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You must leave this man. Life with a violent man is not the future you deserve. Tell the police, tell your family, tell everyone what he has threatened. Listen to the police's advice on how to best...
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This is a bad situation. The fact that she has stated that her daughter comes first; before the marriage and the family as a whole suggests a very unhealthy relationship between your wife and step...
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Tat's a tough question. There are different degrees of "autism" and "autistic like behaviors". In general the deffinition of autism is a "pervasive developmental disorder" which means it affecta all...
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All you can do is give her space. When the time is right, she will return or you will move on... no one can predict. But there is no shortcut to seeing what happens.
Best wishes,
dwalex
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Your parents are getting in the way because they love you. If he is the one then tell him he will have to wait until you are older and can make that choice without parental interference.
Best...
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I'm confused too. Why can't you get a car and a job?That doesn't appear to be asking much of a 27 year old. Also, why are you interested in a 54 year old? Have you convinced yourself that you can do...
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As yourself, "Why do I love him?" Think about it. If even a small part of the answer is that you do not feel accepted or like you have a life without a boyfriend then you do not love hin, you love...
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Sounds pretty crazy. If you are unhappy with the situation, ask yourself, "Don't I deserve better than this?" If you answer is yes move on but not necessarily to another boyfriend, perhaps its time...
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Its very hard for me to reply because I do not know what you have and have not tried. Briefly, you must come up with consequences that are severe enough to be meaningful and consistently aply them to...
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I have found women to have a double standard on this. They say that only perverts go to clubs featuring female strippers but if the Chippendales come to town... get out of there way they are there...
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Many thirteen year olds appear to be adult in both appearance and at least on the surface in maturity. Your feelings are natural and not perverted as you have not acted on them. Self control is what...
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OK, calm down. I was a single dad when my 12 year old daughter started her period and again when her younger sister did. YOU CAN HANDLE THIS!! Look up on Google "Facts about starting menstration" and...
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You need to have more respect for yourself than to be allowing yourself to settle for this obvious looser. He is in jail because he cannot control himself. Dump him and go find someone to spend your...
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Dump him, he is a looser. If he harasses you notify your school authorities and/or the police.
Best wishes,
dwalex
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At your age why are you still under your mother's watchful eye. Its time to grow up and live your own life. You appear to know that happiness is more than money; happiness is also more than living up...
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If he disrespects you now, he will disrespect you 10 years from now- BECAUSE THAT IS WHO HE IS - DUP HIM and move on. My advice is to wait to have sex at least until you are with the guy you know you...
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Be yourself, live a life you can be proud of, pursue your dreams and goals, focus less on finding a date just for the sake of having a date and the right lady will find you. Be patient and enjoy life...
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It is hard to answer as I do not know your age or if she is into the gang lifestyle as well or just her brothers. If you are in High School as I suspect, and she is not into the hgangs in any way...
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You need to have more respect for yourself than to consider taking someone like this back. Like so many young people you place a lot of your sense of self worth on being in a relationship. You need...
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You can love someone and they can love you and still not be right for each other. You have given this relationship two chances and spent 4 years of your life tied to this person. IT IS TIME TO MOVE...
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The only real solution is practice. You must force yourself to speak up and to continue on even if you seem to stumble. I recommend joining a club or organization of some sort that has girl members....
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I met my wife on match.com. A lot of people are scheptcal of these services but if you look around you can find ones that are ligit. Match.com does have a small fee for men but I found the...
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There are many ways. Amongst the best is to get involved in sdome type of club or volunteer activity where you can meet others in a non threatening way, then as you develop relationships casualy you...
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My advice is to explain it to him exactly as you have explained it to us, then tell him that you value your friendship and want to remain friends but that you cannot be in a romantic relationship...
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I am so sorry that you got hooked up with this example of the male gender to have you first sexual experience with. If he lies to you and does not respect your wishes, he iis not good enough for you....
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It is part of the human condition, believing that we are more important than we are and that life can not continue without us.
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You need to tell him exactly how you feel and tell him that he needs to make room for you in his life. If he will not, move on - life is too short to stay in dead end relationships.
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I met my wife on the internet, so it can work. It sounds like you have come to a decision point. Do something to take the relationship to the next level or just admit that its not going to work...
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I was asked to clarify by ua-girl. It is my belief and the belief of many christian faiths that the God we believe in is available to us in three forms, the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost. This...
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I noticed that you did clarify and that as I feared, we are talking about a young adult dating a teen. As I stated previously, young adults should be out doing young adult things, going to college,...
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Reality check time! You do not love Bobby. If you did you would not disrespect him like that and be with other boys. My guess is that you like the attention and even the negative attention of...
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You say that you have been open and honest in the past, suggesting good comunication, SO ASK HER why things have changed. Tell her that you value your friendship but that you do not wish to be...
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You must put aside your past issues and resentments and somehow let him know that you are supportive of him in the life he is pursuing. I cannot say much more as you did not give much to go on.
Best...
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As a "guy" I can say that we do not like the "games" that you girls seem to like to play. It would be refreshing to most guys for you to just tell us, "Hey, I'm really starting to have stronger...
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If you are intersted in a girl because you think she is the type of person you could have a meaningful relationship with, yes tell her you are intersted and then the best thing to do is be yourself....
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I can not answer this question without hesitating as you did not give me enough info. If he is 18 and you are 14 then I would question the relationship as that would be an adult dating a child and...
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You must stick to your values. If his going to the strip club goes against your values, he should respect that. If he does not then the relaionship is in trouble and you need to reevaluate. If this...
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This saying is really true, "If you love someone, set him free, if he comes back he is yours, if he does not, he never was"
Best wishes,
Dwalex
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Think about it like this, what gift would be more precious for her to give you on your wedding night than her viginity? Why rob her... And you of that opportunity? Sounds like you got a winner,...
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This is an opinion, not expert advice. Early in a relationship, I believe you should allow the man the honor of paying the bill. If the relationship progresses, you can voice your willingness to...
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This is the inherent problem with living together out of wedlock, the true commitment is not there. If you love him, give him time and space but NOT TOO MUCH. If he does not come around, at some...
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It sounds like you are lucky. If he treats you right and is otherwise a great guy, then this is your issue not his.
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This one is easy. Leave him. End of discussion
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It sounds like to me that you are looking for meaning and value in life. You get some satisfaction out of relationships which gives you a false sense of meaning but when the "new: wears off the false...
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You can't go back to 1600 as the census does not go back that far. A Google search should get you info as far back as the census goes. Most people weho are into genealogy (which I am not( usually end...
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I sense your feeling of helplessness, but you can handle this if you will choose to. I know this as you have handeled everything in life so far and you can handle this if you will believe in...
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Gee, that last responder apears to have "issues". But back to your question, Jews did in fact persecute Christians, it is in the Bible. Anyone with strong religious convictions is going to have...
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Instead of a tumor, how about an anurism (I'm sure that's misspelled but I can't access spell check in this venue - Oh well!) which could be identified and require surgery by a specialist and could...
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I would love to help but I simply cannot do an adequate job in this format. My suggestion is to have him seak out a competent hyonotherapist as this is often the best and fastest way to uncover the...
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I am so glad that you are asking about a single night and not an ongoing situation. The main concern with alcohol is Fetal Alcohol Syndrom which is the most common preventable cause of Mental...
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