parents would give me anything; however, they cant. I grew up in poverty and worked from a very young...

I too am new to this so my advice should be taken with a grain of salt. From my point of view it appears that perhaps this guy does not love you the same as you love him. I mean if he truly loved...

Glad to hear you never hit her before. Did she say how you hit her when you were drunk? I mean was it an accident or you really hit her intentionally while you were drunk? I would suggest just...

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You mentioned that your ex thought you had a drinking problem; however, you never admitted to having a drinking problem yourslef. One would wonder how you could hit a woman and not remember it. I...

Marissa,
You have your whole life ahead of you. So my advise to you is to learn the word NO!! Practice the NO word as often as you can. If you boyfriend presists, then tell him to talk to the...

Sounds to me that you are not in love with this person at your college, but rather fear of being alone. You mentioned that your boyfriend has gone out on a date with a girl or two from back home,...

I have to agree with changingthings' reply. I feel really sad for your fiancé, for she thought that you heart belonged to her. And while your heart, perhaps does belong to her, your mind wanders to...

Well it sounds to me that you have already been given excellent advise. I will tell you that if the guy doesn't respect you now, dump him and dump him fast. I several female friends in which that...

As sweet as it sometimes sounds, there is no such thing as sweet revenge. As difficult as it may be, you should just move one and forget about the "player". Revenge is never "even" and can just go...