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  1. Is she the main driver of the vehicle, or are...

    Is she the main driver of the vehicle, or are you? I'd guess she is, since it's her car. She can't insure something she doesn't own. The most she can do is list herself as a part time driver of...
  2. Try offering a plate, that may be easier for him,...

    Try offering a plate, that may be easier for him, or change bowls. Some dogs are extremely picky about what they eat out of, so switch it up, find a bowl or plate that suits him.
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    Question, are you open to moving to the other...

    Question, are you open to moving to the other side of the world to be with the internet girl? Are you okay with never having kids? Are you okay with never getting married? Are you willing to...
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    Getting a job requires you to look at who's...

    Getting a job requires you to look at who's hiring, sending or delivering your resume, hoping they call for an interview, going to an interview when called and making a good impression, and then...
  5. Question: Rape or not?

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    Why didn't they tell when it happened? Easy,...

    Why didn't they tell when it happened? Easy, they were scared.

    I was molested by my cousin from the age of 5 until my pre-teens. I never told anyone. My parents died never knowing what happened...
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    Check the airport, they rent cars at most...

    Check the airport, they rent cars at most airports.
  7. Question: Gray hair

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    THere is no "cure" for grey hair, that's why...

    THere is no "cure" for grey hair, that's why there's hair dye, because that's the only solution to cover grey hair.
  8. Ah, Ghana, the scammers capital. You already...

    Ah, Ghana, the scammers capital. You already know this is a scam, heck, you're probably not even talking to a female, and definitely not the one whose pictures you saw. Walk away, look for a girl...
  9. I don't know the laws in your area but I do know...

    I don't know the laws in your area but I do know that most places have an eviction process that has to be followed. You can't just decide to throw someone out. Rent or no rent, he's a resident in...
  10. Obviously he values his mothers opinion, so much...

    Obviously he values his mothers opinion, so much so in fact that he contacted this other girl to please his mother. If his mother doesn't accept you than it's unlikely that he'll go against her and...
  11. You asked if something you said bothered her, she...

    You asked if something you said bothered her, she said it isn't about you. In other words she's not upset by something you said or did, she's upset about something else that has nothing to do with...
  12. Question: Online jobs

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    I've done a lot of research on this, even tried a...

    I've done a lot of research on this, even tried a few of the scams (which I sadly didn't realize were scams at the time). I have yet to find a legitimate job online. There are things you can do to...
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    Why not plan an earlier evening, go for drinks...

    Why not plan an earlier evening, go for drinks but drink soda instead of alcohol, and then leave early so that you still get plenty of rest.

    Just because you're going out for drinks doesn't mean...
  14. Question: Question

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    Being too afraid to say no doesn't mean you said...

    Being too afraid to say no doesn't mean you said yes. This person didn't ask if it was OK, they didn't ask if you wanted to have sex. They snuck into your room and did what they wanted without your...
  15. Question: To buy or not to buy

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    I never buy new unless there's a really good sale...

    I never buy new unless there's a really good sale going on. Check your local buy and sell group on Facebook, you may find something that still works well, but isn't needed anymore. Sometimes you...
  16. Vet, immediately! If she's having trouble...

    Vet, immediately! If she's having trouble standing there could be an obstruction, or any number of other things going on. We can't diagnose or treat online. This could be life threatening, you...
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    You can have dual citzenship but reclaiming your...

    You can have dual citzenship but reclaiming your German citizenship won't be easy.
  18. If you know his address it shouldn't be hard to...

    If you know his address it shouldn't be hard to find his phone number and connect with him by phone, or write him a letter and send it to the address you have.
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    There are no rules when you're fighting. Think...

    There are no rules when you're fighting. Think of it this way, fighting is assault, you can go to jail for that, so if you're mad enough to actually start a fight, risk being charged with assault,...
  20. This is a good lesson to anyone sleeping with a...

    This is a good lesson to anyone sleeping with a married man. If he hasn't divorced the wife, you're just a side piece, a bit of fun, a roll in the hay. Sorry if that sounds harsh but the truth...
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    This has been going on for 2 years and you're...

    This has been going on for 2 years and you're still obsessed with him? Have you done anything to find happiness without him? Have you dated, met other men, or are you still hoping he'll one day...
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    How much calcium are you getting daily? How...

    How much calcium are you getting daily? How about your daily water intake?

    Have you talked to a doctor about this?
  23. Question: Tested

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    What's your question? Are you wondering if...

    What's your question? Are you wondering if you'll fail? There's no way for us to know, you'll have to wait for the results. I think the bigger question is why you're continuing to drink when...
  24. Question: Ear problem help

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    For the pain you can try a hair dryer. Set it on...

    For the pain you can try a hair dryer. Set it on low, warm/hot, and let the air blow into your ear. It really helps for pain. But the clogging, I have no idea. I think it's a case of you having...
  25. I wouldn't try it if you're a novice and not that...

    I wouldn't try it if you're a novice and not that handy, unless the materials you're buying aren't that expensive.

    Do try looking at a local buy and sell group in your area, or a thrift store. ...
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    I'm a serial non-responder when it comes to...

    I'm a serial non-responder when it comes to emails. I literally forget to check my email, so by the time I do (maybe once a month if that) I have tons of emails, many requiring a reply, and I just...
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    I'm friends with a lot of me exes, but we were...

    I'm friends with a lot of me exes, but we were all very young when we dated, and now we're all in our late 40's, so it was easier to transition to become friends.

    Not everyone can be platonic...
  28. Question: Working out of state

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    I would be livid that he chose to leave without...

    I would be livid that he chose to leave without discussing it with you. But, I do have to ask why this upsets you so much. It's not like you'll miss his help, because he doesn't help out at all,...
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    Thanks Tickle, It was really scary, we thought...

    Thanks Tickle,

    It was really scary, we thought for sure we'd lose him. I'm so glad it went the other way. He's back to being full of pee and vinegar, we're so glad. :)
  30. You asked why she would do that when she knew you...

    You asked why she would do that when she knew you had trust issues. Why? Because she doesn't care enough about you or your issues. She wanted to date you, but she didn't love you and didn't care...
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    Thanks all. I'm really sorry for my little...

    Thanks all.

    I'm really sorry for my little passive aggressive rant. I saw 90 views of this thread and just thought, really, not one person that just posts "hope your dog is ok?"

    Rascal was...
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    Sorry guys, I was feeling a bit frustrated...

    Sorry guys, I was feeling a bit frustrated yesterday and this thread got the brunt of it. Rascal is doing much better. He's on two different types on antibiotics, probiotics, and other meds. He's...
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    Thank you for the overwhelming response to this...

    Thank you for the overwhelming response to this post. I'm so grateful for all the heartfelt messages of support. Ya, this site is truly dead.

    Since I can't delete this thread I'll update. ...
  34. Suspecting something and proving it, are two...

    Suspecting something and proving it, are two different things. I suspect that my neighbors are horrible people because of one encounter I had with them. They may actually be decent humans beings, but...
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    Our Rascal is very sick

    I know none of you can diagnose or treat. You also know that if I'm asking here, I'm desperate for any bit of advice I can get.

    Here's the history:

    On Monday my 6 year old border collie Rascal...
  36. Happiness means different things to different...

    Happiness means different things to different people. Some people find happiness in a simple sunset, while others find happiness in shopping and spending lots of money. There's no one way to...
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    Ok, I thought you wanted recipes for homemade...

    Ok, I thought you wanted recipes for homemade squirrel food, not to cook the squirrel. Can't imagine that they'd really be worth cooking. Once you skin them and remove the bones you'll be lucky to...
  38. Question: Teen issues

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    So true. Every other time I've picked her up the...

    So true. Every other time I've picked her up the mother hasn't been home. I've asked to meet the mother a few times, but she's always at work, or so the girl tells me.

    Today I told Syd to give...
  39. As a mom to two teens, both older than you, I...

    As a mom to two teens, both older than you, I have to say that I like Joys plan. That plan would work on me.

    One thing I can add, if I say no to something and my kids continue to ask, continue to...
  40. Question: Teen issues

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    I agree Tal, and this is the first friend of...

    I agree Tal, and this is the first friend of Syd's where I haven't met the parents. I find it a bit odd frankly, but apparently the mom works 2 jobs and isn't home a lot. There's also an older...
  41. Question: Teen issues

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    Teen issues

    My 15 year old daughter has a friend at school that I've met a few times. Very nice girl, just turned 16. She's very emo.

    After the first time I met her (I gave her a ride home after school) she...
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    Frankly I would be more disturbed by the fact...

    Frankly I would be more disturbed by the fact that this is a co-worker and you haven't reported him for sexual harassment. But that's another issue.

    There are many people that have open marriages....
  43. Question: May be pregnant?

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    The only ways to determine pregnancy is a urine...

    The only ways to determine pregnancy is a urine test when you're at least a week overdue for your period, using first morning urine. A blood test done at your doctors office. An ultrasound when...
  44. Question: Bat landing

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    Depending on where you live, the majority of bats...

    Depending on where you live, the majority of bats are harmless, and no, a bat wouldn't land on you, it would avoid you. If one had landed on you you definitely would have felt it. Sounds like you...
  45. I'm so very sorry this is happening. Frankly,...

    I'm so very sorry this is happening.

    Frankly, for me, the herpes wouldn't be the reason I left. Him keeping it secret, that would take me some time to get over, or might cause me to leave.

    I...
  46. There are too many possibilities for us to guess....

    There are too many possibilities for us to guess.

    This could be an allergy, as many dogs have them. Sadly, if it is an allergy you have a long road ahead of you trying to figure out what is...
  47. Sounds like you have postpartum depression. It...

    Sounds like you have postpartum depression. It happens to many women. There is help available, talk to your doctor about that.

    For both of my kids my husband worked, but he had a full time job...
  48. I have a question. How did your employer obtain...

    I have a question. How did your employer obtain the confidential information? If you told him then it's not confidential. If he found out because you posted it on Facebook, then it's not...
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    I agree with Oliver. I was going to suggest, but...

    I agree with Oliver. I was going to suggest, but not sure it would work for you because you stated your town is very homophobic, but why not start a LGBT support group at your school? My daughters...
  50. Question: Mrs

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    I do it, and so do the majority of women in the...

    I do it, and so do the majority of women in the world. But it really depends on your beliefs and where you live. I know some countries and religions give women very few rights, even when it comes...
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