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    IF YOUR current love is not aware of your...

    IF YOUR current love is not aware of your continued contact with your ex... you must ask yourself... why do you feel the need to hide this relation... are you emploring the old spare tire routine in...
  2. Your focus needs to be redirected to self... are...

    Your focus needs to be redirected to self... are you afraid of being alone, do you find identity in a man... I ask because if someone openly admits that they are not ready for a relationship, yet you...
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    You are hurt and confused because you wanted more...

    You are hurt and confused because you wanted more from her than she was willing to give. You took on the role of caretaker and you allowed yourself to open to her, in hopes that she would honor your...
  4. Question: Can't get over it

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    Most often when a person is unable to move on, it...

    Most often when a person is unable to move on, it is merely because the ex partner has exposed you to a part of yourself that once was hidden. People bring out the best/worst/the unknown in us......
  5. Question: 60 days?

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    Why are you projecting valuable energy in a dead...

    Why are you projecting valuable energy in a dead situation... if she is your ex, the relationship is redefined... she is an ex... it is over for the two of you... you can still enjoy a healthy...
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    I need for you to applaud you eye candy... this...

    I need for you to applaud you eye candy... this man has awaken that vivacious vixen your husband once knew... redirect this energy... be glad that you know "You still got it girl"... now remind your...
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    You desire intimacy without the committment; that...

    You desire intimacy without the committment; that is never a good place to be; do not be afraid to have your own with all the ups and downs that go with any relationship. More importantly, love...
  8. Question: OddS and EndS?

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    There is an adage that states "never back a woman...

    There is an adage that states "never back a woman into a corner, for out of desperation there is no telling what she will do". Lady you know better than us all. If you truly want him back, what will...
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    Be careful that you just don't have sex on the...

    Be careful that you just don't have sex on the brains. Every one looks good in a two minute window. What I mean, can he truly handle the fact that you will be missing in action at any given time; is...
  10. As a woman, I relate to your girlfriend... when...

    As a woman, I relate to your girlfriend... when you have in your mind images of what a relationship should look like, the responsibility, accountability of my part in it. If I do not feel that I can...
  11. Question: Idont know?

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    You are someone with a lot of creative energy....

    You are someone with a lot of creative energy. You must find the positive flow of that energy and you will experience a great life. You will find purpose if you heed that inner voice, that inner...
  12. Question: Keeping Quiet

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    Allow yourself to enjoy peace... you know that...

    Allow yourself to enjoy peace... you know that whomever you share your intimate details of life with may betray or honor our confidence, in either case we understand that we can not control what...
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    Does Edna have a Will, be it a Living Will or a...

    Does Edna have a Will, be it a Living Will or a Last Will & Testament, the answer to this question will highlight your next steps to take... if a will exist... then whatsoever is outlined shall be...
  14. Legal obligation revolves around Intent... His...

    Legal obligation revolves around Intent... His motive for allowing the items to stay in your home and take them with him; and your motive for not insisting that he remove the items; You stated that...
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    Your son.. was he extremely close to his father.....

    Your son.. was he extremely close to his father.. if so, remind him that life goes on... re-enforce the values your husband has taught him; help him commit to honoring his father's legacy... pray for...
  16. Question: Harassed

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    Ignorance had a tendency to bring out the worst...

    Ignorance had a tendency to bring out the worst in people; therefore, call this young lady over to yourself and have a heart to heart with her. Let her know that you can be her confidant, you are not...
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    Be careful, unlike America, public records can be...

    Be careful, unlike America, public records can be adjusted for the correct price, so it would be difficult but not impossible. However, I question; how does the word friend indicate marriage. Sounds...
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    I would like for you to consider this: How is it...

    I would like for you to consider this: How is it that you have enough strength to endure, yet feel weak to make the break. Change can be difficult but you must understand that until the pain of...
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    I love the fact that you are willing to be honest...

    I love the fact that you are willing to be honest with yourself, admitting that you are not doing anything to change your situation. I know you understand that to change this state of mind, to move...
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    Extend yourself

    Years ago and currently according to religious convictions, marriage amongst once removed relations is an acceptable practice; however, you selll yourself short by clinging to your cousin, you are...
  21. Question: Bossy and clingy

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    Redirection needed

    I'm old-school, I do not believe in a sassy child, a child must know his/her place. She has seen this behavior and has adopted it as her own, especially if it yields the results she desire. Negative...
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    What truly lies inside?

    Your seek is honorable; however, the source needed to reach your students rest within you, as you seek the Spirit of Truth that shall lead and guide you. Rely on that source to help you deliver that...
  23. Question: Deflation

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    Sense of expression

    Try not to be so hard on these people, they are only following traditions of expectation; however, some of them need to have their deflated inflatables on the lawn to help them get through this...
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    Test the Waters

    He questions his love for you, which signifies a few things; however, get the facts before jumping to conclusions. Take notice of his partner's lifestyle, is his partner a faithful man or one that...
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    New Image

    It is essential for the Christian believer to be led by the Holy Spirit. This results from spending time in prayer and reading the Word of God. It is also essential to be completely honest with what...
  26. Question: Need Help

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    Rest, relax and do not by all means sweat the small stuff

    Most of what you left at your ex's place, does not hold significant value, if a fire occurred it would be lost, burnt up in smoke. So, if he does not want to connect with you, in order for you to...
  27. Question: Lung Disease

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    Monitor yourself

    YOu state the incident occurred about a month ago, have you avoid dairy from your diet, was it only the one time.

    Lung diseases vary; however, food allergies may be the cause of your wheezing,...
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    Crazy in Love when it is all about you

    I applaud your honesty; however, I can't help but to wonder, why are you so self-destructive, why are you afraid of genuine success. Greed only mask your need for acceptance and approval; moreover,...
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    As a man thinks, so is he

    It is important to know the convictions of your heart... for some the Grimm Reaper is real, for others, he is the Death Angel and yet others discount the whole ideal regarding it as fantasy, child's...
  30. Question: Tuff situation

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    Fruit of seed planted

    You stated that your in-limbo girlfriend would anger when you would mention her past lovers; what I find interesting is the fact that you needed to keep them alive, as if, the power trip of being a...
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    Release... allow for guidance

    The especially hard notion to embrace... let go and let God. It is as if we feel that if we let go, then we did not care or love, but to the contrary... if we let go we exercise our faith in the...
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    Confusion equates to a battle of mind and heart

    You are a brave woman, one who has not allowed the abuse of her past to hinder her outlook on life. While I can not affirm or deny that Mike is your soul mate, I can attest that Mike represents ALL...
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    You shall have whatever you agree with

    The weak in heart and mind simply accept whatever has been spoken over them, whatever has been spoken concerning them, by merely accepting such, agreeing with such, it shall manifest. However, you...
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    Here's to the broken leg

    You are quite sensitive, while yet misguided. This is not a bad thing, it just needs an alignment shift.

    Your beloved needs a strong man, one who is confident, as well as caring. There is no...
  35. Question: Arguments

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    Mask of protection

    I am proud of you, the fact that you understand that you are needlessly and aimlessly starting arguments with your beloved. This indicates that you have given consideration towards your...
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    Clarification

    What your lawyer was advising you that as you send in the forms make sure that the proper certificates are filed with the corresponding forms, if not, this will cause delay,
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    Be anxious for nothing

    Sometimes we can peek into the looking glass beheld by another and know exactly the way they should go; however, it requires the beholder to assign such an assessment to reap the rewards of that...
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    What do you need?

    You have willingly stayed with a man that constantly attacks the strength of your well-being... your state of mind.

    First, know that you, the reason for the air you breathe stems beyond vending...
  39. Question: Scared him away

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    Side by side

    Ask him, not confrontationally... but ask him what it is that he desires of you... the baby will not be his issue unless he is uncertain as to your relationship with the baby's father.

    You must...
  40. Question: Not sure

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    Short term goal achieved

    Your are focused-driven, you set a goal and attain it with ease; however, your scope for attainment has been narrow due to a small handicap... what I mean by that is that your mental processes is...
  41. Question: Dilemma

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    Remember, a soft word turns away wrath

    We are taught to temper our words with salt, to perserve and restore the person, which leaves little room for the action.

    We never have to tell a homeless person, that he/she is a vagabond, or a...
  42. Question: Help

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    continuation... redirect

    First, you must know and accept and embrace your own view of what a husband and father is... you must know where the base for these images stem from... more importantly... you must remain flexible......
  43. Question: Help

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    Redirect your focus

    You state that you want him to... change... stop drinking so much, stop spending quite so much time with the guys... Now, I ask you to stop for a minute and consider a few things... if you are...
  44. Question: Help with dating

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    8 = New Beginnings

    Sometimes it is easy to select an obvious trendy reason to excuse our behavior; however, in such a selection we find that the obstacle still prevails because we have not identified the source of our...
  45. No B.S.

    I want to applaud you for your confession; however, to attack this issue you must be ready to confront your truths... you know that you are lying; therefore, you can admit that you choose to lie...
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    Emotions

    Emotions are fleeting and they should be ignored when a decision has to be made... when emotions run rampant and decisions are made in the heat of them, the core... the heart of what is desired is...
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    Stop playing games

    Games can add a little spice to life, games can also send an incorrect message to the object of your affection. You state that she has a boy friend, a casual pal or one of more intent interest... if...
  48. Question: Advice

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    Intern

    You may want to seek an internship at a local tax office to get a hands on feel of the pace and expectation that awaits you, as well as, familiarizing yourself with tax laws in an applicable manner....
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    Time for a truce

    Blackmail is a strong, harsh word indicating an untimely publication of some situation or circumstance or otherwise truthful condition that has been previously overlooked or unknown... so if there is...
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    Strengthen your position

    If you want to make the mother of your child an honest woman, you want your family... continue moving upward... keep your job... stay sober... pay off or pay down the student loan... know that you...
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