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    If she pays your bills then all you can do is...

    If she pays your bills then all you can do is accept it, especially since you are still a minor. Remember that she is doing this because she is worried about you, understand where she is coming...
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    Just enjoy the dating for what it is and don't...

    Just enjoy the dating for what it is and don't move so quickly. Divorcing at age 21 should tell you one thing if anything, you need to learn to slow down. Chill, relax, breath, and just follow the...
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    Use your own legs to stand on as soon as...

    Use your own legs to stand on as soon as possible, if you cannot do so now, make a plan on how you can go about improving your logistics and work towards that.

    PS. I have been in your shoes and...
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    Just take it. Calm down and avoid situation at...

    Just take it. Calm down and avoid situation at which your baby's mother gets mad, she might not have full control of herself during this time. As far as your girlfriend's mother goes, she can fend...
  5. Facebook would be my best guess as well.

    Facebook would be my best guess as well.
  6. This depends... the relationship is over. If you...

    This depends... the relationship is over. If you are going to apologize about it and move on I don't see a problem with it, but if you were over it then I would see no reason as to why you would...
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    Be real. Stop having so much expectation out of...

    Be real. Stop having so much expectation out of an interaction that is just starting. You are asking the wrong questions, if you want a closed relationship then you can both talk about having that,...
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    You have no right to complain about anything as...

    You have no right to complain about anything as both of you are single and can do as you please. It seems that even if she is girlfriend worthy she is not interested in having a relationship at this...
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    For the most part, attraction works the same...

    For the most part, attraction works the same regardless of race or nationality. However, if he isn't replying to your messages and does not make an effort to hang out with you... he might just not...
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    Unless you have managed to master the ability of...

    Unless you have managed to master the ability of mind control... nothing. Her decision are hers and hers only, all you can be is a supportive friend if you value her as such, because she will need...
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    Wasting your time is very apparent. Any woman...

    Wasting your time is very apparent. Any woman that leaves you for someone else and keeps you as a back up is definitely a waste of time. You deserve someone who values you.
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    It seems like he is taking care of business, and...

    It seems like he is taking care of business, and you are a distraction to him. You want him to give up paying attention for texting you and to hang out more than 3 times a week? Calm your...
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    Tell him that you want someone in your life who...

    Tell him that you want someone in your life who promotes it and not someone who doesn't fight for their own stability and much less both of you guys' stability. Also, maybe it's time for you guys to...
  14. Question: Break up

    by mmresd
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    It seems as if he has allowed himself to...

    It seems as if he has allowed himself to disappear into the relationship's entity. If he is done, all you can do is respect his decision and start again elsewhere. Next time, make sure that both of...
  15. Long relationships can have a long hold on a...

    Long relationships can have a long hold on a person, however, because of the period between that one and the one you and her started I would say she isn't using you as a rebound if that's what you...
  16. He just isn't that interested in you, if he was,...

    He just isn't that interested in you, if he was, he would be going out of his way to communicate with you, unless he was hospitalized or something of the sort. Or overseas where maybe reception does...
  17. Question: Is He No Good?

    by mmresd
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    You have to options, personally I am not that...

    You have to options, personally I am not that affectionate myself, however I do at least TRY. One is to accept the way he is and be okay with him being less affectionate or teach him how to improve...
  18. Definitely tell her how you feel. It's better to...

    Definitely tell her how you feel. It's better to try and fail than to fail because you never tried. Who knows, she might share those feelings and change her mind or make the trip to Hawaii a short...
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    Sit down and talk to her about why her feelings...

    Sit down and talk to her about why her feelings changed and if she is even interested in trying to work something out, if she is, then you are going to have to ask for her to stop interacting with...
  20. Get over your own insecurities, or your fears of...

    Get over your own insecurities, or your fears of being cheated on will always be heightened. It's like a self fulfilling prophecy, believe yourself of value and that your girl is lucky to have you...
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    Sounds like you are the back up plan, and not the...

    Sounds like you are the back up plan, and not the main course of action... that's why he is so withdrawn... move on, find someone that actually values you.
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    To be direct, wife material? I would highly...

    To be direct, wife material? I would highly doubt. Unless you want a lazy wife that does nothing but consume your resources without bringing anything to the table.

    Javi
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    He is controlling and willing to cheat on you. ...

    He is controlling and willing to cheat on you. You need more convincing than those two things to help you break up with him? It's time to call it quits, find someone who is going to value you and...
  24. Personally I don't think there is anything wrong...

    Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with watching porn, he is probably just feeling that you felt when you first found out about it. Maybe he though that only men watched or were...
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    If he has to be faithful to his mother and his...

    If he has to be faithful to his mother and his acquired relationship then you should just leave, find someone who is available for you, unless you want to continue torturing yourself.
  26. You said okay, next time if you aren't okay with...

    You said okay, next time if you aren't okay with something then don't say it. If you are sure that nothing happened then what's the problem? Calm down, and trust your girl.
  27. Question: Help me please

    by mmresd
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    The basic problem I see here is that while you...

    The basic problem I see here is that while you were too busy loving an abusive man, you forgot to keep loving yourself. Have some self-respect and leave him, I love him too much to leave? Please. ...
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    It would be unfair for you to make him stop...

    It would be unfair for you to make him stop seeing his child, maybe go with him when he does this so you feel more comfortable?
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    Cheating is completely up to you, sure temptation...

    Cheating is completely up to you, sure temptation is there for everyone, but cheating is a personal choice, so make it now, and stand by it. This might be the only guy that doesn't cheat on you, are...
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    He loves his child and will always be a father to...

    He loves his child and will always be a father to her, as far as you go, you messed things up by lying to him. Whether he decides to forgive you is completely up to him.
  31. Question: What do I do

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    If he isn't responding then he just ain't that...

    If he isn't responding then he just ain't that into you. Move on, if he starts contact with you again, then you can see where things go from there.
  32. Question: Compulsive lying

    by mmresd
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    What is wrong here is that you have forgiven him...

    What is wrong here is that you have forgiven him for everything that he has done and continues to do. Why stop lying if you are just going to get mad for a minute and get over it? It is sometimes...
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    There is nothing wrong with it per say, as being...

    There is nothing wrong with it per say, as being gay is not a crime. But having sex overall does or at least should have an age minimum requirement.
  34. When you put a group of people together and they...

    When you put a group of people together and they vote on something, it will have a higher chance of them being right. So if you have heard the give up a lot of times, it might mean that you need to...
  35. There may be legal issues, such as her owning or...

    There may be legal issues, such as her owning or be leasing the apartment in her name as well?
  36. Question: Love

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    Break this relationship off and meet people a...

    Break this relationship off and meet people a little closer to your age, this is illegal for a reason, and you might want to have yourself checked out, now it's 15, who is to say that next time won't...
  37. Question: Does she love me?

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    You have given so much and accepted so little in...

    You have given so much and accepted so little in return, that she is used to it and she takes you for granted. Break this off as soon as possible and find someone who is going to value you. A...
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    You either respect what his parents are asking of...

    You either respect what his parents are asking of him and are cool with hanging out with him with interruptions and all, or end it and find someone who is going to fulfill your needs.
  39. Question: Is she lying?

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    No one here knows if she is lying, or cheating. ...

    No one here knows if she is lying, or cheating. What I can tell you is if you are feeling that your girlfriend is fitting you a little looser you can either calm down on how much sex your having, or...
  40. First, of all, when someone says we don't have...

    First, of all, when someone says we don't have the money, it normally means that the money they just received in their paycheck is tied up with bills, not that they physically don't have the dollar...
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    It seems to be a fairly simply situation. He...

    It seems to be a fairly simply situation. He wanted someone, and then he didn't, and when he didn't anymore he let you know. It is a break up, take it as such and start moving on.
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    You are looking at this incorrectly. You don't...

    You are looking at this incorrectly. You don't fix a break. You break to fix a bad relationship. In this case she wasn't happy for whatever the reason might be and decided it would be better to be...
  43. Regardless of the monetary benefits that you...

    Regardless of the monetary benefits that you receive from someone, if you don't see the relationship going somewhere you want to go or with a person you see yourself with in the future then you need...
  44. She probably feels like you two are moving too...

    She probably feels like you two are moving too fast for her pace. Let her back up, give her your silence, and if she really loves you, she will make the decision to be your girlfriend. However, if...
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    Give her a full and completely break, remember...

    Give her a full and completely break, remember that if you don't you will probably be here posting as to how she broke up with you. Give her what she is needing, and if she wants to continue it she...
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    It seems like you have gotten a lot of chances,...

    It seems like you have gotten a lot of chances, now just a second, but third, fourth, and so on and took her for granted by never believing she would actually leave you. You have made your bed, and...
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    You need to stop asking questions, especially the...

    You need to stop asking questions, especially the ones that give you information you can't deal with. If she is forking over this information on her own, tell her she needs to stop. However, as far...
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    You destroyed the trust he had for you and he is...

    You destroyed the trust he had for you and he is now punishing you for it. Yes, you need to leave that situation as soon as possible, are you actually able to leave?
  49. Regardless of the numerous and I mean... numerous...

    Regardless of the numerous and I mean... numerous detail you have shared with us, when a female breaks up with you to find herself. It means she is breaking up with you, of course, and that she...
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    There is no harm in contacting him, setup a date...

    There is no harm in contacting him, setup a date and see what he says, that's the only way to find out if he wishes to start something with you or not.
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