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I have reread my post and feel so much stronger and wiser.

I am happy to tell you that I have been married over a year and 5 months. We seem to be more in love everyday. We both have been...

Traci is a different woman altogether. I am happy to say that we were married recently and very happy.

Thank you for the advice. I think you have hit the nail on the head.

I've been doing some reading and maybe this is part of my problem. Needing the security and emotional connection.

I just feel like I am worn out all the time. I'm so tired. My emotions are up and down and I am starting to affect my fiancée. Lately, I have been getting these little episodes where my heart...

Right now I don't think the main problem is the feelings for your EX.

It's that your boyfriend put his hands on you... choked you... locked you in a closet!!

Get the hell out of there......

Who are you talking about? Have you even read my story? I have moved on from that past relationship but learned from it. I'm with someone new and completely happy.

You are missing the point. You are broken up for a reason. Have you figured that out? What happened? What went wrong?

And all you want to do is get back in the same relationship without...

This is not the same woman that I was with for 7 years.

I'm in a new relationship or rather have been for the last 11 months. Everything has been wonderful. Even through the hard times we have...

This is going to be a hard time for you and you will get all kinds of good advice on this board but you have to look at what has happened and realize that all you can do is work on you.

Its common...

Just a quick update. Traci and I are doing better than ever and she asked me to move in. I am happier than I have ever been.

Bump... anyone else?

Mom... I miss you.

I wish you were here... I have so much to say. I have been through so much in the last year. Pamela and I broke up. It was hard. It was nothing we did but it just couldn't...

Hmmm... where to begin. I would say that she is going through some things. A breakup... medical problems... drugs. It can be pretty confusing. Sometimes people just need that comfort and...

WOW!! Thank you everyone for you kind words. I am happy to share my story with everyone... if it helps one person, than it has fulfilled its purpose.

I'm still doing great and enjoying my...

It's been a years since I first joined this site and I have come full circle.

When I first started posting, I was desperate just like most people on this forum, to work it out... to make things...

Thanks... here is some friendly advice for everyone. Take care of you first... your body and mind.

As far as relationships are concerned...

Maybe...it is true that we don't know what we...

Knowing that life presents us with no more than we are able to handle, we may become weak... lose breath... perhaps even lose our way. But even then, the path is chosen and answers are being...

Its not to bad. I get to travel around a little. My company just buys the plane ticket and that's about it. I book the hotel, find my way there and to where ever I have to work. I almost always...

Well... here I sit in a hotel on a business trip in Japan. Just sitting in the hotel room thinking. Thinking about the ex. Not anything in particular... just wishing I could talk to her. Not...

I can at that. Life is what you make of it... I may get knocked down or beaten up but you will never break me. You can never break my spirit. I'll keep getting up and fighting back.

Enigmanetic Im 31. I don't know about being a hero or anything... im just trying to find a little bit of peace of mind. I probably should be trying to make my life less complicated and focus on...

The one girl and I had a great time. But she also just got out of a 6 year marriage. We became really intense... really fast. We literally spent 2 weeks together. One week of staying night and...

Well... here is a current update. Ive stopped seeing the one girl. We were really close for a month then we just spit. We are still friends and talk. Since then I have been hanging out with a few...

In the way he acts... the way he touches you. He does things not because you expect him too... but because he wants to.

When I was with my ex... I would leave love notes... come home with a...

Its amazing how outside influences can affect ones sexual libido. It works for both sexes as well. My ex didn't have self confidence and was stressed because of school. We maybe had sex once a...

I'm not exactly sure I agree that this is his problem so much. If you have anxiety problems and other issues that you are depending on him to help... cure... work through then he is probably overly...

There are many reasons a man might not want to have sex... other than cheating.

Stress... self esteem issues... family issues... a death in the family... depression... problems down there...
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You have to look out for yourself... respect yourself. If she wants to go date other people then let her go. If you try to hold onto her while she is in this phase in life... you will get hurt very...

Haha... funny that you say that. She does! They are great.

Nope... not a rebound. We are just going with the flow. We enjoy each others company and time. We laugh and talk all the time we are together. We are dating but not in the traditional sense. We...

Updates.

Everything is going great. Just great. Too much has been happening to explain it all but I've made some awesome new friends that are into most things I'm into. We have such a blast...

Well... Got a call on Monday night to go hang at my friend Becky's house for some drinks and conversation. While I was there I met someone named (lets call her) Jane. We talked for a second but she...

I hear you man. I miss her too. Her and I are still friends but right now we can't really communicate that well. Just need to wait till the emotional dust settles.

Thanks for the support. I guess everyone is entitled to some weakness every now and then. Last night I was going through some old stuff in the attic and I ran across some letters we sent. Such...

Its been been 4 days since she left... her smell is still on the pillow. I can't stop the tears...

Well... she left this morning. I miss her but I know that in time it will fade some. I'm a little lost for feelings right now. So much has happened in the last week that she was here. Feels like...

Thanks... its one of 3 I have. That's my race bike and I have another project race bike and a street bike.

I appreciate the positive advice but... she and I can never be. She will always be my friend. Nothing I could ever do would bring us back together. The path we are on... she can never come back to...

We both did. It's a hard situation. But it doesn't matter. She is my friend and we can never be anything more. Which I am fine with.

Very wise words Jiser.

Im going through the same thing right now. But I'm in no rush to get in another relationship as I want to be me for awhile and be happy with that.

But what I am...

Update.

She is down here staying with me. She came to make sure I was OK. Its been hard for both of us. We have both said things that have hurt. So many feelings. So much hurt but we have...

Nice user name by the way. Tagalog for "I love you."

Its good that you have been honest with him about your contact with your "ex". But your boyfriend is probably wondering why you would...

Little Update to the situation.

Im doing good. I have been hanging with my friends... going to the gym... and working on my hobbies. I've been making it a point to get in touch with old friends...

Statictable... I don't think it would be a mature decision just to drop a relationship when you hit a snag.

How often does he go? What are the circumstances? If he is going out with the guys...

You have me worried with the whole attempted suicide. I think that you really depended on her for your happiness and made her your whole world.

You really need to seek some counseling. No...

You need to protect yourself financially as well. All bills... loans... bank accounts... Retirements...

Just as a reminder... so everyone knows.




Im not delusional. I repeat myself AGAIN... I'm not holding out hope here folks. I'm not trying to win her back. I'm not spouting love songs and...

Exactly. But does that mean we can't be friends. I think not. We fit good together that way. So why not make the best of it.

I know how you are feeling. I wanted the same things. You have already lost her but you just haven't accepted it yet.

If you are going to have trouble holding your emotions in check when you...