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I agree with the majority of the posts here that it is something that you should let go of... I think that you are in a good situation to be in an open adoption like that, that you can see her and...

That is very true Harum. There are many religious people that accept evolution, in fact most young-world creationists have accepted evolution but interpret it in their own way, which is fine.
Take...

I think that it is a good idea, as long as there is an agreement that one has to get certain grades in order to receive the financial aid. Obviously no one deserves to have their college paid for if...

I don't believe masturbation is such a selfish act. It's a normal part of being a male, and having healthy sexual relationships as well. To deny them doing that seems overly controlling. I would...

Obviously you're just here to make trouble. NO ONE is forcing anything on you. You came here, you read this and commented - all of your own free will. So if you're going to say anything, at least...

The Aztecs and Incans were completely different societies. That's like asking why the Germans and English didn't work together; same areas, different culture and society. They would have known about...

I don't think anyone is trying to force anything on anyone else. You are the only ones getting so upset about it, for some reason.

All the OP is doing is offering advice, because he cares about...

I agree that this is a good idea - but only because it gives the person SEVERAL options of public service. The military is not the only choice, you could join the PeaceCorp or AmeriCorps, etc. I...

I don't think you are wrong in feeling the way you do, nor do I think it's selfish in any way. You have been with him for a long time and it appears that while he has gotten some help, perhaps he's...

The Incans and Mayans were extremely civilized societies when the European conquered them. They were not more primitive, they simply had a different way of life.

Hey, I just thought I would get some opinions about a possible future piercing :) I have my left eyebrow pierced (for about 4 years now) and am thinking about getting a monroe piercing as well. I'm...

I know that normally it is not healthy to abruptly stop taking an anti-depressant. However since you are pregnant I'm not sure what the best thing to do would be. You should call your doctor...

I think you're taking all of the right steps here. You have been open and honest with her and yourself and already going to pre-marital counseling to deal with things. Just keep going to your...

If you have any doubts at all, NO, you should not.

Well 1deep, you DO know this is the "teen board"?

If you're worried you can test anytime

Hair is damaged in a lot of everyday ways, as well as when we do things such as blow drying, curling, dying, and yes, straightening. It does not mean it is damaged forever however, hair always grows...

If she doesn't call the doctor to do something about it, whoever would perhaps take the child away would have even more of a reason to do so.

This is about the child's health! If she not willing...

I think you need to let the guy who's moving away go. Yes you care about him greatly, but it is for the best to move on for both of your sakes. As for this other guy you are not quite interested in,...

I read your whole post, and I'm sorry that things were so difficult for you. It sounds like you have had a really hard time.

You said that you have had 4 years of therapy, right? Are you still...

It doesn't matter if you were spotting or not. You need the take the FULL pack of pills for an entire month in order for them to take full effect. You only took 3 weeks of them and missed 2 pills in...

If you are uncomfortable giving them advice, you have no obligation to do so. Don't tell them anything. Just say that you don't want to be involved and if they are interested in her they need to...

I have been in that situation too. I was the girl that got hurt because my friend went after a guy I really liked. She knew I liked him and asked him out anyway. It hurt, a lot. Does that make me a...

If you miss one pill, you take it as soon as you remember. If you miss 2, you take them both as soon as you remember and use a back up birth control method. If you miss 3, you have to start an entire...

Just be honest with him. If you aren't sure how you feel, then tell him that. Or better yet, just say that you're really flattered he's interested in you but you're not interested in him that way. If...

I really disagree with the above answer. If you just go and ask him out like that you're asking for trouble in a lot of ways. You could just go ask him out, then what? You've potentially ruined your...

Maybe she just does not want to be alone at night? Is there any way you can let her in your room while you are sleeping?

People have unprotected sex regardless of love or not. In fact, if you love someone, you should do the responsible thing and make sure that you DO have protected sex.

I don't know why you're asking, if you're not going to listen to your parents and their "blah blah blah" then why do you care what we think?

Seems like a mature couple ready for marriage should be...

I don't know the exact circumstances or how old the children are, but 7 years is a long time to pop back into their lives unexpectedly. Why don't you think of them and how they would feel about that?...

I'm sorry that you had the miscarriage, I'm sure it was very difficult for you. Perhaps you should see a counselor about your loss?

I highly doubt you are really thinking about your baby; you're...

From your other posts I see you're only 17? Are you even married? Why do you assume that getting pregnant will be a "Christmas present" to your boyfriend and his and your family? It's a child! Not...

You said you already tried to "shut down" and be neutral about it.

Of course you can't shut off your feelings; we can't help how we feel. But we can control how we react to them.
And you were...

You both are WAY too young, period, to even consider it. How long have you been with him? Is he ready to be a daddy? Are you ready to be pregnant? Ready to drop out of school and take care of a baby...

Rockstar, your responses are completely uncalled for. If you had a fight with your mom don't take it out on someone else like this. We are here for help and advice, not to belittle people and make...

All right then.

Good luck, I'm hoping it works out for you.

So you really think he should wait 7 years? You don't think there's something wrong with that? By you even stating that he should wait for her is implying that it's all right he has feelings for her....

If you would rather not be friends with them anymore, you don't need to tell them that. If they are continually leaving you out even though you talked to them, I would look to find new friends.
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I don't think the important issue here is about virginity at all.

It's about you needing to take a second look at your relationship with this girl. Which it appears you have... why are you still...

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You shouldn't feel bad at all! I really respect you for wanting to use double methods of birth control.

The fact that you want to be safe with her should show her that you are a trustworthy...

It isn't hopeless at all. Why don't you try listening to the advice all of these people have given you instead of being stubborn and ignoring it?

I know you still love her, but you have to let her do her own thing.

If you guilt her into staying there, she will only be bitter and resent you for it in the end.

You want her to be happy...

Haha :D Those are too good. I think the stop one is my favorite. You'd think at some point during that slow process that he/she would realize it? Obviously not.

I like this answer. I suppose I was talking much too specifically before, but this makes a lot sense in general

I see. I was meaning I wonder why some bible passages are followed so strictly while others are dismissed. Personally perhaps you don't do this, I am only talking in general.

For example...

Speaking of stupid quotes/signs...

I drive across South Dakota to go back home and see my parents. It's mostly a lot of grass, grass, cows and grass. There's this one billboard on the side of the...

Hehe.. well just aries is fine, or "you" works too :D

I agree about the bible. It has many inspiring and useful passages, as any self help book would, but I don't believe it as being the "word of...

Hurray for this thread Alty :)

I was raised a Christian (Lutheran) here in the Midwest. My mother was Catholic but took on my dad's Lutheran side when they married. I was always involved in the...

Yes you do have to believe in your culture to follow it. Yes you do have to be of a specific culture to be a Christian. If Christianity was universal, it would not be a cultural attribute. But it's...