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You'll know when the time is right. Just don't try to move it to fast and jump in head first.

Don't put yourself through the time and effort of trying to fix things. If she wanted it to work out then she would have said that. If you don't want to feel like crap all of the time, then don do...

Sureal, you gave this response in a post to someone else, "Don't let his decisions control your life." Take your own advice now. Your boyfriend is making these decisions to be out with his friends....

It sounds like he just doesn't have time for you. It's not you that is the problem, and have all the right to want time together, but it doesn't sound like he is on the same page. You are just not...

And this is why office relationships are a bad idea! If he said that this is not going to work out, then why would starting over at work like you never knew each other make things any different? I...

Right now you may feel like you will not be able to find someone else like here, but in all reality there are a million other women that you will again someday feel like you will never find anyone...

Quit trying to get her back. Her taking control of her life needs to be her priority right now. Either she will get her life straightened out and realize that you are the person that she wants to be...

So I need to pull away from this ex situation. It's like she is keeping tabs on me, and wants to know everything I am doing. She has a new boyfriend, which really seems to be a rebound but that's...

Myspace and Facebook = JEALOUSY! It's amazing how upset these kind of sites make people. When me and my girlfriend split I took off the pictures of us and the first thing she said was why did you...

I'm an alcohol and drug counselor and see this every day. Talk to him first, but do it calmly. Ask him why he constantly drinks. If he starts getting up set just keep your cool with him. Blowing up...

OK, so how does everyone get over their shyness? I'm 26 and first meetings with someone are hell for me. I get so nervous it's like the cat has my tongue. It'll last the whole time too, I just freeze...

He obviously is not "the one" if he is gone now. There are going to be others who are "the one" and you will not be able to see your life without them. Truth is that life will go on, and you will...

I would honestly find someone else. There does come a point when age makes a difference. You're 25 and probably have an idea of what you want you're life to look like in 5 years. With her being 16,...

If a guy knows that he can do something like that and get away with it, then he is going to keep doing it. If you tell him that this is something you can't do anymore, then you need to stand your...

First of all, you DO NOT need the emotional and mental abuse that you are taking from him. Second, take a step back and look at why you love him. Do you love him for the person that he is, or are you...

You're only as busy as you think you are. If Both of you start thinking that you are too busy to see each other then you will be too busy. You'll find excuses not to. However, if this is a...

I've played that game before, and it was a big mistake! We dated for 3 years. There were a lot of fights towards the end, but I loved her with all my heart. I'm not sure how many time I played the...

Don't wait around. I did the same thing when I was 22. I met my girlfriend in college and we stayed together for 3 years. I had fallen out of love with her, and had things that I still wanted to do...

You really have nothing to worry about. I have seizures and this is how I look at it as it pertains to relationships. It's nice to know that there is someone who cares, but don't get overly scared...

OK, so my ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. I'm 26 and she's 19 (big mistake on my part! ). Looks like she went on the rebound and hooked up with an old ex who her family doesn't like. I accept...

That's a good question. I don't think it's just the females. It may be on this board, but I'm sure that if you went to another discussion area it would be total opposite. It could just be that the...

Happiness is a door that constantly opens and closes. The problem is that when the happiness door closes we look at it too long, and don't see the other happiness doors that are opening right in...

Talking to a therapist is one of the best things you can do. I had a lot of personal problems I was going through when I was your age. I never wanted to talk to anyone about them. I held onto all of...

He may miss the person until he moves on with his life.

Welcome to the real world man. This kind of stuff happens everyday. Chances are you were just in puppy love. Everything was perfect, nothing ever went wrong, and you were on cloud 9. Believe me, more...

It all depends on the relationship. A guy may break up with a girl knowing that she is not the person he is looking for and not think about her at all. On the other hand, the lady may break up with a...

In my experiences, a break usually means that you are not happy in the relationship and think that some time apart will suddenly change him. Chances are that his behaviors didn't come overnight,...

You're letting this situation rent space in your head. The more you think about it, the harder your life is going to become. Do not let her control your emotions. There is nothing worse than letting...

This is what helps me in these situations. Just read it and think about it

"Do not dwell on the past and get stuck in the why and how, because you can not change the past. Do not get stuck in the...

Something to remember is that everyone has their own ways of dealing with their emotions. Some people vent, some crank up the music for a while, some go on a rebound date, and in his case he uses the...

After 2 weeks of being broken up, you haven't had enough time to deal with everything that is going through your head. Chances are there is some confusion, hurt, a little anger, and a bunch of other...

I'm a drug and alcohol counselor and have been for 4 1/2 years. First of all you are on a lot of oxy's. There is no way for a quick taper. You need to go through detox. Detox will give you the meds...

Take a look at yourself and see what your part of the argument actually was. He may have started the argument, but it didn't just start for no reason. How did your actions, attitudes, or behaviors...

So I feel you pain buddy, I'm going through the same situation right now. It's easy for us to want to stay friends, but it hurts like hell. Every time you even talk to the ex, you are just ripping...