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  1. We'll just keep on doing what we're doing. Like I...

    We'll just keep on doing what we're doing. Like I told him earlier today: "As long as we don't let this come between us, as long as we love each other and are committed to each other, anything...
  2. Well, mom kind of found out by herself. Mike came...

    Well, mom kind of found out by herself. Mike came over to support me and in case she wanted to talk... and basically she said that there is no point getting engaged if you don't plan to marry right...
  3. Who's rushing? Under even the soonest we'd be...

    Who's rushing? Under even the soonest we'd be thinking of setting the date for that would still be almost 3 years engaged.
  4. Yeah, adding this to the other thread probably...

    Yeah, adding this to the other thread probably would have made more sense. Any way of getting a question removed on this site besides reporting it?
  5. Yes I realize the fact I am making a mountain out...

    Yes I realize the fact I am making a mountain out of a molehill now that you mention it. It's not fair to anyone to be dishonest because I'm worried about what she'll say.
  6. Well, family is kind of important to me, and I...

    Well, family is kind of important to me, and I really don't want to cause any conflict if I can help it---I'm living at home with her during university. If she's not happy, I won't be happy.
  7. Engaged, but only his family knows. Nervous about telling mine.

    My fiancé and I have been engaged for a couple months now, and we just told his family on the weekend. I wasn't entirely sure what their reaction would be, but so far it seems very positive and...
  8. LOL Stupid army not giving Mike time to ask...

    LOL Stupid army not giving Mike time to ask properly. We've decided to just wait until the holidays to tell everyone.
  9. Well, I talked to dad when I went over for dinner...

    Well, I talked to dad when I went over for dinner tonight about perhaps having Mike come over with me, but dad said he just wanted to spend time with me and my sister. He said Mike seems like a nice...
  10. My fiancé thinks it's important to ask my dad (a little belated)

    I've been with my fiancé about a year now, and he really makes me truly happy and treats me like a princess, but I'm not so sure about his plan to ask my dad for my hand.

    Ideally, I would have...
  11. Thanks, I guess I am a little too worried,...

    Thanks, I guess I am a little too worried, especially when it's over something great.
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    Remember this: in a few years, you will all seem...

    Remember this: in a few years, you will all seem like enormously immature dorks, and you're all nervous. Some just hide it better.

    Just work hard, find time to hang out, don't worry about dating...
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    Any idea where she went? If you have reason to...

    Any idea where she went? If you have reason to believe that she was using you to stay in the country, I'd be consulting someone who knows more about immigration law and divorce.
  14. Have you been taking the pill regularly? It's...

    Have you been taking the pill regularly?

    It's not a magical sperm-blocker, it works by consistently maintaining hormone levels similar to pregnancy in order to prevent ovulation, so you have to...
  15. This is not going to be fun, but going into panic...

    This is not going to be fun, but going into panic mode and calling too much, leaving roses all the time will probably not help her calm down. Give her some space and be supportive and she might just...
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    Hey, I was in your same situation too. Now I'm in...

    Hey, I was in your same situation too. Now I'm in university and I'm engaged. I didn't find my guy the first time, I had to go out with a few guys who weren't for me first. Even if you don't have an...
  17. Not particularly good, but there's always a...

    Not particularly good, but there's always a chance. I would suggest being more careful in the future.
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    I wouldn't tell her unless something comes out of...

    I wouldn't tell her unless something comes out of it. No sense straining the friendship.

    You could always ask him if he remembers what happened. I wouldn't ask outright if you had sex, or he might...
  19. I doubt your mom actually just kicked you out,...

    I doubt your mom actually just kicked you out, which means you probably just got into a fight and now you want to leave. So maybe you should just try and patch things up with your mom or just forget...
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    Okay you want me to respond as to why I might not...

    Okay you want me to respond as to why I might not be giving advice... I have no clue what you are talking about in the beginning of the thread.
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    She does sound like she is interested if she...

    She does sound like she is interested if she perceived it as at least kind-of dating. It's possible she sees you as a friend, but only one way to find out for sure.
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    You could and the hormone levels aren't high...

    You could and the hormone levels aren't high enough, or your period could just be late.

    After fertilization and implantation, the unterine lining is maintained by hCG (human chorionic growth...
  23. Young Couple, Engaged, worried about her parents reaction

    I recently got engaged to my boyfriend (fiance now I guess) and we're waiting a little while to tell everyone because we're not really sure how my family will react. I'm 19, in university and he is...
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    It looks like you know that you'll need to move...

    It looks like you know that you'll need to move on. A lot of people have trouble accepting that.

    Everyone's been betrayed, everyone's been let down. You'll get over it, but it'll still suck.
  25. Question: Will he marry me

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    I'm sorry but I can't think of any easy, fun...

    I'm sorry but I can't think of any easy, fun solutions to this. Guess it's time for a little discussion about where you think this relationship will/should go, or next time he says "one day" mention...
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    Do have any close, supportive friends or...

    Do have any close, supportive friends or relatives you could stay with? Nearby women's shelter? Get out of the house, file for restraining order and as long as you stay apart long enough that should...
  27. I am continuing my relationship with my guy, like...

    I am continuing my relationship with my guy, like I said, thinking about this ending is like contemplating the death of a loved one in the pain I feel at the idea of it. I'm an intelligent, mature...
  28. Question: Not getting wet?

    by shyfoxie
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    I glossed over the part where he said friend...

    I glossed over the part where he said friend completely (I assumed he meant girlfriend). So wait... she's young, not really super-hot for you specifically and you're having sex? Maybe she might be...
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    I can guarantee you that pretty much anything you...

    I can guarantee you that pretty much anything you want explained could not be possibly too taboo for a site that specializes in anonymity. No one really will judge you this forum especially, I think.
  30. Well I was already doing this by myself even...

    Well I was already doing this by myself even before I met him, so I was just hoping that it'd make things easier to do. So far things have been great with him (I'm resisting the urge to use...
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    He probably doesn't want to seem like he's being...

    He probably doesn't want to seem like he's being disloyal to his mother. Depending on the relationship between his parents (cordial? Tense? Adversarial?) he may also be having trouble determining his...
  32. Question: First time sex

    by shyfoxie
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    Mine was great! I pretty much pounced on him a...

    Mine was great! I pretty much pounced on him a few minutes later when he got it up again (mmm... I still do that a lot) I was really sore the next day though, unfortunately.

    He'd spent a LOT of...
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    I have a feeling this is something that'd be...

    I have a feeling this is something that'd be worked out if she understood that, well, the sex isn't necessarily about whether he gets to come, but whether they both get to enjoy it. Guys need passion...
  34. I'm pretty sure the Chinese guys want to, but...

    I'm pretty sure the Chinese guys want to, but it's not culturally appropriate.

    It's accepted, even expected, for western guys to be forward. But that doesn't mean they'll demand sex, heck if they...
  35. Is using a toy on my "back door" a good prep strategy for anal

    I think I'd like to try anal with my boyfriend for several reasons:
    1) I like being touched back there
    2) I've got a dildo vibe that I discovered a while back is nice in there if I lube it a bit...
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    Who said anything about half-hard? I think the...

    Who said anything about half-hard? I think the post meant half-way.

    Oh, by the way, in case you're feeling like everyone out there who's any good in bed does this... even Jenna Jameson said in an...
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    Sorry honey, that's normal. He's only human,...

    Sorry honey, that's normal. He's only human, after all. Everyone needs to work on keeping things spiced up after a while, you two just need to work this out.

    And it's entirely possible that he...
  38. Question: Female orgasm

    by shyfoxie
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    Get a good-quality plug-in electric vibrator with...

    Get a good-quality plug-in electric vibrator with multiple speeds and let her just play around with it. No pressure, no time limit, no preconcieved notions of "how", you don't even need to be in the...
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    Consider the following: Which woman would you...

    Consider the following:

    Which woman would you be able to/like to spend the most time with (both in and out of bed)?
    Why did you and your ex break up?
    Why are you in a relationship with your...
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    There's nothing on here you would probably say...

    There's nothing on here you would probably say that is more embarrassing that what's been said by other people.
    Need a psychoanalytic dream interpretation or something?
  41. Question: Not getting wet?

    by shyfoxie
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    Try a hypoallergenic brand or a "sensitive" type...

    Try a hypoallergenic brand or a "sensitive" type water-based lube.
    And make sure she's aroused enough. And ask right when you enter her how it feels for a bit.
    My boyfriend and I's rule of thumb:...
  42. I'll try letting him know how much I want it,...

    I'll try letting him know how much I want it, I've been trying not to make it seem like I'm pressuring him, but on the other hand I've also made it seem like I might not care about the subject as...
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    The trick is to look mature and put-together, not...

    The trick is to look mature and put-together, not provocative or overdone. Never try to look like you're wearing makeup--ideally cosmetics should just enhance your looks, not replace them.
    And most...
  44. He is trying, it's just that he appears to have...

    He is trying, it's just that he appears to have serious performance anxiety. I know there's plenty of advice for how a guy can get a girl more comfortable sexually, but less on how to ease a guy's...
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    A gynecologist specializes in female reproductive...

    A gynecologist specializes in female reproductive health. Just like a urologist handles those issues for men.
    It's just a specialization in training. Your family doc would probably give you a...
  46. easiest way to assist a guy with getting comfortable with oral

    My boyfriend is a bit inexperienced (as am I), and he'd never gone down before he was with me. The first time we got to 3rd base (to use the cliche) he asked if I wanted him to, but when he got there...
  47. Question: I Cry

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    He probably doesn't want to feel like he might be...

    He probably doesn't want to feel like he might be hurting you, so that might explain why he doesn't want to have sex.
    If you feel like this is leftover from the abuse, then get help. If you just...
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    Not necessarily, took me about a month to figure...

    Not necessarily, took me about a month to figure on a definite "no" once.
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    Well... if you can't think of anything else, try...

    Well... if you can't think of anything else, try talking about something you've done e.g... "mmm...I really liked hearing you moan when I/we/you _____"
    "hey baby, I've been missing you all day,...
  50. Judging from my boyfriend, yes. I was cleaning up...

    Judging from my boyfriend, yes. I was cleaning up after breakfast, wearing cute-yet-not-sexy red penguin jammies, and he came in after taking out the trash and he looked over me and was like "god I...
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