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  1. I'm really sorry that you are going through this...

    I'm really sorry that you are going through this and although I don't have any advice to offer you, I do however have some food for thought; someone once told me something that I have come to realise...
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    I'm going to disagree with most. She could very...

    I'm going to disagree with most. She could very well be the type that waits for the guy to make the first move and since you've never made a move, she may have thought you simply weren't interested....
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    I think she knows that much, that's why she feels...

    I think she knows that much, that's why she feels conflicted and is seeking advice. Telling her that there's no need to read her post to know she's in the wrong is not very constructive in my...
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    Yes but only after the renovations are done! :)

    Yes but only after the renovations are done! :)
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    Interesting. I sincerely hope it's not always the...

    Interesting. I sincerely hope it's not always the case. I know you say it is natural, but I would be very sad to realise that there are differences in how I view my step-son vs a biological child,...
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    I'm not offended, and I do agree that a family...

    I'm not offended, and I do agree that a family vacation in a resort sounds terrific, whenever we go on a trip and we see families we think how nice it is. By day 3, we miss our son and plan on...
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    Although I appreciate your post, I really feel...

    Although I appreciate your post, I really feel you are lacking a lot of information before making a statement like that.

    As far as the step-parenting issue, I have been raising my step-son since...
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    Thank you everyone for the advice. And although I...

    Thank you everyone for the advice. And although I appreciate it, in talking with a professional about this situation I've decided it's important that we continue having this once week for us and the...
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    No she's not. She's here asking for advice, not...

    No she's not. She's here asking for advice, not asking to be judged. It's these kind of remarks that make people who want help, afraid to ask for advice.
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    That's not what she's asking.

    That's not what she's asking.
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    Try approaching this like you would if you wanted...

    Try approaching this like you would if you wanted to quit smoking.

    Quitting anything (even people) is very hard in the beginning but if you stick with it, it becomes easier with time.

    Try very...
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    Why give up his girlfriend if his wife will let...

    Why give up his girlfriend if his wife will let him have her...
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    That would solve the problem wouldn't it. But...

    That would solve the problem wouldn't it. But unfortunately there is only one week available to us for vacation. He gets another week which we use to stay at his mothers to help get her...
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    That was to show that his position is not...

    That was to show that his position is not motivated by lack of 'entertainment', thought it was important to mention it so that it doesn't seem as though he wants to come with us because he's bored,...
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    Thanks, good suggestions. On a side note, he...

    Thanks, good suggestions. On a side note, he stays at his grandmother's when we're away for one week, and he really enjoys it there.
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    Step son and vacations

    My husband and I have custody of our 10 year boy (always have). He visits his mom irregularly, on average one week-end a month. For the past 3 years, we have been doing some major renovations on our...
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    I don't see what the issue here is. If she says...

    I don't see what the issue here is. If she says her husband's infidelity doesn't bother her, to me that resembles an open marriage type of arrangement.

    Everyone may feel differently but it doesn't...
  18. Question: Why not me?

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    I think she may have a crush on your husband and...

    I think she may have a crush on your husband and your husband may be flattered by it and may even appreciate feeling wanted by another woman.

    In my opinion, it is harmless at this point. However,...
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    I'm going to play devil's advocate here and say...

    I'm going to play devil's advocate here and say this, when two people are attracted to each other, their brain releases a chemical called PEA, the same 'high' you get after snorting cocoine. I...
  20. When someone goes into a 'rebound' relationship,...

    When someone goes into a 'rebound' relationship, it doesn't always mean that there isn't an attachement and feelings for the other person, it just means that they may have started dating before being...
  21. I don't think you are ready to let her go and...

    I don't think you are ready to let her go and don't believe it would be as simple getting her out of your head right away.

    I do however believe that you need to focus on other things, meet new...
  22. I'd be careful if I was you. If it was as simple...

    I'd be careful if I was you. If it was as simple as "she knows she messed, she wants to get back together" she would have sent you an email saying just that. But she didn't, she sent you an email...
  23. She wants to be in contact with you. She's...

    She wants to be in contact with you. She's sending you a confusing email because you most likely will respond, asking for clarification OR you don't respond but she doesn't feel like an idiot because...
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    Ok... so, why is she working more hours than she...

    Ok... so, why is she working more hours than she is being paid for? Did she tell you? I just find this whole thing a bit iffy...

    I don't understand why she feels the need to hide things from you....
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    I agree that the confrontation is detrimental but...

    I agree that the confrontation is detrimental but I don't agree that this "seems to be nothing".
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    It seems this issue has been ongoing for a while...

    It seems this issue has been ongoing for a while now, I don't think a few days will make a difference. I think it will take work and time and patience if he wants to rekindle the commitment.
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    I don't think you are blowing this out of...

    I don't think you are blowing this out of proportion at all. From a woman's perspective, I can tell you that something is up with her. I've been with my SO going on 9 years and we've been through a...
  28. Ahh the 'want what I can't have syndrom'... How...

    Ahh the 'want what I can't have syndrom'... How selfish a person must you be to put someone you love and care about through all this pain, and to destroy so many aspects of her life. And finally,...
  29. Actually, it's not See it's Seel, there's an L.

    Actually, it's not See it's Seel, there's an L.
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    I disagree with you Kaitou because I think she is...

    I disagree with you Kaitou because I think she is doing this in order to get a reaction out of him, be it positive or negative. Giving her what she wants provides opportunity for communication and by...
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    Read this book, things will make more sense. ...

    Read this book, things will make more sense.

    Infidelity, Cheating Wives - Women's Infidelity

    Even without the infidelity part, still gives you a darn good idea about what goes through women's...
  32. Hi Zeeniee, Just wondering how you've been...

    Hi Zeeniee,

    Just wondering how you've been holding up these past few days. I know the ex is still in town for another few days. I hope everything is going fine and if you feel like posting an...
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    Hi, first of all I'd like to say that I think you...

    Hi, first of all I'd like to say that I think you are doing a good job at how you are approaching this, and how you are trying to work things out with your husband.

    I think it's interesting what...
  34. Répondez s'il vous plait means please answer, as...

    Répondez s'il vous plait means please answer, as in please answer the phone or please answer the door or please answer the question. Notice, there's no 's' between the letters e and p.
    ...
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    I think Tal is right. I'm sorry to say that he...

    I think Tal is right. I'm sorry to say that he seems to have responded to you out of courtesy, nothing more.

    The best things to do and oddly enough (even if I don't like saying this) your best...
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    I don't think he's wrong in this situation. He...

    I don't think he's wrong in this situation. He was honest from the start. He didn't pretend he didn't want something and then stray once he entered into a relationship with you.

    Honestly, if you...
  37. I doubt she would initiate contact. It all boils...

    I doubt she would initiate contact. It all boils down to whether you are willing to take the chance of being rejected or not. There is always that risk, but if you feel it's worth it, then you have...
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    Oh. Much better, thanks.

    Oh. Much better, thanks.
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    Did you know that if it was the other way around...

    Did you know that if it was the other way around and he was yelling at you, hitting you and being angry and violent, it would be considered abuse. Frankly, it's also considered abuse when you do it....
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    Oh boy..

    Oh boy..
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    I like responding to your questions, because even...

    I like responding to your questions, because even when your are speaking from emotion, you're still a rational, reasonable guy who genuinly wants objective advice. It's always a pleasure helping...
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    I think the issue here is that you got to tell...

    I think the issue here is that you got to tell her what was on your mind but she doesn't get the luxury of being heard, as a woman I can tell you that it must be frustrating as hell. If you feel she...
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    She me very well be suffering from post-partum,...

    She me very well be suffering from post-partum, she should definitely talk to her doctor. I had a friend change (almost) overnight after consulting her doctor who gave her anti-depressants to address...
  44. Get a big calendar, everyday that passes, mark it...

    Get a big calendar, everyday that passes, mark it with an X, do this everyday and everyday tell yourself that you cannot break the chain!
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    If you are serious about wanting to get over him,...

    If you are serious about wanting to get over him, here are a few tricks you can try. First, treat it like an addiction that you want to overcome. It will take time to overcome it and it will take...
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    Your fears will create many obstacles for you if...

    Your fears will create many obstacles for you if you don't learn to manage them better. No one can predict the future and no one can reassure you about what will happen with your situation. You...
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    I'm not crazy about getting in on this discussion...

    I'm not crazy about getting in on this discussion but I'd just like to point out that weight can vary on any one of these woman, they can both gain or lose 10 or 15 lbs. Facial features don't change...
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    There is a lack of communication in your...

    There is a lack of communication in your marriage. I'm not an expert on counselling but it's obvious your marriage would benefit from it. If you are committed to getting back the spark into your...
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    I think that in today's world, with women...

    I think that in today's world, with women juggling carreers and households and in the society of instant everything we live in, there has definitely been a shift in the way people 'date'. A lot of...
  50. I'm going on the assumtion that both have moved...

    I'm going on the assumtion that both have moved on a long time ago and want to rekindle the relationship after having grown and learned, not out of desperation and not because they cannot move on. My...
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