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Oct 27, 2009, 12:17 PM #14 Report Inappropriate Post
smoothy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Northern Virginia
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This person feels that gays are immoral. Please take his advice with a grain (or two) of salt. Straight people throw their lifestyles in our face every day.

Hi there;
Are you in a town with a University? Often they have coming out/support groups for young adults. This might be a good way to come out and meet others going through the same situation as...

Get a grip. Plus, Judy didn't make the offensive post.

You can ask him about the dinner and his cell phone, but you already know he lies. He'll only lie some more. Sounds like he's hiding something from you, and that something is probably another woman.

You're being played. Period. This guy is using you for sex. You will never marry him. Move on and find somebody decent.

Oh, I see where you're going now, LOL! Of course, I made the decision to act upon my gay tendencies. Just as you handle your dinky when you please, or have sex with your wife. People have gay sex...

You can interview every gay person in the U.S. and they'll tell you it wasn't a choice. Since you are not gay and have admittedly never made a choice to be straight, you're really not much of an...

I was raised with "values and morals" too. In no way did my deeply religious mother encourage me in any way to be gay. This has squat to do with environment. Gay people are wired differently- it's...

This thread is nearly five years old. I think the problem has been resolved, don't you?

Yah, I saw the conversation according to Mud. Clearly, she'd made some commentary to him concerning his affection for his pets. In the end, she insulted him by telling him to go have sex with them....

No... Mudweiser is finds it odd that he has three cats and enjoys them. Apparently some sort of gender role issue. The most hunky, macho, straight guy I know has three cats!

You're correct. Something isn't right, and you just gave out a clue.
Let's delve a bit deeper here... he wants phone sex? How long has that been going on? Perhaps he's one of those guys that...

I'm at a loss. I don't understand why he would engage in sex with you knowing 1) he's not attracted to you, and 2) you were a virgin.

I'd have a heart-to-heart with him. He needs to tell you...

So, you could have gone either way then? Guys or girls? But you chose to be straight?

You might get in a bit quicker if you're honest... at least say that you are having a lot of pain due to some bumps on your vulvar area. Trust me... the folks at your doctor's office have...

I've never had any luck with herbal remedies. HRT can be taken in pill, cream or patch form.

That sucks. Mine came back completely- I don't know if it's due to the bioidentical part, or my chemistry, or the fact that I'd only lost my libido for four months before I got a prescription. I...

This thread should perhaps be directed to Adult Sexuality.

You are the only person who can answer this question. I was married when I finally came to the realization that I was a lesbian......

The silence is deafening! Here's a link I picked up from the Thom Hartmann show yesterday...
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I'm curious... why didn't you move your fence directly onto the property line? You gave them three feet of lee-way. In some states, if your neighbors mow and maintain the area that is your property...

slapshot_oi is right... most of us in this culture don't have to weigh our words so carefully. Based on your description of the conversation with Mr. Ho, I can see why such caution on your part was...

I'm not finding any links with accurate lists of bioidentical docs... here is a link to help you locate a compounding pharmacy in your area. If you contact them, they can tell you who prescribes...

Unfortunately, big pharma isn't interested in women's libidos... so doctors don't have a lot to work with.
I suggest that your partner visit a doctor who prescribes bioidentical hormones. He or...

All of the above answers are right on. You must contact the police- they can contact his school and call his parents and let THEM know what's going on. None of this is your fault, and it's not your...

Yes... this is going to be the biggest issue.

If you can't reveal your true self to somebody, you'll never really be loved or be in love. The revealing of one's self to another trusted person...

No, you're only human, after all. But try to listen and remember. It shows the other person that you actually do listen, which is something that women appreciate.

Start a conversation with a...

Desperation is not the same as depression- it means more a loss of hope, to the point that you might recklessly reach out for any one, just to have a girl friend. To a woman, a "desperate" guy would...

I can give you a few tips...
As you correctly stated, people here in the states are not so formal... you must really force yourself to address people (at least potential love interests) by their...

At first glance, it does sound like you haven't met the right girl. For example, did this "online" date tell you she loved you after one date? If so, that would send a BIG red flag up for any...

This thread is over two years old. I think the OP has probably resolved this issue.

Yes... in light of the fact that you never got his "real" phone number, I'd even hazard a guess that he's married!

I haven't noticed that society pressures gay teens to come out- if anything, the bullying of perceived gay kids in high school is so severe, it causes many kids to commit suicide.

As for coming...

If you can't afford medical care for your cat, you should surrender her to somebody who can. Sariss is right... try to work out a payment plan if you can't pay all at once.

Here's the deal, peeps... keep your cats inside, where they belong. Cats are decimating many bird and small animal species when they are allowed to roam. I do not advocate the cruel way in which...

Atheist. Since the age of ten.

I'm on Facebook, and it's not a dating service at all. My profile is open only to friends and family. The only people who can contact me are people I choose.

How are you supposed to fix his not trusting you in 14 hours? Is he willing to go see a counselor with you? And finally, does he complain that you're too clingy? The only reason I'm asking that...

Yikes!

Not weird. Here's a funny video from a guy with three cats. He's kind of cute! YouTube - An Engineer's Guide to Cats

Like the others say, don't respond at all. Your silence will speak volumes. If you try to engage with him, you're encouraging him.

D'oh! Cute puppy!

Hmmm. I can see why you're concerned. It makes sense that if one of a couple has friends, the other person in said couple knows about or has met these friends. It does sound as if he's being...

I'd talk with hubs and ask him why he thinks oral is "gross". Maybe you can slowly train him into it... take a bath right before sex, use flavored oils if it will help, etc. You know from your fling...

You've really left out a lot of detail. Have you found him on gay websites? Does he have gay porn? Have you found another woman's phone number or text messages on his phone?

How about his...

I think you're fine... I think it's the "eating out" part that's making you orgasm. I don't think it's about being drunk, I think it's about oral sex. Why won't your husband do it? Do you give him...

Perhaps take this kitten to a rescue shelter. He needs to be with people who can de-worm him and vaccinate him, neuter him, etc. If you can't afford to care for this kitten properly, you should...

'Tis you, mudweiser. :)

The people I know who accept lower rates based on income levels are not "less qualified". Clearly, you have the same issues as the O.P. If you've been through that many counselors who don't agree...

Where is the fact and "evidence" in the bible and the theory of "creationism"?